Interpersonal Communication Skills
Interpersonal Communication Skills
Interpersonal Communication Skills
Skills
Question 2
What are the tips for improving inter-personal skills in a business organization ?
Answer
Tips for improving interpersonal skills: Lines of communication must be open between
people who rely on one another to get work done. Poor interpersonal communication skills,
which include active listening, result in low productivity simply because one does not have the
tools needed to influence, persuade and negotiate which are necessary for workplace
success. To get this success the following tips are suggested:
(i) Congruency in communication elements: If the words used are incongruent with the other
interpersonal communication dynamics interpersonal communication is adversely
affected. Since communication is shared meaning, words must send the same message
as the other interpersonal communication dynamics – body language, facial expression,
posture, movement, tone of voice to help emphasize the truth, sincerity and reliability of
the communication. A consistent message ensures effective communication.
(ii) Listening effectively: Effective or active listening is very important skill to enhance
interpersonal communication. Listening helps to build strong personal relationships. The
process of communication completes when the message as intended by the sender is
understood by the receiver. Most of the persons assume that listening is natural trait, but
practically very few of us listen properly. One needs to give the communicator of the
message sufficient attention and make an effort to understand his view point.
Functions of Interpersonal Communication
Question 3
Explain the functions of interpersonal communication.
Answer
Functions of Interpersonal Communication: Interpersonal communication is important
because of the following functions it achieves:
Gaining Information: One reason, we engage in interpersonal communication, is to gain
knowledge about another individual. We attempt to gain information about others so that we
can interact with them more effectively.
Building Understanding: Interpersonal communication helps us to understand better what
someone says in a given context. Words can mean very different things depending on how
they are said or in what context. Content Messages refer to the surface level meaning of a
message. Relationship Messages refer to how a message is said. The two are sent
simultaneously, but each affects the meaning assigned to the communication and helps us
understand each other better.
possible. Active listening is important for several reasons. First, it aids the organization in
carrying out its mission. In addition, it helps individuals to advance in their careers. It
provides information that helps them to learn about important happenings in the organization,
as well as assisting them in doing their own jobs well. It also helps build strong personal
relationships.
Question 6
What are the guidelines for “Active Listening”?
Answer
Guidelines for Active Listening
♦ Look at the person and suspend other things you are doing in order to understand
the other person’s concerns, intentions.
♦ Be interested in what the other person is saying. If you just can’t make yourself
interested, you will lose important information, so try taking notes. Doing so will
keep your body and mind active.
♦ Listen to the tone of voice and inflection; look at gestures and body language –
these may carry an unspoken message.
♦ Restate what the person said. Restating their meaning is a way for you to make
sure you understand the person clearly.
♦ Ask questions once in a while to clarify the meaning. Doing so will keep you alert
and let the other person know that you have been listening and are interested in
getting all the facts and ramifications.
♦ Be aware of your own feelings and opinions.
Question 7
What is meant by 'Critical thinking'? How shall you develop critical thinking?
Or
Discuss the qualities of a critical thinker.
Answer
Critical Thinking: Critical thinking is the discipline of rigorously and skillfully using
information, experience, observation and reasoning to guide one's decisions, actions and
beliefs. Critical thinking refers to the act of question of every step of the thinking process e.g.
(i) Have you considered all the facts? Have you tested your assumptions? Is your reasoning
sound? Can you be sure your judgment is unbiased? Is your thinking process logical, rational
and complete?
Developing Critical thinking: To develop as a critical thinker, one must be motivated to
develop the following attributes:
9. Prioritize: One must be able to determine the importance of an event or situation and
put it in the correct perspective.
10. Summarize: One must be able to distill a brief report of what happened or what has
been learnt.
11. Synthesize: One must be able to identify new possible outcome by using pieces of
information that is already known.
Emotional Intelligence
Question 9
What is meant by ‘Emotional Intelligence’ and ‘Emotional Quotient’? State any six social
competencies associated with Emotional Intelligence.
Answer
Emotional Intelligence: Emotional intelligence refers to the capacity to recognizing your own
feelings and those of others, for motivating yourself, and for managing emotions well in
yourself and in your relationships.
Emotional quotient: inventory is designed to measure a nature of constructs related to
emotional intelligence. EQ is the ability to make and deeper connections at three levels: with
ourselves (personal mastery), with another person (one-to-one) and within groups/teams. Our
EQ or emotional intelligence is the capacity for effectively recognizing and managing our own
emotions and those of others.
Social competencies associated with emotional intelligence are as follows:
Social Awareness:
1. Empathy: Sensing others emotions, understanding their perspective and taking active
interest in their concerns.
2. Organizational awareness: Leading the currents decision, networks and politics at the
organizational level.
3. Service: Recognizing and meeting follower, client or customer needs.
Relationship Management:
4. Inspirational leadership: Guiding and motivating with a compelling vision.
5. Influence: wielding a range of tactics for persuasions
6. Developing others: Bolstering others’ abilities through coaching, feedback and guidance.
Competencies Associated with Emotional Intelligence
Question 10
Discuss personal competencies that are associated with Emotional Intelligence.
Answer
Personal Competencies Associated with Emotional Intelligence:
Personal Competencies – How You Manage Yourself
Self-Awareness
• Emotional self-awareness: Reading your own emotions and recognizing their impact;
using ‘gut sense’ to guide decisions
• Accurate self-assessment: Knowing your strengths and weaknesses
• Self-confidence: A sound sense of your self-worth and capabilities
Self-Management
• Emotional self-control: Keeping disruptive emotions and impulses under control
• Transparency: Displaying honesty and integrity; trustworthiness
• Adaptability: Flexibility in adapting to changing situations or overcoming obstacles
• Achievement: The drive to improve performance to meet inner standards of excellence
• Initiative: Readiness to act and seize opportunities
• Optimism: Seeing the upside in events
Exercise
1. How listening is helpful in interpersonal communication skills?
[Hint :Effective or active listening is a very important skill to enhance interpersonal
communication. Listening helps to build strong personal relationships. The process of
communication completes when the message as intended by the sender is understood by the
receiver. Most assume that listening is natural trait, but practically very few of us listen properly.
One needs to give the communicator of the message sufficient attention and make an effort to
understand his viewpoint]
2. Elaborate guidelines for active listening.
[Hint: Guidelines for Active Listening
♦ Look at the person and suspend other things you are doing. Otherwise, your brain will be
distracted from its main goal - understanding the other person's concerns, intentions.
♦ Be interested in what the person is saying. If you just can't make yourself interested, you will
lose important information, so try taking notes.
♦ Listen to the tone of voice and inflections; look at gestures and body language - these may
carry an unspoken message.
♦ Restate what the person said. Restating their meaning is a way for you to make sure you
understand the person clearly.
♦ Ask questions once in a while to clarify meaning. Doing so will keep you alert and let the
other person know you have been listening and are interested in getting all the facts and
ramifications.
♦ Be aware of your own feelings and opinions. They may cloud your perception of what is
being said. Being aware of your own preconceptions is a type of critical thinking that
prevents biasing your judgment about the other person.]