Coping With Anxiety
Coping With Anxiety
Coping With Anxiety
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Mindfulness
There are varied practices of mindfulness that can help with anxiety. Using
techniques like mindfulness, prayer, and deep breathing can help slow down our
anxious processing of thoughts and emotions. By slowing down we are learning
to be more present rather than hyper-focused on trying to anticipate and
prepare for the future, which is what anxiety makes us focus on, even when
there are no threats present.
As you practice slowing down and becoming more mindful, it will be helpful for
you to pay attention to the situations that seem to trigger your anxiety. Although
it won't always be an option to avoid those triggers, being aware of them can
help you gain clarity and take steps toward managing stress in those specific
situations. Learning cognitive ways to challenge your anxiety can help, such as
diffusing anxious thoughts and calming the need to keep asking "what if."
Practice Acceptance
Remember that anxiety is not something you are experiencing because you are
flawed in any way. Anxiety is influenced by a host of factors such as genetics,
neurobiology, family history,4
and life experiences. There is no one cause of GAD and it is something that many
people experience. As impossible as it may seem, it can be helpful to learn to
accept the journey and embrace it as an opportunity to learn and care for
yourself in healthy ways. Accepting your emotions can improve your overall
emotional health.5 Identifying the emotions is the first of multiple steps to
achieving this.
There is no need to lose hope for better living. Many people challenged with
anxiety, such as with generalized anxiety disorder, lead full, productive, and
joyful lives. The key is taking time to learn what strategies work well for you, stay
connected to others, and remain positive. Find inspiration through quotes,
verses, music, nature, social connections, etc. We are surrounded by positive
examples of hope and inspiration.
Physical coping strategies, like eating well, exercising, breathing, and establishing
a relaxing bedtime routine, can help with emotional symptoms as well.
Eat Well
What we put into our bodies can influence how we feel physically and
emotionally. Although foods do not cause anxiety, foods can impact our mood.
Eating things like sugary snacks and processed foods can lead to quick highs and
lows in our blood sugar that can influence feelings of restlessness and fatigue.
Exercise
Moving your body can be a great way to manage stress. Exercise helps to boost
our endorphins and relieve tension. Try something new or go with an old favorite
activity you enjoy. Any way that you choose to exercise will be of benefit. Keep a
consistent schedule and try to incorporate exercise three to four times per week
or more. You may also try massage or progressive muscle relaxation to help ease
muscle tension that is often experienced with anxiety.
According to the Center for Disease Control (CDC), only one in three adults in the
United States get the recommended seven hours of sleep at night. Although it
can be difficult to sleep when we experience anxiety, creating a reliable
nighttime routine can help us relax and prepare for quality sleep. Things like
progressive relaxation, reading, journaling, and turning off electronics at least
one hour before bed can help you prepare your mind and body for rest. Doing a
"brain dump," or writing a to-do list or worry log as part of your bedtime routine
can also help if you struggle with racing thoughts and anxiety.
Breathing
Can't control his or It’s easy to spiral into a loop of self-doubt and blame, but try to break that cycle.
her thoughts or If you start feeling guilty for having OCD remind yourself that you have a
behaviors, even diagnosed medical condition. Would you be angry at your friend who had
when those asthma if he needed to stop and take his inhaler? Of course not, so you don’t
thoughts or need to feel guilty when you perform behaviors that are out of the norm or
behaviors are cause a slight delay. You have a medical condition and are working with it. End of
recognized as story, no guilt needed.
excessive
Spends at least 1
hour a day on
these thoughts or
behaviors
Doesn’t get
pleasure when
performing the
behaviors or
rituals, but may
feel brief relief
from the anxiety
the thoughts cause
Experiences
significant
problems in their
daily life due to
these thoughts or
behaviors
By recognizing that you’re having a panic attack instead of a heart attack, you
can remind yourself that this is temporary, it will pass, and that you’re OK.
Take away the fear that you may be dying or that impending doom is looming,
both symptoms of panic attacks. This can allow you to focus on other techniques
to reduce your symptoms.
Some panic attacks come from triggers that overwhelm you. If you’re in a fast-
paced environment with a lot of stimuli, this can feed your panic attack.
To reduce the stimuli, close your eyes during your panic attack. This can block
out any extra stimuli and make it easier to focus on your breathing.
Practice mindfulness
Mindfulness can help ground you in the reality of what’s around you. Since panic
attacks can cause a feeling of detachment or separation from reality, this can
combat your panic attack as it’s approaching or actually happening.
Focus on the physical sensations you are familiar with, like digging your feet into
the ground, or feeling the texture of your jeans on your hands. These specific
sensations ground you firmly in reality and give you something objective to focus
on.
Some people find it helpful to find a single object to focus all of their attention
on during a panic attack. Pick one object in clear sight and consciously note
everything about it possible.
For example, you may notice how the hand on the clock jerks when it ticks, and
that it’s slightly lopsided. Describe the patterns, color, shapes, and size of the
object to yourself. Focus all of your energy on this object, and your panic
symptoms may subside.
Much like deep breathing, muscle relaxation techniques can help stop your panic
attack in its tracks by controlling your body’s response as much as possible.
Consciously relax one muscle at a time, starting with something simple like the
fingers in your hand, and move your way up through your body.
Muscle relaxation techniques will be most effective when you’ve practiced them
beforehand.
Being easily
startled
Feeling tense or
“on edge”
Having difficulty
sleeping
Having angry
outbursts
Trouble
remembering key
features of the
traumatic event
Negative thoughts
about oneself or
the world
Distorted feelings
like guilt or blame
Loss of interest in
enjoyable activities
Avoidance of
doing things or
speaking to
people out of
fear of
embarrassment
Avoidance of
situations where
you might be the
center of
attention
Anxiety in
anticipation of a
feared activity or
event
Intense fear or
anxiety during
social situations
Analysis of your
performance and
identification of
flaws in your
interactions after
a social situation
Expectation of
the worst
possible
consequences
from a negative
experience
during a social
situation
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