Listening: Principles of Effective Listening: Course Lecturers: Prof Sanjay Misra Engr. Etinosa Noma-Osaghae Ebere Owuama
Listening: Principles of Effective Listening: Course Lecturers: Prof Sanjay Misra Engr. Etinosa Noma-Osaghae Ebere Owuama
Listening: Principles of Effective Listening: Course Lecturers: Prof Sanjay Misra Engr. Etinosa Noma-Osaghae Ebere Owuama
EFFECTIVE LISTENING
Course Lecturers:
Prof Sanjay Misra
Engr. Etinosa Noma-Osaghae
Ebere Owuama
Learning Outcomes
• At the end of this lecture, you should be able to:
Hearing Listening
It is a physiological process (unconscious process) It is a psychological act (conscious process)
It can be measured in terms of conventional units It is difficult to measure and gauge. It is subjective
like the Decibel (dB)
It does not require any level of intelligence It can be influenced by levels of intelligence
Characteristics of competent and effective listeners
1. They are open-minded.
2. They are interested in a broad range of issues.
3. They have a positive attitude.
4. They maintain regular eye contact
5. They pay attention to verbal and non-verbal cues
6. They do not interrupt the speaker
7. They show verbal and non-verbal signs of followership
8. They ask questions in a polite and “Want to know” manner
9. They can accurately summarize what the speaker says
10. They can give constructive verbal and non-verbal feedback
11. They make genuine effort to understand the speaker
12. They show interest in the speaker as a person
Characteristics of incompetent listeners
1. They are always too busy to pay attention
2. They are quick to give their opinion
3. They are pre-occupied with something else
4. They are prone to being talkative
5. They do not want to know or hear other people’s opinion
6. They can be very judgmental
7. They are quick to switch subject matters
8. They give very little verbal and non-verbal feedback to the
speaker
9. They do not show any interest in the speaker
10. They do not maintain eye contact with the speaker
11. They are very impatient and can interrupt the speaker
12. They do not pay attention to what the speaker says
The Listening Process
a. Active/reflective listening
b. Emphatic listening
c. Relational/dialog listening
Positive listening behaviors
1. Direct eye contact
2. Smiling
3. Nodding
4. Eyes wide open
5. Forward lean
6. Positive facial expression
Negative listening behaviour
1. Stare
2. Yawn
3. Looking away
4. Nervous habits, fidgeting
5. Shaking head negatively
6. Moving away from speaker
7. Negative facial expression such as frowning and pouting
8. Crossed arms
How to be an effective listener