Mediation, CR, DC
Mediation, CR, DC
Mediation, CR, DC
Workshop 1
WHAT IS MEDIATION?
- Mediation is the involvement of an impartial third party to support and help those
involved in a conflict to find a resolution
- The key difference between negotiation and mediation is that in negotiation, the parties
involved work out their own agreement. In mediation, they have the support of the
third party, the mediator, to help them come to an agreement.
- Mediation, whether formal or informal, can often help solve conflicts that have gone
beyond the negotiation stage.
CHARACTERISTICS OF MEDIATION
- A key aspect of mediation is that the mediation does not “sort things out” or make any
decisions for the parties involved
- Instead, he or she helps the parties involved work together to develop their own
agreement
MEDIATION INVOLVES:
- Voluntary participation
- Face-to-face discussions between the parties in conflict
- An unbiased mediator without any decision-making power who helps those involved to
understand each other’s point of view and come to an agreement
- Equal opportunities for all participants to speak and explain their perspective
- All relevant information being shared
- A shared agreement between the parties
1. Preparation
- You will need to lay out the “ground rules” for the mediation process
- Usually some basic rules of communication
- Exercise: Suppose you are a mediator Ukraine-Russia, you want to prepare the
mediation, what are some of the ground rules to set and why are they important
o Listening to one another
o Take turns
o Respect what the others say
o Control of the emotions as well as body language
o Having an open mind
o Structured talks/negotiations
o Start agreeing on something small
o Establish yourself as an impartial and objective mediator
o Establish trust between the parties and you
o They are important to have a peaceful, organized and respectful mediation
Workshop 2
- From time to time all managers will face conversations which they anticipate will be
difficult and which they may feel ill-equipped to handle
- Scenarios of this kind include:
o Addressing under- or poor performance
o Tackling instances of unacceptable behaviour
o Investigating reports of bullying
o Giving developmental feedback
o Turning down employee requests
o Dealing with sensitive personal issues
o Handling a grievance or disciplinary process
o Or telling an employee that their job is at risk of redundancy
- Instigating a difficult conversation can feel daunting and there is a natural tendency for
managers to delay taking action in the hopes that the issue will be resolved without
their intervention
- But this is rarely the case
- Procrastination won’t make problems disappear and in fact, if issues are ignored they
are likely to escalate and become even more difficult to resolve, causing negative
consequences both for all those involved and for the wider organisation
- It is far better to tackle problems at an early stage as this can help to nip problems in the
bud, prevent the situation from deteriorating and maintain good working relationships
with colleagues
Avoidance: worst strategy
- We all tend to put off difficult conversations because of the intensity and complexity of
the emotions they arouse – both for the manager initiating the conversation and for the
person they are speaking with
- Fear of how people will react and whether you will be able to handle their reactions,
feelings of vulnerability or concern about a loss of control can make us all reluctant to
raise an issue face to face
- You may even be concerned that you will not be supported by senior managers, your HR
department and/or other colleagues if you take steps to address sensitive issues
- However, by adopting the right approach, preparing yourself carefully and developing
the right skills, mindset and behaviour, you will be able to maximise your ability to
handle the conversation effectively and steer it to a successful conclusion acceptable to
all involved
Definitions
- A conversation is defined as a face-to-face exchange of information and views between
two people
- A difficult conversation is one whose primary subject matter is potentially contentious
and/or sensitive and may elicit strong, complex emotions that can be hard to predict or
control
In difficult situations,
Exercise:
Observer:
- Raise salary
Workshop 3
Collaborative problem-solving
- Creates a new narrative that facilitates restoration of trust and relationship
- Value creation
7 elements
Positions
- Compensation
- Higher salary
- Rectification
- Maintenance
- Apology
Interests
- Security
- Economic well-being
- Health
- Sense of belonging
- Recognition
Options
- Solutions which address the parties’ interests and which require the parties’
contribution
o Eg. payment,
Legitimacy
- Objective standards measuring the fairness or impartiality of a possible option
o What is it that makes the party think it’s fair? Eg. law, market practice,
precedent, etc
- How will the criteria impact the parties and foreseeable third parties
- Commitment and success will depend on all parties buying into the criteria used
Alternatives
- What parties can do if they do not reach an agreement
- Define and refine what is each party’s:
o BATNA?
o MLATNA
o WATNA
- Is going through litigation/arbitration a worse alternative than walking away?
Communication
- The way that information is being transmitted and interpreted
- The verbal and non-verbal message
o Mode of transmission of information
o Body language of parties
o Context and environment where the mediation is held
- What are the underlying assumptions in the way the parties communicate?
- Where are the communication gaps and/or impasses?
- What are the core messages being communicated?
Relationship
- The nature and quality of the past and present relationship between the parties
- How did they first know each other?
- What triggered the breakdown of trust?
- What is their expectation
Commitment
- Settlement terms must be realistic, clear, and concise and address all interests
- Confirm parties’ authority to settle and perform those obligations
- Is there enough trust, incentives and safeguards?
Workshop 4
Improved self-efficacy
- = a person’s belief in their capability to complete a specific task successfully
(Lunenburg, 2011)
- Learning and practicing skills such as effective communication and conflict resolution are
essential building blocks for self-efficacy.
- Successful conflict resolution skills in the workplace increase confidence, promoting the
likelihood of future successes (Lunenburg, 2011)
- Increased self-efficacy “Influences the tasks employees choose to learn and the goals
they set for themselves” (Lunenburg, 2011, p.1)
- It also influences employees’ efforts and perseverance when taking on and learning new
tasks (Lunenburg, 2011)
Increased energy
- Sometimes you have to expend energy to gain energy. Conflict robs individuals and
organizations of precious energy.
- Mastering conflict resolution skills take energy initially but can save energy in the long
run through reduced stress and improved relationships and productivity.
Workshop 6
2. Collaborative problem-solving
- Bolton (1986) provides a six-step outline for collaboration when the issue is more about
needs than emotions
o Define the primary needs surrounding the conflict
o Brainstorm possible solutions
o Choose solutions that meet the needs of both parties
o Create an agenda delineating who will assume each task
o Implement the plan
o Evaluate the solutions and re-evaluate if needed
6 methods and approaches to apply in the office
- Lipsky, Seeber, and Fincher (2003) provide approaches to work through issues that
erupt in work settings
2. Ombudspersons
- These are neutral or impartial managers who provide informal and confidential
assistance to staff and management in order to resolve work-related disputes
- Ombudspersons may wear a variety of hats, including mediator, fact-finder, consultant
4. Professional mediators
- Professional mediators are not connected with the organization in any way and function
as independent, impartial, third parties who assist the primary parties through a formal
mediation process
- Mediation is a viable option for creating structure to conflict resolution in an unbiased
manner
6. Executive panels
- This method provides an opportunity for employees to present their claims to a panel of
the organization’s senior executives, assuming they will be objective and sympathetic
- Using tools such as questionnaires, activities, and assessments can help employees work
through conflict by adding insight and skills to the equation