Ingredients of Happy and Healthy Living
Ingredients of Happy and Healthy Living
Ingredients of Happy and Healthy Living
SELF-ACCEPTANCE
RISK-TAKING
NON-UTOPIAN
Healthy people recognize that there are only two sorts of problems they are likely to
encounter: those they can do something about and those they cannot. Once this
discrimination has been made, the goal is to modify those obnoxious conditions we can
change, and to accept (or lump) those we cannot change.
Rather than blaming others, the world, or fate for their distress, healthy individuals accept a
good deal of responsibility for their own thoughts, feelings, and behavior.
SELF-INTEREST
Emotionally healthy people tend to put their own interests at least a little above the interests
of others. They sacrifice themselves to some degree for those for whom they care, but not
overwhelmingly or completely.
SOCIAL INTEREST
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Most people choose to live in social groups, and to do so most comfortably and happily,
they would be wise to act morally, protect the rights of others, and aid in the survival of the
society in which we live.
SELF-DIRECTION
We would do well to cooperate with others, but it would be better for us to assume primary
responsibility for our own lives rather than to demand or need most of our support or
nurturance from others.
TOLERANCE
It is helpful to allow humans (oneself and others) the right to be wrong. It is not appropriate
to like obnoxious behavior, but it is not necessary to damn oneself or others for acting
badly.
FLEXIBILITY
ACCEPTANCE OF UNCERTAINTY
COMMITMENT
Most people tend to be happier when vitally absorbed in something outside themselves. At
least one strong creative interest and some important human involvement seem to provide
structure for a happy daily existence.
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