The Hair Loss Cure, Revised Edition - How To Treat Alopecia and Thinning Hair (PDFDrive)
The Hair Loss Cure, Revised Edition - How To Treat Alopecia and Thinning Hair (PDFDrive)
The Hair Loss Cure, Revised Edition - How To Treat Alopecia and Thinning Hair (PDFDrive)
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ELIZABETH STEEL
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HAIR LOSS
Elizabeth Steel
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I Why?
1 When I Lost My Hair 31
2 What Causes Alopecia Areata? 45
3 What Causes Alopecia Androgenetica? 66
II Victims
4 When It Happens to a Woman 83
5 When It Happens to a Man 112
6 When It Happens to a Child 127
7 When It Happens to Those Who Are Single 143
III Treatments
8 The Great Alternative: Getting Your Own Back 167
9 What Medical Treatments Are Available? 190
10 What About Surgery? 214
11 Hair Loss and Your Diet 219
12 Are You Sure You Have Alopecia? 228
13 The Future: What Hope Is There? 233
14 When Hair Grows Back 241
Postscript 245
References 249
Index 251
Elizabeth Steel writes from bitter experience. She lost her hair through
scalp disease and found that she was not alone . . . that it was happen¬
ing to thousands of others.
She founded Hairline International, The Alopecia Patients' Society, as
a self-help network for those who have lost - or are losing - their hair.
After eight years in wigs and headscarves, her hair grew back. Other
alopecia sufferers, she says, can be equally fortunate.
Elizabeth Steel is the pen name of Wendy Jones, the former Midlands
TV presenter and producer.
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A lay organization for alopecia sufferers has long been
needed in view of the general ignorance surrounding
many types of hair loss - a field in which anxiety and fear
can be profound and in which many pseudo-scientific
experts abound, often with little more than financial
motives.
Elizabeth Steel deserves enormous credit for attempt¬
ing to fill this medical void. She has solicited advice from
a great array of medical and scientific experts and lis¬
tened with the utmost patience and understanding to the
problems of hundreds of sufferers. One hopes that this
succinct book will in some way be a help to the very
many individuals who suffer from alopecia.
Dr Rodney Dawher, MA, MB, Ch.B., FRCP
Consultant Dermatologist, John Radcliffe Hospital and
clinieal lecturer, Oxford
This book could not have been written without the sup¬
port and guidance of many doctors. I hope they will
accept that some criticisms apply not to the individual
specialist so much as to the system, and I thank them for
all they have done to make this book possible.
Introduction
My hair has grown back. Only five words, but the sweetest
I have ever written. Words I once thought I would never
write.
For when I lost my hair I thought I was bald for life.
Today my hair is often a mess: casual to the point of
untidiness and frequently in need of a blow-wave. Not an
object of great beauty. But hair is there, growing in the
normal way. I am so happy to see it!
Not a big deal to anyone else. But to me: stunning! To
lose my hair was hell. To have hair again ... well, it really
is heaven! I am ridiculously pleased.
I am also very lucky. Millions of women are losing
their hair today and many are not regrowing it.
Julie, 31, had shoulder-length dark hair which began to thin dramatically
soon after she stopped taking a progestogen-only contraceptive pill. She
says, 'I find myself counting my lost hairs every day! There are hairs on
the furniture, falling on my clothes, even floating in the air!
'I know why I am obsessed with counting hairs. It is the only thing I
can do to give myself some control. It is so awful - I feel I'm behaving
like someone with an obsessional compulsive disease. My partner tells me
to stop counting as I will only get stressed. But I can't stop!
'I know my hair is thinner because I know how thick it used to be. I
feel ugly. Without all my hair I am not a real woman. I don't want to go
out -1 don't want to do anything until I look normal again.
'My partner and I were talking about planning our wedding for
December, but I am just putting everything off until my hair regrows.'
Alopecia Areata
When It Happened to Me
Hard enough to take when you are an adult. But worse for
a child!
Introduction 17
These people have all lost their hair, rapidly and fright¬
eningly, through alopecia areata. This can happen to
anyone, male or female, at any age. It happened to me
when I was in my thirties and appearing on television for
a living.
When I lost my hair I was young and ambitious, driven
by both a highly motivated career in television journal¬
ism and a hectic family life. With the manic multiple
18 The Hair Loss Cure
Having It All
I was rushing through life, seeing myself as some kind of
Superwoman. Combining a high-powered job with sexual
and domestic fulfilment. Just as they tell us we can in the
sleek magazines . . . but I found myself struggling with
the practical realities no one had told me about. Always
in a hurry, under pressure, desperate to meet deadlines,
never having enough time .. . then my hair fell out!
If It Happens to You . . .
A Three-pronged Attack
limited. In any case, as the hair often grows back of its own
accord, any apparent success is difficult to evaluate.
Back home, my doctor referred me to a consultant der¬
matologist. He predicted that my hair would probably
grow back 'in no time'. 'But you need to get your confi¬
dence back,' he said. Shrewd of him to notice that I, who
had always been so full of confidence - at least outwardly
- had lost it with my hair. Self-regard had slipped away in
those frightening few weeks. I felt diminished.
'I'll give you a prescription to get some financial help
with wigs,' he added. The situation took on its nightmare
quality again. I dreamed last night that I lost all my hair
and a doctor was prescribing wigs. Had it really come to
that? 'I don't know how you've managed without a wig for
so long,' he remarked.
I was still full of questions. Why should I - young,
healthy and female - suddenly lose my hair? The sixty-
four thousand dollar question remained unanswered.
The consultant was frank. 'Let's be honest. We don't
know. It could happen to anyone. I could wake up tomor¬
row with no hair' - a thought he clearly found unlikely.
My doctor had suggested that it might have been
brought on by childbirth - a theory the consultant dis¬
missed swiftly. 'What? Fifteen months later? Any hair
loss connected with birth would have cleared up again in
two or three months.' He shook his head, his eyes resting
irritably on my daughter, who was rattling the car keys I
had given her as a distraction.
'You have a classic case of alopecia areata. The Ameri¬
cans reckon it's all caused by stress.' He grinned. 'But
then, they blame stress for everything.'
I was beginning to get the impression that it was
some kind of mental crack-up but that no one liked to
When I Lost My Hair 37
FACT: Doctors Who Once Blamed Stress Now Question This Theory.
The dermatologist was looking at my scalp. 'Have you
noticed these tiny white hairs growing in some of the
patches, like soft down?' I confessed, 'That's probably my
hair's true colour now. I've been tinting it for years.' He
disagreed. 'It wouldn't be as white as this, not at your age.
It's part of the condition. The hair grows back without
pigmentation.' Hair turning white overnight! Hair drop¬
ping out! It wasn't real, more like a Victorian melodrama.
He could offer no treatment, only basic blood tests and
a health-service contribution towards wigs. I must return
to the hospital for these.
Clare's letter was an urgent appeal for help. 7 am in my thirties and have
suddenly lost most of my hair. I feel at a complete loss. My life has hod
to change. My social life has gone, along with my confidence and some
46 The Hair Loss Cure
Is It Because Tm a Neurotic?
Nick, 28, an RAF sergeant serving in Germany, started to lose his hair at
a time when he was very pleased with himself He had just won a car in
a competition.
John, 35, a printer, started to lose his hair when his wife was in hospital
dying of breast cancer. 'It was 18 months between the diagnosis of cancer
and her death. She was only 40 and I was left with two children. My hair
come out in patches from the moment the doctor told me the terrible prog¬
nosis. Losing my hair was nothing, of course, compared with the tragedy
of my wife's death. Now my hair loss is total and I have to wear a wig.'
Anita was 13 when she came home to discover her father in the bath in
the middle of a suicide attempt. 'He had cut his wrists and ankles and
stabbed himself' she says. 'I bandaged him up, called an ambulance and
went with him to hospital. A few months later I started to lose my hair.
I had two years of misery until I left school and was able to wear a wig
"full time" instead ofjust at weekends.'
The alopecia seemed to clear up but eight years ago she hod some
patches after each of her two children's births. The hair grew back
quickly.
Anita is now 33. 'Up to two weeks ago I was a contented married
woman with a super husband and two lovely children aged eight and six.
I didn't think I was under stress nor have I had any major shocks. So I
was totally devastated when I saw a bald patch on the top of my head.
Several others followed a few days later.'
So Anita has now suffered from alopecia areata over a period of 20
years. Sometimes the episodes seemed to be triggered directly by stress,
at other times not at all.
a wig will be of far greater value to the child than the rais¬
ing of false hopes.'
Clare had had a small episode of alopecia when she was 14, at a time
when her parents were divorced. Another tiny patch came at 20 when her
mother was very ill, but these soon cleared up.
She had no further problems, even when she hod her first child, a girl.
Then, because alopecia areata is an eccentric disease, she started losing
hair heavily after the birth of her second child.
56 The Hair Loss Cure
'I didn't worry when my little girl first pointed it out because I
thought it would clear up as guickly as the first time,' said Clare, 'but
soon my hairdresser pointed out the patches. My doctor said "It's alope¬
cia, Nothing to worry about. Go home. Forget it," But you can't. It's such
a frightening thing,'
Her husband joked: 'I would still love you even if you hod no hair at
all!' Soon, it was apparent that this was no joke. For a while they could
hide it. When they visited their parents, her husband would walk down
the drive behind her, to make sure her scalp wasn't showing through the
thinning hair.
Every night television commercials glorified hair. Models had long,
flowing, blond waves; Clare had not even enough to cover her scalp. She
donned a scarf and hid in the kitchen. As her sitting room has large pic¬
ture windows overlooking the rood, passers-by can easily look in, so Clare
began to stay in the kitchen most of the time.
She was lonely: 'I can't bear to meet people. This is not on illness you
con talk about, like bronchitis or having your appendix out, I worry most
about "taking it out" on the children. We both wonted them so much,
especially os at one time we hod on infertility problem and thought we
might never have any. But when this happened, I blamed them, I
thought that I would not have lost my hair if I hadn't had children'.
In fact, Clare's alopecia hod really started many years before with
that tiny patch at 17, When she underwent the trauma of childbirth it
certainly seemed to cause her alopecia to flare up again - but only with
the second pregnancy, not the first.
Janet, a service wife in the Middle East, lost a small patch of hair at 17.
It followed the death of her father and her own involvement in a road
accident She seemed to lose more hair, in patches, when she was in her
twenties and taking the oral contraceptive pill.
Stationed with her husband in Germany, she stopped taking the pill
and for a while her hair improved. She had her first child and breast-fed
for six months. As soon as she stopped breast-feeding, the hair fell out
again, this time severely, and she had to resort to a wig.
Sue, aged 36, who lives near Dungen ess power station where her hus¬
band works, had experienced one patch at the age of 8. This seemed to
be related to emotional problems at school over a teacher she disliked.
Then she had no hair problems until she started a family. In her first
labour, the child's umbilical cord threatened his life. The second birth
was also difficult and was followed by a serious haemorrhage. Soon after
that, large bald patches spread into each other, leaving only a 'Friar Tuck'
fringe, then it became total hair loss.
Carol, wife of a policeman, lost most of her hair when she was 23. Her
baby was 11 months old and, like Janet, she had just stopped breast¬
feeding. 'I could only imagine that the changes in my body which the end
offeeding meant, had triggered my hair loss. I wasn't under any stress
and had a very understanding and loving husband.'
58 The Hair Loss Cure
Elizabeth's heavy mane of silky dark hair was her pride and joy, but it
started to come out in big patches when her second child was a year old.
A cheerful, attractive country woman who idolized her children, Eliz¬
abeth suggested to her doctor that her pregnancy had been responsible
and was assured, 'No. This is a different type of alopecia. That it
happened after a pregnancy is purely coincidental.'
'There was definitely no sign of baldness before the babies,' said
Elizabeth. 'The only thing I could think of which might hove caused it
was a long period of worry the previous year when my mother was dying
of cancer. Then my father-in-law had a stroke and we were obviously con¬
cerned about him. But of course we con all find stress in our lives if we
think about it!'
Hilary's hair loss started out of the blue after childbirth. She does not
remember on earlier episode of olopedo but knows that her mother hod severe
asthma. She wrote to me: 'I hove been wearing a headscarf for 13 years.'
A drab woman, I imagined, dowdy and old before her years. I was
wrong. The toll, slim woman who met me at the station was sun-tanned
and beautiful. Her headscarf was a blue silk Liberty print, swathed ele¬
gantly around her smooth shoulders.
Married to an industrialist, Hilary found that her hair hod started to
fall out after her first child, a daughter. 'At first I thought it was merely
normal hair loss after giving birth until it become apparent that it was
somewhat greater than normal.
'I sought advice everywhere and attended a local hair specialist - a
What Causes Alopecia Areata? 59
tnchoLogist - after the doctors just didn't seem to knowl Then the hair
began to grow again and I felt terrific.'
But Hilary wanted another child. 'I didn't want Rachel to be on only
one and the trichologist did worn it might happen again. After Kate's
birth, of course, it did.'
This time Hilary lost a lot more hair. 1 was sent to the skin clinic of
a London hospital but the gentleman I sow was of the opinion I looked
healthy and certainly wouldn't die of my complaint. Little did he know!
When this happens, your self-confidence dies within you. Without my
husband, my smashing little girls and my fnends' support, I would hove
fallen opart. He was right, I wasn't going to die. But I died inside.'
Ross, on ex-army officer who now teaches, suddenly lost every hair on his
body, at the some time os developing a painful blotchy purple rash on his
chest and shoulders. At the time the rash began he hod been using a
garden chemical spray which was also in regular use at his school. His
doctor gained the co-operation of the chemical's manufacturers and
mode investigations. Ross was convinced that he hod been poisoned by
the chemical spray.
It is very rare for anyone to find out exactly what has trig¬
gered their alopecia areata. Just occasionally there are
unusual happenings and patients can link them with
their condition.
the carpets are 80 per cent wool to 20 per cent nylon. In the bedrooms
the carpet is 100 per cent nylon.
Joan, 52, also wondered about environmental factors. She reports, 'I
was walking the Cumbnan hills when the Chernobyl rain fell and I was
drenched. Cumbrian Radio commented on this rainfall and some women
said that after it fell they experienced hair loss os I did.'
You are losing your hair rapidly. The worst part is now,
when so much is falling out. You waste a lot of time gaz¬
ing into the mirror in horror. You are indecisive; you
don't know which shampoo to use for the best, whether to
use hair lacquer, colour tint or permanent wave. Yards of
hair collect on your comb. You fret over every strand.
This can easily become an obsession. I have even
found myself tracing the grain on my polished dressing
table, thinking the lines were hairs! I have examined
closely the molecular structure of 'hairs' which turned
out to be wool from my mohair sweater!
Hair seems to be everywhere except on your head. You
can't believe that it is all going like this. You feel like
What Causes Alopeda Areata? 61
If It Gets Worse
If you feel that your doctor has wrongly sent you home,
dismissing your case as 'nothing to worry about,' it is
always worth returning so that he can see how much it
has deteriorated. No one likes to pester a busy doctor, but
the average doctor has been taught at medical school to
reassure hair loss patients whenever possible. So he duly
reassures and sometimes, sadly, hardly seems to notice
that the patient's head is nearly bald.
What Causes Alopecia Areata? 65
Trisha, 30, reports: 'The doctor told me not to worry. It would grow back.
I went home, it got worse and my husband said "You will have to see him
again."
'This time the doctor said: "What do you think I con do about it?" I
told him I wonted to see another specialist and he referred me. But this
appointment was six months ahead and while I was waiting I was so un¬
happy I went bock to my own doctor. He gave me tronguillizers and the
appointment was brought forward.
'But by the time I got to the second dermatologist I hod lost all
my hair.'
'When the pill was introduced the manufacturers did not want to admit
to women that they were being given male hormones. So women do not
know the nsks they take with the pill. Neither do their doctors.
'Over the years they have found it easier to listen to the pill
manufacturers who would probably buy them a nice lunch rather than
pay attention to the evidence against the pill. Hair follicles need
natural progesterone to help them develop. But the progestogens are
artificial and do not give the follicles what they require. So hair loss
is the result.'
The suspicion has been there for many years. In 1967 the
American Dr Frank E. Cormia reported that some
women developed alopecia when they started to take the
pill and also, conversely, when they stopped.
Among German women in 1972, researchers found
that contraceptive pills containing progestogen some¬
times induced male pattern baldness."
Shortly afterwards. Dr W. A. D. Griffiths of St John's
Hospital, London, conducted a clinical investigation into
the pill/hair loss debate" and concluded: 'While noticing
that diffuse thinning does occur while women are on the
pill there is no evidence to suggest that this is because
they are taking oral contraceptives.'
but, soon after the birth, her hair began to thin dramatically in a large
area on the top of her head.
'My own feeling was that this problem began with the Pill,' says Louise.
'And when I saw a dermatologist he said that three factors are involved.
First I am genetically predisposed to alopeda androgenetica, the second is
that I had just had a baby and was suffering hair loss after the birth. The
third factor was that I had stopped taking the Pill. My hair loss is not bad
enough for me to need a wig but I am still rather upset about it.
'I took the Pill so happily. It seemed to be a great boon. Now I won¬
der whether we have all been guinea pigs. How was I to know I would
go bald?'
Helen, 32, is convinced that the progestogen she is prescnbed for her
severe premenstrual symptoms has caused the hair thinning which began
two years ago.
'It is so bad that I have to wear a wig. I have been on dydrogesterone
for PMS for seven years and I just wonder if this is a factor.'
You can't. But you can make sure that what you put on
your scalp will not make the hair loss worse. In alopecia
androgenetica, it has been suggested that Regaine (topi¬
cal minoxidil) has a 'stabilizing' effect. It helps the
patient to hold on to the hair he or she has in 80 per cent
of cases, while in 40 per cent of cases it promotes actual
regrowth.
The huge display of hair products in the average phar¬
macy may confuse you with their incredible variety.
Usually the shampoos and conditioners made by the big
names in hairdressing will be best. Revlon's balsam and
protein conditioner for dry and damaged hair has been
pioneer among conditioners for many years and is a reli¬
able standby for extremely thin and fragile hair. L'Oreal's
Elvive shampoo range is exeellent for thinning hair.
Alphosil treatment shampoo will calm the most savage
and irritated scalp. Aussie's Three-Minute Miracle helps
to volumize thinning hair and make it appear thicker.
Many people point out that their hair would look bet¬
ter and more plentiful if they tinted it. This should do no
harm if you use a reputable product, preferably one you
have used before, and it is applied by a hairdresser you
know and trust. But avoid permanent waves as they con¬
tain very strong chemicals. You really need to find a
hairdresser who can advise on gentle products suitable
for fragile hair. Don't forget to use conditioner on your
scalp as well as on your face.
74 The Hair Loss Cure
Eileen, 30, from Aberdeen, was worried because she was losing her hair
when she was tempted by a clinic's advertisement claiming on 80 per
cent success rate in regrowing hair.
She went along for the clinic's advertised 'free consultation'. She was
offered a thrice-weekly course of treatments lasting three months.
The treatment would not start until she had paid them £1,250. 'They
were very pushy and played on my misfortune. My doctor was appalled.'
Pauline, bald for 16 years, is married with a family of boys and has a full¬
time teaching job.
'I was left with a red scalp, bare and ugly, so I will not be seen with¬
out a wig.'
Natalie, 27, descnbed the weeks of losing her hair as 'my first weeks of
hell'.
Roxanne is 36. Her hair finally departed totally after the birth of her
third baby, though she hod had patchy hair loss since childhood.
'I need a few drinks before I can sleep with my husband. Otherwise I'm
thinking, how can he want me when I look like this?'
Kathleen has been bald for 45 years but still managed to land herself
two doting husbands. She has outlived them both.
'You con't wear a wig in bed. Well, you con but the darned thing keeps
slipping off'
Hazel, 35, a small, elfin college lecturer, has been hairless for only a
year. She has been told by her doctor: 'You ore likely to be bold for life.'
'Our families - the older generation - soy "Poor Roger! He's got a
bold wife." They hate it when I won't wear a wig. But why should I? It's
84 The Hair Loss Cure
oniy to please other people. It's not like having to wear false teeth for
the functional purpose of eating!'
Samantha, 36, has had alopecia since she was 3. Twice she has lost all
her hair and then it has regrown. Now she has bald patches again.
'Alopecia has affected me totally. My marnage has broken up. My
husband is now living with someone else. It mode me reclusive and
unsociable. I couldn't bear him to see me. I used to go to bed in a scarf.
I feel generally a total freak, ugly and unlovable.'
Stephanie was 26 when her long auburn hair started to fall out. The
attack was severe. 'I screamed and sobbed. I felt so ugly. I wouldn't let
my husband anywhere near me sexually, so I suppose it wasn't surpris¬
ing that he turned elsewhere. When I found out that he was cheating on
me, I felt I just couldn't compete with another woman. So in the end he
left me and we got a divorce. I can see now that I can't really blame my
hair loss. It was the effect it had on me and the way I was behaving
which really smashed us up.
'When I lost my hair it wrecked both my marriage and my career.
I ended up alone in a strange city, broke, with nothing in the cupboard
to eat.'
Carol, 23, a policeman's wife, says: 'Our sex life was badly affected. My
hair took a year to fall out completely which was the worst time. Lots of
hair coming out and just not knowing whether it was all going.
'I felt such a mess I didn't think my husband could possibly want me
sexually. In fact, sex came to a stop, possibly because I felt such a wreck
and didn't want to - not because he didn't want me. He protested that
he did. The hair loss made no difference. Once all my hair had gone I
could just say "Well, it's happened and that's that." I've got used to the
wigs now. I keep them on all the time, even in bed, becaule he doesn't
like to see me without hair.'
Louise was so shaken when she first lost some hair that she took a lover.
She is attractive and knows it.
'I'd always been vain, I suppose, sure of myself with men. After I lost
some hair, I felt I looked frankly distasteful. My husband said it didn't
matter. He hardly seemed to notice.
'I started an affair. It sounds as if I'm making my hair loss the
excuse, but I hod to find out whether men would still fancy me. This one
did. He even reckoned he found my loss of pubic hair erotic!
'Of course it was disastrous. It got completely out of hand when he
turned serious and wonted me to break up my mornage. Fortunately, I
hod the sense to get out of it without damaging my mornage and family.'
were two other cases of alopecia areata in her family and she was afraid
that this meant she had a poor prognosis. But the next day when she had
dried her tears she wrote to me: 'Thank you for your understanding. I have
now calmed down immensely, put everything into perspective and realized
that I am not dying but getting stronger by the day.
'Yes. My hair is still falling and falling ... I keep hoovenng and
hoovering... It is just a damn nuisance now but hopefully my treatment
will calm it down and save what I have left - about 35 per cent!
'I have bored the life out of my wonderful friends and family but I
could not have achieved a steady head or sense of humour without their
help and patience. Especially my parents, who both have serious medical
conditions themselves.
'How lucky I am that it is just my hair. What have I really got to com¬
plain about? I ask myself this when I look at my parents' courage and
determination.
'My next steps? Well, I have a rather nice line in hats at the moment
and a bandanna for when I am in the mood to be funky! In fact I know
my next step: It will be when I visit a wig supplier in the next two weeks.
Two friends will be with me. One is coming to support me and the other
to see what she would look like as a blonde. Not as good as me, I hope.'
Natalie is beginning to adjust to her life without hair. 'I have been
asked out to dinner tonight. A man I met on Saturday. He knows about
my hair. I like being open about it. The ironic thing is - he's only a flip¬
ping hairdresser! Sod's law! He said he would like to help me. I said I
wasn't exactly ready for a tint and a perm yet!
'I am not making light of it. My doctor said after the first patch "You
will look back on this and laugh one day." Well, I really don't think so.
The pain, anguish and uncertainty. . . and most of all the sadness in my
mother's eyes when she looks at what has happened to me and feels she
is to blame in some genetic way ... I will not let this beat me but, as
for laughing - yes, I laugh. But not guite so heartily as I once did.'
When It Happens to a Woman 87
never meet Anna has tried to make new relationships but finds it a prob¬
lem. T feel that all the men are looking at me and thinking that I'm
wearing a wig.'
She no longer enjoys the preparation for a date. 'Getting ready used
to be part of the fun of it. I haven't got eyelashes so I can't go putting
on mascara and I haven't any eyebrows to pencil. Well, I could try but I
feel too much like "false part Annie" with false eyelashes, fa be eyebrows
and the wigi Besides, I hate spending time looking in a mirror to moke
my face up. It's no longer a pleasure to me.'
She has earned on with her job and bought a wig for work. 'I have to
look "normal" for the patients. There would be too many questions if I
went to see them "bald". As it is, they often compliment me on my
"pretty hair".'
Once at home, though, it's off with the wig and into a baseball cap
for the rest of the day. In denims, with cap perched precariously on her
ears, Anna looks like a cheerful pixie.
Her good humour is strictly for company. 'When I'm alone in the
flat at night, I often start to feel really awful. I think my life is sus¬
pended until I get my hair back and goodness knows when that will be,
if at all!'
The thought of a life without her hair is something which hits Anna
when she is at her lowest. She thinks of killing herself as the solution.
'When I'm feeling down and low I contemplate suicide and it's like a
safety valve. I think I'll give it another year or so then if my hair hasn't
grown back I'll put an end to the misery of it all, because it's like a great
heavy weight on you which stops you leading a normal life like any other
young woman. I know it's weak. There are people much worse off than
me, crippled, or in pain. I see it every day. But when you are down you
don't think as logically as that.'
Kathleen has been living with baldness for 45 years, unlike Anna, for
whom the problem has only just begun. She began to lose her hair at the
age of 6. She lived in a Welsh mining village, where she says, 'the minds
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were as narrow as the valleys'. One neighbour, from the chapel, told her
mother it was unfair on the other children for her to go to school.
'The worst thing forme was the isolation. Whereas my contemporaries
could socialize, who would want to be seen with me - with or without a
hot? When I was at teacher training college I couldn't really enjoy the
wartime dances like everyone else. I used to dance with the RAF men who
were stationed near the college, but I stayed remote.
'My sex life had to be restncted as I never wanted anyone around in
the mornings where they might see me without a wig. I didn't wont to
get into any sort of clinch with them where my wig might fall off!
'When I left college I hod to find a job and a place to live. I was
forced to tell landladies that I wore a wig in cose they caught me with¬
out it and hod a heart attack.
'I was lonely, but I couldn't go bock to Woles again and become once
more "Mrs Evans's little girl. The one who hod lost her hair.'"
I was teaching and coping well until a bod bout of flu left me depressed.
My doctor sent me to group therapy with a psychiotnst, where I was
encouraged to think more of myself and my efforts. I began to see that I
hod succeeded in spite of my handicap and I saved up to buy my own house.
'I moved in and was happy. Then my previous landlord caught up with
me, after his wife died. We got on well. Being my landlord, of course, he
has always known about my wig. Harold used to lough with me about my
boldness and coll me Gory. That was fine when I was in a good mood but
not when I felt low.
'He proposed by saying "You're so busy with the house that you've no
time to think about marrying me." I said "All right. I'll give it a try."
At 38, Kathleen married. Her first husband was very tolerant of her
boldness. 'He would sit and massage my head, just os my mother hod
done when I was little. He did soy that in the early years he hod won¬
dered whether I hod been "up to anything" for such a thing to happen.
What could I hove done? The mind boggles!
'Boldness didn't matter to him. I could wonder around at home
without a wig though I did wear a little woolly hot in bed in the
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winter. We had two years, eight months and eleven days together. He
died of lung cancer.'
Two years later Kathleen married for the second time. T had to work
a lot harder with John and hide my wigs all the time. Still, I understood
if he just didn't want to think of me as bald. Every morning I'd be grop¬
ing about in the bed for my wig before he woke up. It was always slipping
off. He hated to see me without a wig and would shout "Oh no, no, no,"
if he caught sight of me without it, so I changed in the bathroom out of
his way. In bed, when I wore the wig, it would often stay on the pillow
when I sat up. Very embarrassing.
'Oddly enough, he was proud of me. He would take me out and whis¬
per "You're the best-looking thing here tonight." He was really pleased
when someone told him my "hair" looked nice.'
She was aware of 'pandering' to him. 'I was the sort of wife who tried
a little harder. I don't feel quite a "whole woman" with no hair, so I try
to please to compensate for it. If he came home in the middle of the
night and wanted egg and chips I would get up and make it for him.'
Roxanne needs a drink before she can contemplate sex with her husband.
She is tall, her dark bob blends beautifully with her make-up free face.
She wears a real hair wig because acrylic wigs irritate her skin. A Londoner,
she hod a good career in publishing before her marriage. She swings a small
boy out of the car and above her head. He is 10 months old, fat, contented
and beaming. 'IfI hadn't had him I might have kept my hair. Still, I'd much
rather have him. I was so thrilled when he was born after two girls.'
Roxanne lost some hair after every baby was born. Alopecia patches
had begun at puberty, cleared up, and then started again at 22 when she
was in her firstjob. 'I was on the pill but don't know if that had anything
to do with it.' It worsened after each pregnancy.
'In my teens, I wouldn't go out with men because of it. I remember
during a heatwave, I didn't want to go swimming but a girlfriend rang
up and said, "Put your scarf on for goodness' sake and come out." She
was right. You need someone to give you a shake.
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'My first boyfriend hadn't told his parents my ternble secret (I think
that's why we broke up.) He was so embarrassed when he took me home
and they realized I was something of a freak.
'My husband had known me for years. We grew up together so he did¬
n't get a shock on our wedding night Anyway^ I was no surpnse to him.
We'd been living together for ages.
'If I'm in a good mood I can sleep without a scarf or a wig. I've never
slept in a wig very much except on holiday where we were shanng
accommodation and the other people might have seen me.
'My doctor told me "You have to live with it like a colostomy bag."
'My mother has tried to talk about it My father has kept up a firm wall
of silence. In fact he managed not to mention it for 14 years. Then, after
ages struggling with my own very patchy hair, I came in wearing a wig and
he said "There's my girl looking lovely again." He'll never know how much
he hurt me. He could accept me in a wig but not as I really am.'
Pauline lost her hair 16 years ago when her children were small.
'Fortunately,' she says, 'my husband is easy-going... he took it well.
I've kept my baldness away from everyone all these years. It's been a
lonely misery as I've never met anyone else like me. I wear my wig as if
it were part of me. I don't think people ought to have to see the ugliness
of my head, so I keep an old wig to wear at nights with my husband. It's
not that I want to lie about my condition. I just don't want to inflict such
an unlovely sight on people.'
A big bustling teacher with a grown-up family of sons, Pauline
remembers early days with horror. As she talked about it, this large,
capable woman began weeping. 'It's just thinking of the awful times -
being interviewed by a consultant who lined up some 20 students to peer
at my vulnerable head. Then he told me there was nothing he could do.
I would just have to learn to live with it.
'When I asked for two new wigs after 18 months' use, the appliances
officer lectured me about "making them last longer". I was so smothered
in misery in those days that I couldn't stand up for myself.
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Hazel, a college lecturer, has hod alopecia areata for only a year, unlike
Pauline, who has hod 16 hairless years to adjust. 'My husband and chil¬
dren hove given me the best help, but other family members seem to be
less able to cope.
'Wigs ore itchy and uncomfortable. My husband understands this and
I wonder around the house bold without comment from anyone.
'Ifnghtened the man who delivers our paper one Sunday morning. He
nearly hod a fit when he sow me without hair!
'My older relations feel sorry for my husband, not me. "Poor Roger.
He's got a bold wife", they soy. I said to him: "Invite them for Chnstmos,
fine. But don't forget I'll be in the kitchen bold. "Acrylic wigs get ruined
if you cook in them.'
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'The worst moment for her was when the consultant told her she was
likely to be bald for life. I'm glad he did. Although it sounded brutal
when she was told just like that I think it was a good thing. She knew
exactly where she was and didn't have to mess around wondering when
it was going to grow back. She could plan her life properly again.'
They have never suffered from the inexplicable shame which afflicts
other sufferers.
'The chaps at work know. They didn't make any big thing of it just
expressed interest and nearly all of them could think of relatives or peo¬
ple they knew of who had suffered from it.
'Hazel's never tried to kid anyone. I hear of women trying to hide it
even wearing wigs in bed. That's just hdiculous. She never needs to do
that with me. We now have an even stronger bond.'
Clare^ the young mother of two, was also surpnsed when her husband
was not repulsed. It had been her biggest fear. 'I thought he wouldn't
love me any more. I thought everyone would laugh at me because bald¬
ness is a jokey kind of thing.' Clare's husband tries to comfort her. He
even applies the prescribed scalp cream to her head every night.
When her baldness worsened, Clare returned to her family doctor, but
a referral to a consultant dermatologist did not help. He told her 'It
might come back. It might not.' He had her photographed for research
purposes and, when she enquired about NHS help with wigs, explained
that the Department of Health had requested doctors to cut down on this
kind of prescription, os part of the financial cuts. To qualify, she needed
to have suffered from alopecia for at least two years or to be completely
bald. Clare still had some hair left. 'You con get some pretty hots these
days,' he remarked.
Clare returned home in tears. She raised the money for a wig herself,
helped by her mother.
It was at this stage that she started being irritable and taking it out
on the children. 'I rang my health visitor. I was so afraid I'd lose control.
She said that I must get out of the house and join everything - play
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groups, coffee mornings, etc. I began to get more confident and decided
to tackle my doctor again. Something new and tough came over me. I
managed to change my GP and get a referral to another dermatologist.'
This one was more helpful. He said that she was, in fact, entitled to
help with wigs and organized it. The new acrylic wigs helped her to feel
normal. 'You do your best. You stick on your wig, false eyelashes, pencil
in your eyebrows and hope no one notices. No one's actually said any¬
thing yet. I've decided that if they are brave enough to ask "Is it a wig?"
I must have the guts to tell them.
'My worst moment was at a "wig party" run by a wig manufacturer at
a local women's group. People were buying wigsforfun, for fashion! I just
sat there in horror waiting for the demonstrator to pick on me, afraid I
would have to take off my wig and put another one on! And no one knew
I wore one! I had steeled myself with two glasses of sherry before I set out
that night, but I learned a lot about making the wigs look nice. I've now
bought a very trendy one which has really boosted my confidence.
'Another dicey moment came when my doctor suggested I needed to
have my tonsils out. I refused. It was the thought of being in hospital
and people seeing me with no hair, in the operating theatre and after¬
wards in the ward. I made the excuse that I couldn't leave the children.
'The children know. The other day I was changing when my son some¬
how escaped through the front door and toddled onto the road. He's only
a baby and I had to rush out and rescue him because of the traffic. I
thought of the motorists seeing me and I didn't worry so much about
them seeing me nude as seeing me without a wig!
'My daughter has a toy wig and thinks it's great, just like mummy's.
She cried on Chnstmas Day. She said, "I asked Father Chnstmas to bring
me a bike and mummy some hair, but he forgot to bnng your hair.'"
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Janice's aiopecia started in her thirties. A widow, she had married for
the second time. This marriage was wrecked, she says, by her second hus¬
band's insensitivity. 'He would taunt me in front of other people, soy
"Look, she's going bold!" I think that was by way of a joke.
'I got so upset about my patchy head that I went to a wig manu¬
facturer where they fixed me up with two hairpieces. They were very
expensive and hod to be attached at the sides, front and bock v/ith glue.
Every time I went to hove my hair reset another section of hair was token
up to accommodate the fastening of the piece. The piece was actually
clipped into the scalp with a metal clip and it was agony, but I bottled
on for some years like this. I liked to go to dances with my husband and
I hated to see my scalp shining through my thin hair when I looked in
mirrors under the spotlights.
'The hairpiece people were sorry it wasn't very comfortable but they
were used to dealing with men and didn't hove any female clients. In the
end a friend, who happens to be a hairdresser, persuaded me to do away
with the hairpieces and cut my hair exceptionally short all over. I felt
most uncomfortable and self-conscious for many weeks.
'The hair loss hod begun after a hysterectomy at the age of 37. My
doctor, going bold himself, said that there was nothing he or anyone else
could do. Once the hair hod gone it was gone for good.
'Seven and a half years ago my eldest son died suddenly, a terrible
blow. I felt I would never recover from the shock and the loss. After this
my hair loss become even more apparent.
'My husband's taunts and jokes were only part of the cruel things he
used to soy to me, often in front of his friends. I began to feel I was
going mental. I finally realized I hod the remedy in my own hands. When
I told him I was storting divorce proceedings, he threatened me with:
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'Til make your life a misery and you'll wish you'd never been born. I'll
see you end up penniless. You'll be lucky if you even have a candle to
keep yourself warm." In spite of his abuse, I knew the divorce was some¬
thing I had to go through with. I'd got myself into this marriage and I
jolly well had to get myself out of it.
'The hassle and divorce are all over now. I've moved into a new house,
I work as a secretary and I feel much happier than I have in years.'
Brenda sees her hair loss as a symptom of her unhappy marriage. Her
hair started to thin when she was in her thirties. She says that she suf¬
fered great misery and humiliation through her husband's attitude. After
20 years and four children, she left him and finally divorced him. 'Since
then. I've had 10 very happy years. The freedom from stress after the
divorce was quite overwhelming. Even my hair improved, much to my
surpnse. But just when I thought all my troubles were over, the gradual
loss started again.'
Brenda thinks it may be due to a hereditary factor. 'I've talked to my
own doctor about this and he agrees. It appears to run in my family. My
aunt and a young niece both have severe hair loss.'
Now Brenda is facing the problem in her own daughter. From the age
of 5, her once-abundant hair has been thinning and now, in her early
teens, it is very sparse. 'I've never mentioned my own problem to her,'
says Brenda, 'and I've never drawn attention to her sparse hair, but now
she's in her teens, looks and hairstyles are so important. And she has
noticed for herself. I once heard her weeping in her bedroom and
sobbing "Oh, hair!" which cut me to the quick.'
scatty. Then my hair fell out. I was told at the hospital that I had only a
5 per cent chance of getting it bock. I felt terrible, upset and emotion¬
ally drained.
'I refused to wear a wig os I felt that was admitting defeat and might
prevent my own hair growing bock. Gradually I stopped turning up for col¬
lege. In the end my doctor said I was probably doing myself damage
trying to cope with college so I dropped out of the course.
'My husband hod gone and I was alone in the house. I didn't go any¬
where in cose people mocked me. I was new to the city and hod no
fnends. I was scored to go out and only forced myself out of the house
so that I could try treatments for my hair. Steroid injections didn't work
so I spent money on things like herbalism and hypnosis. I was getting
more and more into debt. I was already on the dole but I didn't care.'
A letter ornvedfrom a man she hod known in the South-East He was
coming to see her. 'I tried to put him off by explaining the situation but
he came anyway. I was ponic-stncken. I was so ugly. How could he wont
me?' Luckily he did. Stephanie has now been living with him for some
months. He has a job in a bonk, so was able to move north.
And Stephanie's hair has begun to regrow, although a lot is still
falling out. 'I don't know whether it is coming or going - both I think!
But he is very confident and keeps telling me it will return.'
She is now pregnant. 'My doctor has warned me that I risk losing my
hair again after I have the baby, but I can't let my hair problems mess
up my life any more. If it goes again, well, it goes! The baby is more
important.'
Yvonne, the wife of a property consuitant, tost her hair only a few
months after her marnage. She had been a nurse, working long spells of
night duty. Doctors could only link her alopecia with exhaustion. Her own
opinion is that it may be part of a hormone problem. After her daughter
was born she was never able to have another child.
Small, delicately featured, she has shoulder-length blonde 'hair'
which makes her one of the most glamorous wives in their set when they
go to Ascot or the Derby.
She lives exactly as if she had hair. Every Saturday, she goes off to the
hairdresser to have her 'hair' set. Her acrylic wig is washed on her head,
rollered, then she sits under the drier alongside all the other clients. They
have no idea, she says, that she is bald. 'My hairdresser is very under¬
standing. She does things to a wig which all the manufacturers tell you
not to do. She uses heat on it when the wig manufacturers advise
strongly against any form of direct heat. But she gets away with it and I
always leave the salon feeling absolutely marvellous. My confidence has
had a real boost and I feel great.'
She has always felt it wasn't fair on her husband to burden him with
the problems of her hair loss. 'After all, we were just married. He had
married a young, pretty girl and suddenly she was a bald freak. I could¬
n't inflict that on him so I've found it much easier over the years to keep
my wigs out of his way. If they are in the airing cupboard I move them
guickly so that neither my husband or my daughter ever sees them.'
On holiday she even swims in her wig. 'It's amazing how good-
tempered the acrylic wigs are. I sleep in them, of course, and it's no
problem.
'My husband never mentions it, but being an ex-military man, he likes
to see that I look all right if we're going anywhere. At the front door he
will check me over and prod the wig if he doesn't like the way I've
combed it. Sometimes I feel I'm on parade, but I understand. He mar¬
ried me when I had hair. It wasn't fair on him. We've certainly been very
happy for 15 years. Occasionally he comes home and talks about the
women he has met during the day - lovely women, apparently. He often
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remarks on their beautiful hair. I wish he wouldn't But it's a big part of
a woman's appeal, I suppose.'
Hilary, the industnalist's wife, did not try to hide her baldness from her
husband but, as she prefers headscarves to wigs, has often refused to go
on business trips with him because she was afraid of the reaction of his
colleagues.
'Thirteen years ago my marvellous doctor sent me to get a wig. Hor¬
ror of horrors, I felt like a floosy. From having so little to acquiring this
mop they offered me! I preferred my headscarf.'
The fact that she turned up for an interview in a headscarf may have lost
her one job she wanted and sometimes she gets comments in the street.
'People will say "Areyou selling pegs, love?" One man said, "Haven't
you got any hair?" to which I replied, "No, I haven't." You've got to be
truthful.'
She spent more than she could afford on travel, searching for a cure,
trying everything available. 'I read of a miraculous new primula treat¬
ment and travelled regularly to a hospital some miles away for
applications of primula leaf to the scalp and systemic steroid injections.
For a time, success. I was thnlled to bits with a great deal of hair growth.
I even had my hair cut!' But she was putting on weight and warned
about the possibility of other side-effects. 'I felt so strange on the
steroid injections -1 was as high as a kite some of the time.'
Because of her worries, she made the mistake of going against her
consultant's advice and stopping the treatment before the end of the
course. The result was disastrous. 'We went on holiday to Spain. I was
thrilled with my new hair and even swam in the sea. But one day in the
shower everything went in one fell swoop. Eyebrows, lashes, pubic hair,
underarm hair. I looked like a plucked duck. I shouted to my husband, "I
don't believe this.'"
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The experience was so traumatic it put Hilary off any further efforts
to get her hair back. 'I then decided enough was enough. No more
injections, no more herbalists, no more tnchologists. I would just live
and feel much better for it. My body hair has mostly returned, eyebrows
and eyelashes too, although one eyebrow locks colour and still unfortu¬
nately no hair on the head.'
Hilary was beginning to feel that she was missing out on trips with
her husband. When he was recently sent to Barbados she decided to join
him - and purchased two new wigs. It was a wonderful holiday and
morale returned.
Once she had bought an acrylic wig which she really liked, Sylvia sur¬
vived her socializing without a qualm. 'It's super/ she announced. 'I
wore it to a New Year party and felt quite glamorous. All the family like
it too, including the uncle.'
Lately she has had some good news. Her hair is growing back again.
Slowly, but it is there.
Carol was equally scared of coping with the police ball, but her husband
wanted her to accompany him. The wig caused an unexpected stir. 'When
we arnved heads turned to look at me. It appeared that some of his col¬
leagues couldn't believe I was his wife. What they expected I don't know.
None of them knows of my condition but maybe the wig creates a differ¬
ent impression. It goes to show that one can still look great with a little
effort and a lot of guts. You don't hove to hide yourself away!'
Wimfred, 62, did not tell her husband that she wore a wig when she mar¬
ried, but a year after their wedding he found out. 'The weather was
windy. I put my hands to my head to hold the wig on but it was too late.
It was such a ternble shock to him that he has never spoken about it to
this day.'
That was nearly 40 years ago.
Survival plan
Like me, you will be aghast. 'Only old ladies, judges and
drag artistes wear wigs', you will cry, 'not me, a normal
modern woman.' But you will realize, as you start to dread
going out in the wind, when you can no longer disguise
the bald patches with clever combing, that the time
has come to get yourself to the nearest modern wig
department.
Faced with rows of severed polystyrene heads sporting
coiffures of all kinds, your immediate instinct will be to
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turn tail. Stay put. I know you think it is the end of the
world, as I did. I imagined the discreet postiche parlours
of my youth where elderly women, in fur coats, visited
the bespoke wigmaker, going in with hats strategically
placed on thinning hair, coming out bewigged - so obvi¬
ously bewigged, in thick gleaming 'hair-dos' which stood
no chance of deceiving anyone. The wigs stood slightly
away from their heads at the back, just enough to give the
game away.
Of course, I knew about Tun wigs', a fashion relic of the
1960s, but not a wig to be worn daily! I was terrified.
I was also out of date. Modern acrylic wigs are light¬
weight and trendy. When you find the right one, you will
probably look better than you ever did in your own hair.
Decide first which type you prefer. Some people like
the human hair variety, made to measure and costing sev¬
eral hundred pounds. These take some weeks to make
and may involve fittings. With a real hair wig, you must
also be prepared to spend hours on styling and setting, as
it needs to he treated as your own hair. You must not get
it wet - that's fun in the British climate! You must also
send it back to the manufacturer for regular chemical
cleaning.
For me, it was much easier to slip into a department
store and buy an acrylic wig 'over the counter'. These
have practical advantages. They can be washed at home
and, if you are caught in the rain, you need only leave
them alone and restrain yourself from touching them
until they are dry. Then they are usually as good as new.
They are much less expensive than the real hair variety,
costing from around £80 and they look amazingly natural.
When you go to buy your wig, ask for a private fitting
room. Even the staff cloakroom will do, so long as you
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FACT: Women Who Have Lost Their Hair are Not Obliged to Take Off
Their Wigs in Front of Their Men.
Some women have such a close, confident relationship
that maybe they don't need to worry, but most of us find
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Nancy, aged 71, who has been wearing wigs for 30 years, was in a
department store with her 2-year-old grandson. 'He was jiggling about
and I was trying to keep him from trampling on my bad foot when I fell
backwards. Horror of horrors, my wig dropped off. Where was that hole
to fall into? I felt more bothered about my wig than whether I was hurt!'
Every time you get out of a car you will catch the
wig on the roof This always happens, especially
when you are watched by someone you wish to
impress.
When you are going out on a special occasion, the
wig which looked wonderful when you tried it last
week will suddenly refuse to comb up. It will not
look nearly as good as it did when you tried it on.
But remember when you had your own hair?
Wasn't it just as difficult sometimes?
If you go out in a short wig one day and a long one
the next, you are bound to meet the same people.
Fact of Wig Lore: no hair grows six inches in the
night.
At a party you will not be the only person wearing
something false. What about false nails, bosoms,
teeth?
When your hair grows back, you will not throw
your wigs away. You will realize how pretty and
convenient they were. You will wear them again.
Wigs bring out the wits. Brace yourself against a
world in which there will always be a Tunny
uncle' dying to be the comedian of the party at
your expense! Let him. The wives will probably he
silent and jealous, just wondering where you had
your hair done!
When it Happens to a Man
'Everything stopped - joy in life, sex drive.
It killed any urge for sex for two years.'
It changed his personality. 'It made him more aggressive/ says his
wife.
It changed his life. 'Ifelt deadened. I wasn't afraid of being un¬
attractive. I don't think I'm vain. I just didn't want sex.'
Women hove always indulged him. From the hospital staff who nursed
him through polio to the wife and daughters who affectionately boss him
around in the large Edwardian house of a university town. Essentially
masculine, he speaks in all-male military language. He talks of a 'kip',
of 'mates' on the battlefield, of his life in the army, with Sunday morn¬
ing hangovers and a girl for weekend leave.
Romantic, he wntes poetry. Sensuous, he loved the caresses of the
nurses and physiotherapists who massaged his muscles back to life when
he was ill. Helpless in bed and wheelchair, he thnved on their touch.
Ross, like most men, might have expected to go bald gradually as he
grew older, but when it happened so suddenly it was as devastating to
him as to a woman. While a wife may feel that her baldness makes her
less attractive to her husband, a man who is suddenly deprived of his hair
may not worry consciously that it makes him ugly. Ross's reaction was
simply to lose interest in the sexual side of his life.
He makes light of it. 'My wife is a down-to-earth Virgo, while I'm a
dreaming Pisces. She's very philosophical, I don't think she minded'. But
Ross minded a lot, privately.
His ordeal began with a strange purplish rash which appeared on his
chest and abdomen. Inflamed, with very dry skin, the rash was sore and
painful. Within four weeks, he noticed that his hair was dropping out in
thick tufts every time he brushed it. It was July; the school holidays had
just begun. He went to the doctor, confident of a cure. 'After all, they had
put me back on my feet after polio, so I was sure that such a tnviality as
hair loss could be easily cleared up. I had childlike faith in medical mira¬
cles.' It was notjustified. The doctor informed him that he knew very little
about alopecia and that doctors probably wouldn't be able to cure it.
Ross was referred to the nearest teaching hospital where, as it hap¬
pened, an international conference of dermatologists was in progress.
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Michael: 'When a man goes bald in the normal way, gradually, he often
looks distinguished. I just looked scruffy.'
Michael started to lose his hair six years ago at the age of 20. The
patches were at the back of his head, one sideburn is now missing and
there is a patch at the front. 'It's impossible to cover it all with a hat,'
says Michael. 'It won't be long before I lose it all.
'At the time it began I had a rather hectic job in a small pnnting firm
and for much of the time I worked in a darkroom. This made me think that
the cause was lack of sunlight, contamination from photographic chemi¬
cals, stress - or a combination of all three. I was under pressure at work.
At one stage I actually had a bed in the office. But I enjoy being busy.'
His hair gradually regrew, but when his steady girlfnend decided to end
their relationship, it fell out again. 'I don't know whether it was because
of my hair that she left me. I wouldn't blame her if it was. My hair was
growing back when we were together, but it still looked a bit of a mess.'
When she left him, he began to feel a failure with women. 'I suppose
my confidence was undermined. The further hair loss made me even more
self-conscious and introverted, though I hove always been quiet' His
mother worries about this. 'Michael has always been a quiet boy. One
doctor suggested that this hair loss happened because I left him os a
child when I hod to go into hospital after a miscarriage. Michael was 3
at the time and I left him at home with relations, but I was only away
for a week.'
She is also concerned about his lock of social life. 'He should be out
meeting people. I would love him to find a woman friend and get mar¬
ried. It isn't right for him to be stuck here with us.' Michael and his
parents live in a dromoticolly beautiful port of the English West Country.
His home, on old farmhouse, is very remote. His father works os on
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Robert also lost most of his hair through alopecia areata os a child in
Canada. At 33, he has never morned and has always been too ashamed
of his condition even to ask a woman for a dote. 'I just know I am a
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figure of fun and couidn't possibly expect any woman to take me sen-
ously. This thin little body with a wig perched on the top. I get a sixth
sense when people are behind me whispenng and laughing. In Canada,
when I was a child, people were sympathetic. They are more understand¬
ing as a nation than the British.' Irntable bowel syndrome has left him
severely underweight. He has to put up with daily ridicule in the street.
Now Robert lives alone in London. His job as a bank executive is
demanding and fairly stressful. 'You hove to concentrate. One mistake
can upset a case for years.' His existence is solitary, broken up only by
weekly visits to his mother and one evening a week at a book society.
He decided to take a pen friend, and enjoyed a long corrrespondence
with an English girl about 150 miles away. 'We got on famously. Eventu¬
ally we arranged to meet.' There was only one problem. He had not told
her about his wig. 'I worried for ages and decided that I had better break
it to her. She wrote back and was marvellous. She said that she didn't
mind a bit. Everything was fine, I was really excited. But at the last
minute she changed her mind. Cold feet, I suppose, though there may
have been a genuine reason. Anyway, that was the end of that.'
He has now become accustomed to his isolation. 'Women think I'm
peculiar. My wig looks a bit strange. It is real hair, longish, and you
would think that with men wearing hair longer these days I would get
away with it, but I don't. I'm trying acrylics now in the hope of looking
more natural, but they make my scalp itch.
'I started losing my hair when I was seven in Canada. My parents had
gone there in the hopes offinding work but it wasn't easy as my father
was unskilled. He has always blamed himself for my baldness. He had
taken me to a restaurant and I trapped my finger in a glass door, cutting
it badly. He took me to hospital where I was given a tetanus injection.
Two weeks later, patchy alopecia areata started. It seemed too much of
a coincidence to be unrelated to the injection. One dermatologist told
me that the vaccination might have oversensitized my antibodies and
caused the hair loss, so my fatherfelt guilty, though I am sure it was just
an accident.
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The cost of iiving was high in Canada and we couldn't afford a spe¬
cialist, just the local doctor. Nothing could be done for me, he said, so
for two years I wore a cap all the time. The teachers and the children at
school were quite understanding but when we came back to England I
was older and felt my wig was very noticeable.
In England I went to Great Ormond Street Hospital for Children
which, of course, is the best in the world. They put me on systemic
steroids but the side-effects were so bad -1 put on lots of weight - that
they took me off them.'
At comprehensive school in north London he excelled. 'I worked hard.
I had more faith and optimism in those days. There was the odd incident
at school. The English teacher grabbed my sideburns in the fnendly way
teachers sometimes grab a handful of boys' hair. He was amazed to find
that the sideburns were part of my wig. The whole thing came off in his
hand - to the amusement of the class.'
His condition has now deteriorated so much that it is classed as
alopecia universalis. He still attends a hospital skin clinic.
Robert feeb infenor. 'In one of the James Bond books, Ian Fleming
descnbed alopecia as "the most hideous disease in the world". I agree,
particularly when you lose eyebrows and eyelashes as well as your hair.
It robs your face of all its character. I wish I lived on an island entirely
populated by people with alopecia. Then I wouldn't have to put up with
all the sniggers. I would just look like everyone else.'
Andrew, a radio and television salesman lost his hair just before his
wedding. He was 24. 'My wife didn't change her mind. She was so busy
with all the arrangements that it would have taken a lot more to make
her cancel it. But you should see my wedding photographs! I looked a
right mess! Morning suit, all the tnmmings, the bride in white, and me
- in a very poor wig that looked bloody awful. No eyebrows or eyelashes
either. What a day!'
Alopecia areata happened rapidly and within a few weeks he lost all
his hair. He faced his wedding night smooth and bald. Scalp and body
When it Happens to a Man 119
hair went completely, but his wife was determined not to give him a
chance to feel inadequate. 'I thought she wouldn't fancy me. You don't
look very macho with no hair. But she was sure it was going to grow back
and kept on and on saying so.
'I look at my wedding pictures now and wonder howl could hove done
it. You have never seen such a terrible wig and I was always messing
around with double-sided sticking tape to keep it on. But when it hap¬
pened I was trainee sales manager for a national chain of television
shops. There was no way I could have done that job without a wig.
'My mother had been very ill just before the wedding. I had been liv¬
ing at my mother-in-law's house, sleeping on the sofa, travelling a lot. It
was a long way from where I was working. There was mounting pressure
at work, worry about sales figures, targets, charts ... All those things
put me under a lot of pressure.'
Andrew feeb his wife gave him the most confidence and ensured that
their married life did not suffer. 'She mode me feel that she wanted me
just as much and everything was fine.' They started a family and now
have three children, aged 4, 2, and 5 months.
When his hair started to grow back, he held a wig-burning ceremony
in the garden, inviting all his friends to join him for a celebratory drink.
The hair took two years to regrow, so in the meantime he wore a cap
indoors and out.
When his wife went into hospital to have their first baby, he
was determined to watch the birth. 'I went into the delivery room wear¬
ing my cap. Fortunately the staff were all so busy that no one noticed
me, so no one bothered to give me a gown or theatre cap and it wasn't
until it was all over that the sister turned to me and laughed, "You've still
got your hat on." I laughed as well.'
Sadly, Andrew's pleasure at the return of his hair was short-lived.
Seven years later another episode of alopecia occurred and he has now
lost three-quarters of his scalp hair again. He was involved in a particu¬
larly stressful period at work as a retail manager. 'This time I decided it
was time to change my job.'
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He now works from home, running his own small business, painting
portraits from photographs. 'I have never regretted giving up my selling
job. It also means that I don't have to wear a wig this time. I have thank¬
fully dispensed with it and wear a flat cap when we go out.
'It makes a big difference to my life. When I am without hair I really
don't want to go out socially.
'I suppose I've treated alopecia as a warning to change my life-style.
I am much happier now. My hair has started to regrow. It is at the early
stage of being "all white" in colour. It just seems slow this time. I'm get¬
ting a little anxious.'
Andrew's wife says she was not too alarmed when his hair fell out. 'I had
seen alopeda before, in a colleague at work and a friend at church. When
my colleague in teaching lost his hair it was usually when he was overwork¬
ing or worried, then it would come back. Now he has retired it is better -
very thick and healthy, as he doesn't hove any work to worry about! When
it happened to Andrew I felt sure his hair would come bock the same way.
'I didn't even think of cancelling the wedding. He was just os attrac¬
tive to me os he hod always been, though I know it depressed him. I just
thought how ill and worried he looked at the wedding. He wasn't so
passionate when he had no hair. He didn't wont to go out very much in
the evenings.
'When he was managing the shop he used to try to crayon in the bold
patches with block eyebrow pencil. Eventually he gave up and wore a wig.
He was always worrying in cose it fell off in the shop or in a pub.
'When his hair regrew we hod a great time! He was turned on and
more loving. We would go out socially again and everything was fine.
'When it all fell out for the second time he got very depressed. We stay
in most of the time now. I don't mind as I'm pretty tired in the evenings,
having three under-fives to look after. I don't mind so long as I know this
isn't forever. The hair is growing bock just a little now so I hope it will all
come bock again os it did the first time.
'He feels there ore so many things he "doesn't wont" to do because
of his hair loss. One important thing I wonted him to do was to hove a
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vasectomy. He uses his hair loss as an excuse, saying he can't sit in the
doctor's surgery with his cap on! I really don't see that the doctor will be
paying any attention to the top of his head! So I am trying to persuade
him,'
Ross had always impressed on everyone that his hair would return but
first it was very important to him to find out more about the cause.
He was still convinced that both the rashes and the hair loss had been
caused by garden chemical sprays. He wrote to the Health and Safety
Executive, who interviewed him and made investigations. His dermatolo¬
gist contacted the various chemicab firms whose products had been in
use at his school and which Ross had a bo used at home, A spokesman
for one of the firms acknowledged that some chemicab ~ the arsenicab
- were known to cause 'dermatitis and hair loss', but explained that
these were no longer on sale.
The hospital called in a retired dermatologist of some 40 years' expe¬
rience, He examined Ross and concluded: 'This is probably alopecia
areata but I cannot rule out the possibility that it was tnggered by
exposure to toxic chemicab,'
But Ross still wonted to know the cause, 'I didn't wont to sue anyone.
The important thing was to try to prevent something like this happening
to anyone ebe,'
Faced with the ordeal of going bock to school to cope with the curios-
ity of young boys, many men would hove been tempted to stay at home,
but Ross returned to school for the autumn term. Now he was transformed
from a hirsute mole to this smooth, hairless individual 'from outer space'.
Silence fell os he walked into the school library for the first staff meeting
of the term. He looked so grotesquely different from the man they hod lost
seen only eight weeks earlier that several colleagues foiled to recognize
him. Some avoided him completely. One young teacher complimented him
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on his new short haircut, then felt back in embarrassment when he baked
more closely and saw that Ross had no hair at all.
Predictably, the children labelled him Kojak. But their attitude was
not unkind. 'To their eternal credit', says Ross, 'not one child ever
attempted to poke fun at me.' But they were very keen to hove their
books marked, prompted by the natural cunosity to take a closer look at
his balding head. The school doctor reported that many children had
been to see her, usually on some pretext, to enquire about their teacher's
health and why he had suddenly lost his hair.
His wife and family supported him. 'I don't think they ever told me
some of the comments they heard outside,' he soys. 'My wife is not given
to hystencs. She was only angry once, os for as I know.' His wife explains:
'A woman acquaintance stopped me in the street with on expression of
deep gloom. "How is your poor husband?" she asked and made it quite
clear that she thought he was on chemotherapy and likely to die any
minute. I told her "He's only lost his hair, for God's soke." When you've
been through what we hove in our lives - we've lived through wars, don't
forget ~ losing a little bit of hair is nothing.'
It was hardly 'nothing' to her husband. He felt depressed and began
to ovoid mirrors.
On his next hospital appointment, he was accompanied by his wife.
The sister on reception was sympathetic. 'How old is your father?' she
asked her. 'I felt about 85,' soys Ross, 'a wizened, bolding gnome.'
His theory about the garden spray was finally discounted. 'In the
end,' soys his dermatologist, 'I do not think we were ever able to relate
his hair fall to chemical exposure, and it was felt that he hod ordinary
idiopathic alopecia oreoto/totolis. Chemicab usually cause hair to fall
out in a nogen - i.e. their growing phase - whereas alopecia areata gives
these rather choroctenstic clubbed hairs due to the hairs being rushed
into their resting/shedding phase. Although various chemicab cause hair
fall - particularly cytotoxic drugs used for cancer - there is not, so for os
I know, any evidence of this occurring with everyday environmental or
ognculturol chemicab. A toxic cause was therefore unlikely.'
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Ross refused drugs for his alopecia. 'I felt that over the years ~ with
having had polio - my body had had enough chemicals to put up with.'
He also refused to wear a wig. 'I was convinced that once I wore a
wig my body wouldn't bother go on fighting and replace the natural hair.
For the some reason I had always refused calipers when I was recovering
from polio.'
Two years after he lost his hair came the first sign of hope. He was in
the front of the car, when his young son, in the back seat, spotted tiny
hairs on his father's head. Slowly his hair returned. Soon Ross needed to
shave again. His body hair, eyebrows and eyelashes came back as well. So
did Ross's normal cheerfulness and zest for life. 'It was a great relief' he
admits, 'to discover that normal sex drive can just lie dormant for a while.
I felt fine again. It was also a relief to get my hair back again. In spite of
all my protests, I had always had a secret fear that it would never return,
or come bock in a half-hearted way and just look ugly and moth-eaten.'
It is now 11 years since it happened and there has been no sign of a
relapse. 'I realized how lucky I was when I heard that only about 20 per
cent of patients with total hair loss recover completely. If I had stayed
hairless, nothing dramatic would have happened. Life would have gone
on as before. It would just have been muted by that strange block which
prevented me from being "full of the joys of spring"! When I got my hair
back, life started again.'
Survival plan
FACT: No Matter How Thick Your Hair is Now, You Could be Bald in a
Week “ at Any Age - if You Got Alopeda Areata.
FACT: You are Lucky to be a Man. Sodety Will Accept Your Baldness
Easily. If You Suddenly Lose Your Hair, it May be a Shock For You,
But it is Not the Freak Happening it Would be for Your Wife.
Having said that, it can still be tough on a man because
the effect of alopecia areata is so messy and patchy. If it
becomes total and eyebrows and eyelashes also disap¬
pear, a man also has a loss of self-image, and feels
disbelief - and horror - every time he looks in a mirror.
Martin, 17, was a promising student when he lost all his hair. He excelled
in languages, obtained a university place and had hoped for a career in
travel.
His hair loss wrecked all that. He lost confidence, was afraid of other
people's reactions to him, and gave up his dreams of a career. 1 started
to drink heavily which became a problem. I found that women soon left
me and I was three times involved in "suicide" attempts - though, os I
told someone every time that I had taken an overdose, I suppose they
were just "cnes for help".'
He took a stopgap job as a betting shop manager and, at 31, finds
life very lonely. 'I hide myself away every evening, unless I go to pubs.
Where else is there to go? Then the drink problem starts again.'
So how does a man survive it? There are two ways open
to you.
You can say 'No one will ever want me without hair. I
am going to forget about sex, career ambitions, all the
things in life which are important to me, until my hair
grows back.'
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FACT: Your Wife Probably Won't Give a Damn About Your Loss of Hair.
What will worry her is the effect your hair loss has on
you. She may not mind the baldness. She will mind if it
wrecks your married life, if you stop taking her out and
stop making it fun to stay in. If you call a sudden halt to
your sex life, she may not be pleased.
Adam was 18 months old when it began with a small patch on the crown,
then another. His grandfather has always suffered from AA and was 90
per cent bald at 14. He says: 'I don't want Adam to face the teasing I
had from other children.'
Peppi, aged 13, slashed her arms with a penknife in the playground of
her comprehensive school. Her mother says: 'Peppi did it out of sheer
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frustration. That day I realized just what an effect the loss of her hair
had had on her. I made a fuss and demanded that the headmaster and
our doctor call in a child psychiatrist.'
It is now two years since Peppi lost her hair totally, including eye¬
brows and eyelashes. The family still reels from the shock. Her mother
describes it as a nightmare for the entire household. 'I woke up every
morning with this strange sense of grieving. I would mortage everything
if I could only get Peppi's hair back.'
Peppi's parents have worked hard to achieve their present comfortable
lifestyle. Their detached house is the biggest in the suburban London cres¬
cent. Her father is a successful manufacturer of office equipment. He is
stunned by the extent of his daughter's condition and the fact that no
amount of money con help her. 'If only doctors would tell you the truth
from the start/ he soys. 'We were told that it was only a minor disorder
and would soon clear up. Now it looks os if it could go on for years,'
Peppi's problem began at 11. Her cousin, a hairdresser, was perming
her hair os a special treat. Peppi hod been ploying with a glitter spray, the
kind which gives hair gold and silver sparkle. Her cousin joked: 'Look, your
hair's gone green!' She looked more closely and stopped joking. There
were several small bold patches all over the child's head. Two weeks later,
Peppi was completely bold. Menstruation began around the some time.
Having on idea that it might hove been caused by stress, her mother
put it down to on incident a few weeks earlier. Her older sister hod token
Peppi to ploy with a group of other children. They went to the shops and
the others got involved in shoplifting. 'It was done only in ploy but they
hod a ticking offfrom the police. It must hove upset Peppi more than we
realized. She was only on onlooker but perhaps she felt guilty.'
As in many coses where a child has lost hair severely, it is the mother
who seems to suffer most. 'I get very withdrawn. It is awful to see a child
who has been normal and happy suddenly changing. She is aggressive
now, much too loud. When she lost her hair, the little girl who played
with dolls disappeared and this big noisy teenager come in her place. She
seems to behove like this to moke up for her lock of hair.'
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Peppi is tali womanly before her time. Wearing her trendy new blond
wig, she can easily be mistaken for an 18-year-old. It has all made her
mother over-protective. On windy days, she keeps Peppi away from
school. Often she meets her in the car at tea-time.
'When she tore her arms I thought she had exploded at last after all
the teasing she gets at school. The children give her hell, particularly the
older boys. They try to drench her wig with water. It is a new one, sup¬
plied by the hospital, and they seem to try to make it look a mess.
Sometimes they throw balls at it in the playground. She was looking for¬
ward to going to a disco but a gang from school waited there with a
camera poised to take her picture as they knocked her wig off. The kids'
cruelty is unbelievable.'
When it first happened, Peppi was not keen on wearing a wig. She
preferred to wear caps, indoors and out. 'One cap fell off in the street and
blew away. But luckily I was with her so I put my coat around her head
and shoulders and rescued the cap. It made us finally decide she must
have a wig so we went to the hospital to see about it. But it caused prob¬
lems on holiday when it fell in the sea.' Her sisters, swimming with her,
managed to get the wig back in place before they came out to face the
crowded beach.
Medical treatment with systemic steroids failed. There was no
regrowth but Peppi put on a stone in weight. The family also spent a
considerable amount on homoeopathic treatment without success. Peppi
also suffers from eczema and asthma.
The family has no previous history of alopecia, though they are fairly
hair-conscious. Peppi's father recently had a hair transplant although his
problem is just mole pattern baldness.
Her mother tried to compensate by buying Peppi plenty of lovely
clothes. 'It's all I con do. I spend a fortune.'
Toni Warne was only nine when she became a television star after win¬
ning BBC TV's Bob Says 'Opportunity Knocks'. She had had alopecia
areata since she was two. Patches had come and gone, growing back
each time.
Although the latest patch was growing in when she won the TV contest,
her mother soys: T still had a job to disguise it under the spotlights. So I
had her hair cut and lightly permed. Reporters asked me whether I was
trying to make her look like Shirley Temple so I hod to explain to them
about her alopecia. Some people, who read it in the papers, asked
whether she was under stress because of so much TV work but, in fact, her
hair has been a lot better since she started on TV. She really loves singing.
T used to cry over it when I washed her hair and sow the bold
patches. The doctor warned me not to let her see that I was upset. He
said that it was bod for her to know how worried I've been.
'I was also told not to spoil her, which I was doing - to compensate
for the boldness, I suppose.'
Toni finds that the natural jealousy of her peers comes to the fore
when they see her in the street. She soys; 'Other children shout "Baldie"
or "She's on the telly and she's bold!" It used to upset me but now I
realize that they ore just jealous. The trouble is that in the swimming
pool my hair gets wet and they con see the patches.'
Her hair is improving. From having four patches she now has only one,
so her parents ore optimistic.
Joanne went bold at seven, and her parents were surprised by the lack
of help they received. She hod a year's treatment from a consultant
dermatologist, using steroid creams applied to the scalp and a minoxidil
solution, without success. No further appointments were made. Her par¬
ents were told: 'There is nothing more we con do.' Says her mother: 'I just
couldn't believe it. The child hod lost nearly every hair on her head and all
they could tell us was that she must wear a wig. She won't. She hates wigs.'
At seven, Joanne was barely out of babyhood, but there was no way
her mother could persuade her to change her mind. She regarded wigs as
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a hot sticky nuisance and invanably pulled them off. 'There was nothing
more the hospital could suggest I came out feeling we had been turned
away and I was just being left to get on with it by myself'
Soon, Joanne, who had had long curly hair, took to wearing only
shorts and T-shirts which matched her boyish head. She has only a small
growth of hair at the nape of her neck. 'She used to love party dresses,
nbbons and fnils. Now she won't have a dress on her back,' said her
mother.
At school, it was reported that Joanne had been seen using the boys'
toilet. The school doctor suggested she saw a psychiatnst. Joanne's
mother wasfunous. 'She doesn't need a psychiatnst and I don't believe
she went into the boys' playground. I'm having lots of talks with her and
I'm sure it's just a stage she's been going through. She is beginning to
be persuaded to put on dresses again.'
She feels guilty about her own long blonde hair. 'I feel so awful seeing
Joanne like this. It hurts to see her. I'd gladly give her all my hair if I could.'
Joanne won't talk about her loss of hair, except to report the behav¬
iour of a visiting netball team. Unlike Joanne's friends at the village
school, they had not known her before her hair loss and had not been
able to see what happened. Surpnsed by her baldness, they behaved very
badly. 'They treated me as a joke,' says Joanne. 'They pointed at me and
called me a boiled egg.' If Joanne was hurt, she didn't show it but
merely wondered off into another playground.
Her mother says this is typical. 'She never shows how much she is
upset by people stanng at her in the street and making silly remarks, but
deep down inside I know she feels it. All the visits to doctors, the poking
and prying. You can't go through all that without suffenng.
'14/e don't know the cause. It has been suggested that it was some¬
thing to do with her grandfather's sudden death. She was very close to
him and very upset when he died. I have never known a child cry so
much, all night. At seven, it obviously hit her hard.'
A few weeks later, her mother noticed long strands of hair on
Joanne's pillow. She touched the hair and great tufts came out easily
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from the roots. It went very quickly, leaving only a small section at the
back.
For her parents, in their tiny fishing village, it is a strange sensation
that something 'odd' has happened to their daughter. They find it helps
to enlist the support of the local community. 'No child at the village
school has ever been nasty, mainly because the children saw it happen,
how the hair fell out over a few weeks. They knew her when she had a
normal head of hair like theirs. It is only strangers in the village who
make life unpleasant.'
Laura's father was very angry when he accompanied his wife and daugh¬
ter to see a consultant dermatologist. Laura had started to lose her hair
in tiny bald patches when only a few months old, but the worst deterio¬
ration happened at puberty, when she was 13. She lost all her hair.
Her father was horrified by the attitude of the consultant. 'He glanced
cursorily at her scalp and offered us nothing. I demanded to see on
alternative consultant but he was no better. All she has ever been
prescribed is a tube of cortisone scalp cream. What alarmed me more
than anything was the lack of counselling. No one could give us any help
in coping with the psychological problems faced by an attractive teenage
girl when she loses all her hair.'
In spite of her parents' efforts to persuade her into a wig, Laura still
wears it only occasionally. She is quiet, hardworking, very much on
achiever. She is also something of a worrier. She soys: 'That year when I
lost my hair completely - when I was 13 - is just a year blocked out of
my life. I couldn't cope with a life in which I was completely without
hair'. Her brother and sister have been teased at school about it. Some
youngsters suggested that she hod shoved her head deliberately in a
'punk' style.
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Patnda was 13 when heraiopeda began, at puberty. She is now 33. 'Our
family doctor, trying to be kind, said it wouldn't spoil my beauty. He told
me to go away and forget about it. But I lost most of my hair as the dis¬
ease progressed. Looking back, I feel I should have been given far more
help but in those days I knew no better. My parents were well meaning
but it was all talked about in whispers.
'When it became really serious and practically all my hair had gone,
the dermatologist gave me special shampoos but they made no differ¬
ence. Heat treatment helped for a while but when that stopped so did the
hair growth. The hospital discharged me but promised to get in touch "if
any new developments would help". I never heard from them.
'School was horrific. Everyone was so polite and didn't mention it. I
found the silence harder to cope with. If only someone had talked to me
about it! If I'm honest I suppose that's the reason I left school at 16
instead of sitting A levels.'
She went into an office job and began to make relationships. 'I found
that young men accepted me as I was without guestion. I wasn't as
terrible as I had imagined.'
She is now married and has two children, both profoundly deaf. 'I
suppose the worry about the problems they will hove to face in life has
put my loss of hair into perspective. I've now been without hair longer
than with it and you do adjust. A sixth sense builds up inside you, mak¬
ing you wary of dangerous situations like windy days in public places!'
massage her scalp every night At six, her hair grew back, thick and
strong. In the meantine, her mother disguised the bald patches with
clever hair-styling.
But family life became fraught. Her sister was locked in permanent
conflict with her father because she didn't want to go to university. 'My
father obviously got depressed because he hadn't had the chances we
had, being a miner all his life. They were both extroverts. They could
shout and thoroughly enjoy their quarrels whereas it just depressed me.'
At 15, the problem recurred with one large patch merging into others.
'I would sit playing with my hair and it would come out in mosses. My
mother was so distressed that she threatened to kill herself if it all fell
out.' In six months it hod all gone.
'As I hod suffered before we knew the ropes but this was wartime,
1942, and so it wasn't of much significance. I hod spirit soaps and rubs
os well os the ultraviolet treatment. Someone suggested rubbing my head
with whisky and castor oil. I hate whisky to this day!
'The neighbours looked at me askance. I was going into the sixth form
at school so my mother asked the consultant whether I could wear a wig.
He agreed. He said it wouldn't stop my hair from growing.
'My first wig cost 13 guineas at a time when my father was earning
£4 a week. The chapel people offered to start a fund but this was "char¬
ity" and my mother wouldn't hear of it. Some neighbours did help us,
however, and we saved as well.'
Before she returned to her studies wearing the wig, her mother took
her on holiday to stay with her uncle in Essex. 'I wore the wig and it
seemed such a thatch, such a lot of hair! I couldn't get my hat on top
very well and in those days a hat was essential. I rammed on my "Deanna
Durbin" - big brim and all! It balanced on top of this great haystack. But
when we arrived my uncle greeted me with "What lovely hair, just like
your uncle!" which pleased me. All the cousins complimented me on my
"hair" and that went some way to restoring my confidence.'
Back at home, though, the small Welsh community was not particu¬
larly kind. 'The boy next door had been home on leave from the army. His
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mother told me that he had described me as "that girl with all the hair".
They seemed to delight in putting me down.
The wig fell off in the village street. No wonder. It was like an egg
cosy balanced on a boiled egg. No one had told me that it would need
cleaning. I wore it for three years without cleaning and when it rotted I
sewed it up again.'
At her teacher training college, gym was part of the curnculum. 'One
of my bleakest moments was when we had to stand on our heads. My wig
fell off and all the domestic staff laughed.
'I also needed to wear make-up with the wig to make it look right. My
first eyebrows were a mixture of vaseline and soot applied with my little
finger. I also wore lipstick, to the horror of my teachers. Make-up was
strictly forbidden.
'I was soon in trouble and ended up in floods of tears in the deputy
head's room. There was little sympathy. They were straight-backed spin¬
ster teachers, apparently afraid to show any humanity.
'I poured my heart out to the deputy head but after that no one ever
mentioned my lock of hair. A dreadful silence had fallen over the subject.
It must have irritated them that I had three mornings off every week for
hospital treatment, not only untraviolet but a rather painful process in
which they blistered the skin and tufts of hair grew back in the affected
areas. But they soon fell out again.
'When I was 24 I decided to call a halt to the treatment as the trav¬
elling was expensive and it didn't seem very successful. My mother
didn't want me to give up hope of my hair regrowing but I explained
how I felt to the hospital consultant. He did something very clever. He
gave me my notes to take to my GP, obviously knowing I would read
them. They said "continue the treatment for the satisfaction of the
patient." I knew then that it was hopeless and my hair would never
return.'
Kathleen was forced to come to terms with it. 'One had children call¬
ing out in the street: "Hey girl! Are you bald?" But I was, so there was
no point in denying it. On open day I was interviewing parents and my
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Survival plan
modern aids which will help, the wigs, the sticky tape, the
attractive clothes which will compensate and divert
attention to another aspect of appearance, until you are
coping as a family and living with the problem.
When, together, you have done all you can, the hair
may well grow back and it will be a bonus. But if it does¬
n't you will have learned to live without it.
Don't go to war with the dermatologists. They may
seem to be 'playing the big doctor', being busy, dismissive,
brusque. They may feel anxious and guilty about offering
so little help. All they have to offer are treatments which
rarely work on a condition which may or may not get
better by itself No wonder they feel demoralized! Unfor¬
tunately, they may go for a bland 'It's bound to clear up
soon' attitude, simply because they feel so inadequate.
There is a need for some kind of counselling for fami¬
lies - a counsellor who could help sort out the best ways
of coping with this condition. Families feel rejected by
the medics, sent home to cope alone with a condition
they do not understand. More information, more talk,
should come from a counsellor, perhaps attached to the
school. It doesn't need to be a psychiatrist. The 'stigma' of
seeing a 'shrink' often upsets people more than having no
advice.
Help the child to see the situation as an advantage over
other children. No boring sessions at the hairdressers, no
arguing with parents about getting hair cut. Your child
can have hair that looks smart any time the wig comes
out of the cupboard. Talking about it sensibly with other
children may help. A few 'fun' wigs may raise a laugh. If
the child can smile about it, you could be winning.
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'What's your problem, Dune?' The question came from an old fnend, a
chap Duncan Goodhew had known all his life.
Champion swimmer, Olympic gold medallist, Duncan Goodhew is
world-famous. He has of course known great success, but he says: 'If that
old mate of mine hadn't asked me that question I might still be sitting
at home, moaning because I'd got no hair!'
At the time Duncan was 16. 'I was very depressed, sorry for myself. I
felt that I was a total flop. Without hair. Without hope.'
He lost his hair at the age of 10. Alopecia universalis followed a bad
fall from a tree. His hair has never regrown.
'In my teens, I had given up hope of getting my hair back. It was a
difficult age to lose your hair, when everything depends on your looks,
meeting girls and so on. So I apologized all the time. When I met a new
girl I would say, "Hello, I'm Dune. I'm sorry I'm bald." Naturally nobody
wanted me.
'Then came that question from my old mate. I saw the quizzical look
in his eyes and knew at once what he was thinking. He was a cnpple.
He'd had a lot of illness all his life. Compared with him and what he'd
been through, my loss of hair was nothing! From that moment I stopped
saying sorry.
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'I might never have made anything of my lifer certainly wouldn't have
got to the top in sport if it hadn't been for my old friend and that
change of outlook.'
At school in Sussex^ he suddenly become the comedian of the class.
He would wear a long wig and wait for some visiting master to tell him
to 'Get your hair cut lad.' Then he would whip it off and have the class
falling about with laughter. As his popularity grew, girls came along
naturally. On the street he would doff his wig to them, like a hat. Dun¬
can was a joke, a good sport. He convinced them that he didn't mind
being bald. He laughed. The world loved him.
'When it first happened, I'd been hit for six. I went everywhere for
treatment, tried all sorts of quacks, let doctors put all kinds of lotions on
my head. For years Ijust lived for the day when my hair would grow back.
But it didn't, and after I changed my attitude I didn't care whether it did
or not.
'Everywhere I go we have a laugh about it. Kids tease me and I say
to them, "You've got a lot of hair. Can I have some?"
'People think it may have helped me with the swimming - they reckon
that being bald helped me to swim faster. I'm not sure about that. What
happened to my mind and approach to life was what mattered. Adversity
either makes or breaks.'
He is nov\/ married. His baldness has never bothered his wife. 'Think
how lucky I am. At my age, most men are worrying in front of the mirror
that their hair is receding. I've got the worst over. I'm lucky.'
If losing your hair when you are married brings its prob¬
lems, to go bald when you are single can be even more
traumatic. The letters that pour in to me from single peo¬
ple say it all:
When you are losing your hair and you are single, it can
ruin both your career and your hope of stable relation¬
ships.
These are the people I worry about,' says consultant
dermatologist Dr Andrew Messenger. The single patients
who have lost their hair are the ones to keep an eye on. It
has happened at a stage in their lives when they are most
vulnerable. You must talk to them, watch out for the
potential suicide.'
Jane went to a disco with her boyfriend on Chnstmas Eve. She was 18 and
had been losing her hair for two years. That night she struggled very hard
to disguise her bald patches with a scarf but it was difficult. The taxi
arrived before she had even put on her make-up ... the evening started
badly.
At the disco, a row developed with her boyfriend. His ex-girlfriend
turned up. Jane felt she couldn 't compete with the other girl. With her
bolding head, she felt a mess. She drank more than usual and took some
antibiotics she had been prescribed for influenza. When she arrived home
in tears, the family had gone to bed. Jane spotted her mother's sleeping
pills on the sideboard and took them all.
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Her mother says, It was touch and go. Ail night at the hospital we
thought she was going to die. She had never come to terms with losing
her hair, and her boy's rejection of her made her try to kill herself.'
Jane is a hotel receptionist. She says: Tor months my patches had
been getting worse, so that my woman boss at the hotel used to try to
comb it up for me to hide the boldness. My boyfriend was threatening to
finish with me. I thought that if he left me, who would wont a girl with
no hair?
'After taking the overdose I realized what I'd done and panicked. I
woke up the household. But I was getting sleepy and my brother poked
his fingers down my throat, trying to moke me sick, saying: "How could
you do this to me?"
'Afterwords I realized I'd got to pull myself together and went to get
a wig. I bought a most expensive real hair job because I thought it would
be best. . . but it was dreadful. It looked just like a busby so I went to
our local store and found on acrylic. It was long and curly. I went out
that evening wearing it, but my boyfnend didn't seem to like it. ^e hod
on awful evening. I come home and cried again. But the next day he said
"I quite like it actually".'
Jane is morned now and pregnant. Her hair has not improved. She
says 'I manage. I take off the wig at night - I'd be too hot trying to sleep
in it - and I put out the light quickly so that he doesn't see me!'
Giuseppe's father come to wake him to work in the fields of their farm
near Naples, Italy, but he found his son dead. He hod token a cocktail of
garden poisons and arsenic.
Giuseppe, 17, hod left a note. 'Sorry, Dad . . . I've poisoned myself. I
can't bear to live without hair on my head because that means no girls
and no wife.'
His father said: 'He spent all his money on lotions - even "miracle"
potions - to try to moke his hair grow.'
Being bald too young can also wreck your job opportunities.
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Susan hod a lifelong ambition to join the police. When she was about to
leave school, she enquired about the possibilities of joining her local
force. She was visited by a woman police inspector.
'I explained that I wore a wig because I hod total alopecia, and I was
told that I wouldn't hove a chance of joining the force. The woman
explained that I might be involved in scuffles - it was a tough life - and
there was a danger I might lose my wig. I was so embarrassed and mis¬
erable, I didn't take my job application any further,'
Giving up hope ofjoining the police, Susan took a job in commerce.
She wore her wig all the time.
'But one day I was in the cloakroom brushing it -1 still hod it on, I
was just brushing it normally - when a woman colleague commented
"Your hair must be tough!" So I confessed that it was a wig. The next day
my boss colled me in. He said "We've heard you suffer from alopecia.
That's a nervous condition, isn't it, so you ore probably unstable."
'That was it. I hod to go. These days perhaps I would hove fought
bock, token it to a tribunal or something. But they were so hornble, so
ignorant, I just ran away.'
Susan went to work for the social services deportment. 'They were
fine, no problem, but I keep my wig on all the time. I don't think it's fair
to my clients to go without it.'
Lesley: 'Every Sunday when I climb into the pulpit, I hope my wig won't
slip in front of the entire congregation!'
It was the greatest day of Lesley's life. She was among the first group
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'It took courage to wear the new wig back at work but I felt so good
in it so modern and proud of myself that I took the plunge. Two people
have remarked that they like the new hair-style, so I think I've got away
with it
'There are a couple of people in the parish I would really like to tell
about my hair, but the opportunity has not presented itself Lying, cov-
ering up, makes you feel faintly guilty. I wonder all the time whether they
suspect.'
Lesley feeb she is missing out on a home and family, 'and wigs are
not a great help. When I first went out with a chap I felt I had to explain
about the wig before it was too late and he had knocked it off. He was a
teacher - we got on well - but when he started to kiss me I had to stop
him and explain.'
His reaction surprised her. 'The awful thing was that he thought it was
a great joke. You'd hove thought I was wearing a wig for fun. It was quite
incredible the way he fell about laughing. He made joke after joke . . .
and I had to listen to his endless cracks.
'He was buying a new house. There hod been some senous talk about
my living in it with him. But when we broke up he bought a picture of a
woman with her wig rolling off. He said it reminded him of me.
'It shattered my confidence for further relationships. Many people
can't cope with baldness. You must act out this pretence of having a head
of hair to protect others.'
Sharon, who's a social worker, disagrees. At 30, she has now been telling
people the truth for some years.
'When I first lost my hair severely, at 15, I lay on my bed and cried
for hours. Every morning I would leap up and shove my wig on quickly so
that I couldn't catch sight of myself in the mirror!
'I dreaded wearing it at school for the first time, but no one was cruel
or poked fun at me. Maybe I was just lucky. Two specialists predicted my
hair would be back "by the time I was 21". Not a bit of it. I'm afraid, and
since the age of 221 have had to wear a wig all the time.
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'It's the "no one need know" argument that has been a problem for
me. The less people know you wear a wig, the more alopecia becomes a
guilty secret You start to think "X likes me but he wouldn't if he knew I
was bald."
'I realized recently that it was because so few people knew that I had
begun to view my boldness as something to be ashamed of. So I started
leaving my wig off more around the house. I started to mention to one
or two colleagues at work that I wore a wig. They were interested, sym¬
pathetic, but certainly not shocked or hornfied. One of them came up to
me a couple of days ago and remarked "You know, you are lucky! I had
to get up at six this morning to wash and set my hair!"'
Her breakthrough, she says, came the day she decided to show a man
friend - 'I'm very fond of him' - what she looked like without a wig.
'Again, no shock or horror, just interest and concern, and he seems to
have survived the ordeal. I'm not advocating that people should whip off
their wigs at every possible moment saying "Look, everyone. I'm bald!"
But if you choose your moment and your confidants, being open about
it helps enormously. I've recently started self-defence classes and have
had to mention I wear a wig in case it slips during a mock stranglehold!
'Being a social worker, I realize that some of the reason I didn't want
people to know I was bald was that I like people to think of me as some¬
one who copes with life, who is strong and not the least vulnerable. By
saying to people, 'Well, actually. I'm bald,' what you're really saying is
"Look, I'm vulnerable, just like you!"'
Sarah: 'I'm a hysteric. That's what they all think. She's lost all her hair
- sign of hysteria!'
Sarah, the sophisticate, had been used to having fun, plenty of men
friends. As a nursing sister, she enjoyed the social life of the hospital.
But, she says, losing her hair put paid to all that.
Her last steady man friend was a doctor, aged 42. 'He was kind, sen¬
sible, normal. We saw each other regularly for nine months. Everything
was wonderful. There was just one thing he kept moaning about. He
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wanted me to take off my wig. I couidn't I told him that I looked awful
without it but he kept on.'
Sarah is 48 but looks much younger in her fashionable fair wigs. Her
clothes ore smart. She loves her country cottage, with its Laura Ashley
pnnts and adonng Labradors.
She had been truthful with her man friend about her alopecia right
from the start At first, it didn't seem to matter. Sarah is the kind of
attractive, trendy woman who can converse on nearly everything, bring
joy and jokes to every situation. Any man would be proud to take her for
a drink.
As their relationship became serious, she decided to comply with his
request 'In the end I thought, well it's silly to try to hide under a wig.
If you're going to share a bed with someone, he will have to know some¬
time. So, one night, reluctantly, I took it off.
'It was the worst mistake I could have made. His face changed
instantly. He looked disgusted. "My God", he said, "I had no idea you
would look as revolting as that!" Then he sat down and remarked
conversationally, "It really is repubive, isn't it?"'
That was the end of the relationship. 'I finished with him after that.'
As a nurse, Sarah remembers trying to comfort mastectomy patients
whose husbands couldn't help them. 'We would send a patient home after
the trauma of losing a breast and her husband would refuse to look at her.
He would switch off the light in the bedroom so he never had to see where
she hod been mutilated. It was always happening. "Bastards", I used to
think, "behaving like that to your poor wives." But I would soy to the
patient "Look, your husband has a problem. He feels threatened and
insecure. You've got to be strong for both of you and help him through."
'Now here I was with a man who apparently felt threatened by the fact
that I'd lost my hair. That was it, all over.'
She turned to a girlfriend for reassurance. 'But she looked at my wig¬
less scalp and agreed. "Yes. It does look revolting, doesn't it?"'
Sarah longs for the thick hair she had in her teens. 'It was long and
auburn, just like the Duchess of York's. But I had bald patches all
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through my nursing career. You can imagine what fun it was trying to bal¬
ance a nurse's cap on top of a wig!'
In her early thirties her hair suddenly became worse. 'All my hair fell
out soon after a break-in at home. The burglar tried to pin me down on
the bed and sexually assaulted me, but you can't prove anything like that
so he got away with it. He had a gun and I was terrified.'
A week or so later her patchy alopecia areata deteriorated into total
scalp hair loss. 'My doctor told me I was hystencal and nothing could be
done for me.'
That was 12 years ago, but when Sarah was recently injured in
a road accident, the subject was dragged up again. 'In the court
cose afterwards, when I was trying to get some kind of compensation, an
orthopaedic surgeon gave evidence about my injuries. He said "This
woman has alopecia universalis so is clearly of a hysterical personality."
This evidence was later challenged by a consultant dermatologist who
said: "There are conflicting data on whether a dermatologist would
accept that stress can precipitate this condition in predisposed individ-
uats. I know of no good studies where a hystencal personality was
thought to be important in pathogenesis - the origin and development
of this disease." He added: "I think the orthopaedic surgeon was step¬
ping out of his speciality a little bit in his comments.'"
Sarah shares her home with a woman fnend but still finds it difficult to
meet strangers. 'People look at you and their eyeline rises to your "hair"!
They know it is a wig and you feel inexplicably ashamed. I can be talking
to someone normally and suddenly I notice that they ore not talking to my
eyes any longer but addressing their remarks to the crown of my head.
'I went out for a meal with some friends and the waiter was very
chatty. He confided that he had once token great pleasure in catching his
cufflink deliberately in a customer's hair to dislodge her wig. He said, "I
con tell a wig a mile off." Then, in front of every one, he turned to me
and said "I knew hers was a wig and I know yours is too.'"
Sarah feels that she has missed out on the chance of a husband and
family.
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Mananne: 'I am a fat freak. I was tossed on the scrap heap at a very
early age.'
At 40, Mananne is still fat from the side-effects of the systemic
steroids presen bed for her at 15. A teacher in Scotland, she has suffered
from alopecia areata since she was 11.
'By the time I was 15 I had lost nearly all my hair. I took steroids
for three years, put on 3 stones in weight, and ended up with a very
round face, stretch marks all over my body, and serious kidney prob¬
lems which landed me in hospital. The doctors immediately stopped the
steroids and my hair started to fall out again. Dunng the treatment it
had been regrowing quite well. The doctors told me that my hair would
never regrow. They were wrong. It has returned but nine times it has
come out again.'
Mananne is bitter. She feels that the loss of her hair has contributed
largely towards the isolation of the life she leads now, at home with her
widowed mother, teaching locally.
'In the years following the systemic steroids, I tried various things:
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steroid injections into the scalp, and, most recently, minoxidil. I have
had very little help from doctors and no sympathy whatsoever.
T really feel very angry, not because I have an affliction - many peo¬
ple have handicaps - but because I feel that I was tossed on the scrap
heap at a very early age. So much seems to be done for other people and
nothing for me.
'I hove always felt very bitter about people's reactions to me -1 was
called a fat freak! Nobody has ever tried to help me come to terms with
a rather restncted life. I have never lost the weight I put on in my teens
although I hove tried many times. Being fat and bold has ruined my life.
I'll never forget the people who mode remarks at my expense, from my
childhood onwards. Some of them were for from good-looking them¬
selves. I don't hove buck teeth or acne and I am of normal height.
'As a child, I remember grown-ups recoiling in horror. "Oh, but you
were such a pretty little girl!" they used to soy.'
By the time she started college at 18 she hod to wear a wig. 'It mode
me shy, wearing a wig. All the students were having a great time except
me. Saturday was always a bod time. I lived at home though others
were shonng flats. I couldn't - everyone would hove found out that I
was bold.
'At college a girl pulled it off by mistake. She was so shocked they had
to take her to hospital. Nobody asked how I felt.
'I've never hod a very happy home life os my father was often ill.
When I got alopecia I started to postpone everything in life "until my
hair grows bock". But it didn't - at least not for long - and here I am at
40 and I've lost the chance of marriage and children.
'Somehow I've never been able to enjoy myself. Going on holiday, for
instance - what if I hod to shore a room? I could never relax and hove a
drink. If I got drunk, the wig might slip off. People would know.
'I don't get os emotional os I once did. After all, there is nobody to
listen. But I do regret my lost youth.'
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Meryl, at 39, aLsofeeb that alopecia has had a disastrous effect on her
love life. She is a lecturer in biology and her career has always taken up
a great deal of her time and concentration.
'My first bout of alopecia was at the age of 13 and just meant that
my early expenences of boyfriends were delayed a few years. I was short,
fat, wore glasses and was more interested in 0 levels anyway, so it didn't
matter.
'Two further episodes in my twenties didn't worry me much either, as
I was just starting a new job. Sex has never figured highly in my life. I
am a friendly, cuddly person rather than passionate.'
But problems really began when her hair fell out again, in her thir¬
ties. 'I had met a man and started a relationship which was to last five
years. He is in computers and travels around a lot. We spent every week¬
end together but kept our separate houses os our work was for opart
'As my hair was gradually falling out I took to wearing scarves all the
time, which I hated. But he never seemed to mind. I'd lost up to 60 per
cent of my hair but the condition seemed to be improving so I started to
leave off the scarves.
'I was trying on clothes in a changing room with mirrors all around.
Suddenly I caught sight of the rear view and was hornfied. I flipped
through the yellow pages and found a new firm and my first wonderful
wig. Is it like first love? I hove such fond memories of that first one - so
thick, curly and superb that it changed my attitudes and confidence
overnight.'
But her lover's reaction was less than expected. 'What on earth is
that?' he asked. 'I think it's dreadful.'
'From then on our relationship went downhill. He refused to talk to
me about it. Lovemoking turned into just having sex, until I felt I was
just being used. Eventually I could take no more and we split up. I con
only conclude that he was undermined by my new image and confidence.
Did he wont me more under control and so unattractive that no one else
would wont me? I felt like on Orthodox Jewish woman whose religious
faith obliges her to wear a wig when she mornes.
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Susannah, young West End secretory, enjoyed her Saturday nights in the
cheerful company of her colleagues and flatmates.
It hod been a good party. The young man who hod token her home
was worm and affectionate. 'Very dishy indeed,' she thought, os his
hands ran odminngly over her slim figure. A trendy girl, at 24, her light
brown hair was mousse-moulded into fashionable spikes.
The handsome young graduate leaned towards her on the sofa, his
fingers eager on the buttons of her dress . . . Susannah pulled away
sharply, shottenng his mood.
'What's the matter?' He was disappointed, wondenng what he hod
done. Susannah felt downcast, her joy evaporating. She hod remembered
just in time, before he found out for himself. Her hair, her bloody, bloody
hair. . .
Susannah lost her hair at 23. In three months, small bold patches
developed into total loss. The first thing it wrecked was her sex life.
When it Happens to Those Who Are Single 157
'At first, I didn't tell people. Unless there was some reason for them
to know I didn't see why I should tell them. With men, I tried to tell them
before things got close and there was imminent danger that they would
knock the wig off my head. The first chop I told - it was awful. It took
me ages to tell him. I was afraid he would jump bock in horror, moke on
excuse and leave ... or whatever men do in these circumstances.' She
hesitated so long that she was finally obliged to tell him in the middle of
a passionate embrace. 'He laughed, actually. He was amazed that I hod
mode so much fuss about it. We went on to hove quite a good relation¬
ship which, in the end, I finished myself'
When she lost her hair, she hod thought it was the end of any normal
sex life. 'I was wrong. I hove had three serious men friends since then
and I'm now happily married. Other women ought to know that losing
your hair is not the end of any chance of being happy.'
She sow on endocrinologist very early in her treatment. 'He said, "It
is unlikely your hair will ever grow bock." At that stage I hod been los¬
ing it over a few months and I hadn't mode a fuss, but when he said
that, I cried. I couldn't face going bock to my office that afternoon. I
went home and sobbed for three days. In the end my mother, very wor¬
ried about me, came to my room and said "Look, you ore going to be all
right. You con still hove on attractive appearance. You ore just going to
work harder at it." '
By the end of that week, Susannah stopped crying and mode a few
decisions. Being a strong-minded girl, she decided that she enjoyed her
job, working in the office of a whisky company. She loved the social life
of the West End, and she would try to ensure that her boldness mode os
little difference os possible.
'I continued going to parties. I bought a selection of brightly
coloured berets and arranged the hair I had left around the edges of
them. I didn't go to parties specifically to meet men, just to enjoy
myself. As it happened, I did meet men and make new relationships.
I was surprised. My lock of hair didn't put them off.'
She also found a range of wigs which she really liked. 'They were very
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expensive. I spent £1,400 but they were worth it When they were dis¬
continued in the UK I had to send to Germany for them.'
After she had told the first man about her hair loss, the relationship
continued, 'but we were not really well suited. I was terrified he would
leave me because I didn't think anyone else would want me. So I was
clinging to him. He said it didn't matter. But the more my hair fell out,
the more depressed I become and I think it did affect him a bit. I wasn't
my usual cheerful self.
'In the end my mother saw what was happening and pointed out that
I was clutching at straws. I decided to end the relationship and felt much
better when he had gone - though I did think "That's it. I've throw away
my last chance.'"
Eventually, she met up with the man who became her husband. He
had known her several years earlier, before she lost her hair. He was com¬
plimentary, boosting her morale by saying he actually preferred the short
wig. 'I let him see me without a wig straight away. I wanted to say "This
is me, like it or lump it!" When we first got together my hair was start¬
ing to grow back, but it has all fallen out again so I am back to square
one. At home I wear turbans in the evenings and in bed.
'Now we're marned I won't let him see my scalp. I'm more embar¬
rassed about it than I was before. I suppose I'm less optimistic than I
was at first. This disease seems to recur so often you begin to lose heart.
'But a woman need never be afraid that no man will want her. You
hove to decide not to let this ruin your life. You must not let it stop you
doing things. You have to be positive. I was married six months ago - in
a wig - and we are very happy.'
Survival plan
exact fit. The wig forms a vacuum when put on the head,
which gives you extra comfort and security. You won't
have to worry that it might fall off!
The wigs are made up in real hair, matched to your
colour choice. You can also give the suppliers a good idea
of the 'movement' and length you would like in the style.
The wigs look very easy and natural. You can even go
swimming in them! The cost? This is determined by the
colour and length of the hair you have chosen, but ranges
from £970 to £1,500.
They are available in the UK from Hairline member
Sue Renigan, who has been making wigs for 28 years, hav¬
ing started out as a hairdresser. She has had her own
business. Positively Hair, for the past 15 years.
This work is a challenge,' says Sue. 'I am pleased to
help people overcome their hair loss.' Sue works from her
home in the beautiful Oxfordshire village of Woodstock.
So a trip to consult her gives Hairline members the dou¬
ble plus of a visit to the historic village and Blenheim, the
birthplace of Sir Winston Churchill - plus the comfort of
choosing a wig in privacy without facing a crowded hair
salon.
The vacuum-fit wigs come from New Zealand and are
made by Murray Barrington Studios solely for Positively
Hair in the UK. Sue also makes hairpieces and hand-
knotted real hair wigs to order at a price ranging from
£250. She works with local hospitals as well as private
individuals and supplies the Revlon and Adolfo range of
synthetic wigs and hairpieces.
Of course you may decide that your hair loss has given
you a unique opportunity to purchase a sensational
wardrobe of wigs - purple, pink, gold, silver and yellow!
You can wear a different colour every day of the week.
When it Happens to Those Who Are Single 163
Serena, 32, chose the soothing and soponfic essential oils of aro¬
matherapy. She chose melissa and geranium in a jojoba base.
Aluna, 40, from South Wales, anointed her head liberally with the oint¬
ment balm she saw used on a balding chimpanzee . . .
A young mother rubbed her five-year-old daughter's urine into the girl's
balding scalp.
results, and it does help to feel that you are doing some¬
thing for yourself!
But before chasing up alternative therapies it is
important to take the following sensible steps:
Option One
Try conventional medical treatment. Topical minoxidil
under the name of Regaine is now available in the UK
without prescription and is directed at patients who have
alopecia androgenetica. Standard Regaine is a solution
containing 2 per cent of the active ingredient and has a
success rate of 40 per cent in achieving regrowth. It also
stabilizes hair loss in as many as 80 per cent of cases.
Regaine Extra Strength (5 per cent minoxidil) is now also
available from a UK pharmacist without prescription for
male patients, though for women it is still available only
on prescription. This situation is likely to change on com¬
pletion of further clinical trials.
This is a lively time for hair growth treatments, as at
last respectable and clinically tested products are com¬
ing onto the pharmaceutical market.
Also on the horizon is finasteride, a treatment for the
enlarged male prostate, which has now been found to act
as an anti-androgen treatment and combat hair loss. This
The Great ALternative: Getting Your Own Back 175
Option Two
Homoeopathy
Ruth was 20 when she left her home in Suffolk to work in Vienna for a
children's aid chanty. The Second World War had ended only recently and.
176 The Hair Loss Cure
she remembers: The Third Man was being filmed there. There was an
incredible atmosphere of menace. It was the most exciting time of my
life. It was an extremely stressful period for a young and fairly naive girl
just let out after the war. I have often wondered if I would hove kept my
hair if it had not been for Vienna.'
On leaving the city, Ruth noticed that her hair was getting very thin.
In fact, it remained thin for some years and did not improve through all
the years when she was having her family. Eventually she consulted med¬
ical homoeopath Alice Campbell LCH MH MA who, being concerned to
treat 'the whole person', talked with her at length about her childhood
years in India and the intensive working years in Vienna. Ruth mentioned
her lock of height - she is very tiny at just under 4 foot 10 inches and,
os a child, hod been treated in hospital with a growth hormone.
Alice Campbell seized upon this os a possible clue. 1 think that the
hormone treatment has adversely affected the hair growth,' soys the
homoeopath. 'I am un-picking the hormones which hove done her so
much harm. There was also a problem during her time in Vienna when she
received a number of vaccinations in order to travel. I hove to pick through
a repertory of symptoms to find the correct remedies which will help her
hair. Basically I am working on the pituitary gland, but I am nearly there.'
Herbalism
Aluna, 40, was among the first to try it She had lost most of her hair
due to alopecia areata. The loss of her hair was triggered, she thinks, by
shock. Her baby son Chnstopher had been given whooping cough vaccine
by their family doctor. It was a mistake on the doctor's part, as Aluna
had specifically asked that he receive a vaccination against only two con¬
ditions (rubella and chicken pox) 'It had not been my doctor's fault,'
explains Aluna. 'It was just a mistake but I was really worried in case the
vaccine had damaged Christopher. I had known a friend's child who was
brain damaged by whooping cough vaccine, so when I found out what
the doctor had done I was terrified for Christopher.'
The Great Alternative: Getting Your Own Back 183
Gillian, 64, was also impressed with Jambo's story on television. She
had lost nearly all her hair due to alopecia areata soon after a stay in
hospital where she was diagnosed with multiple sclerosis. She had been
on systemic steroids (prednisolone) during her hospital stay and won¬
dered whether this had triggered her hair loss, along with the emotional
shock of being told she had multiple sclerosis. 'MS is a condition which
normally starts at a much younger age,' she says. 'So I must hove had it
for quite a long time before it was diagnosed.'
The hair loss deteriorated dramatically after she left hospital. She had
been wearing a wig for two years when she saw Jambo's story on the TV
news. Like Aluna, she bought the goat's milk shampoo and soap along
with the balm and pledged to renounce grapefruit and bananas for ever.
She was delighted with the improvement in her hair. 'It began to grow
again within a few weeks,' she says. 'Six months after I began to use the
balm I looked normal enough to go without a wig.'
As far as she knows, she will not have to use the balm again. 'Mrs Brown
says that there is no need to continue using it once the hair is back.'
184 The Hair Loss Cure
'I like the Reiki treatment because Pat took the trouble to talk
with me and I found it all very calming. After a few weeks she
suggested that homoeopathy might help as well. This was also good
and the homoeopathy specialist suggested phosphorus in my particu¬
lar case. Different remedies are recommended according to the
individual.'
Between the two treatments, Sarah feels that she was definitely
helped. 'My hair is all back now and looks absolutely normal.'
Aromatherapy
Quite over-canopied with luscious woodbine. With sweet musk roses and
with eglantine . . . There sleeps Titania sometime of the night Lulled in
her bower by dances and delight. . .
Minoxidil
Dithranol/Anthralin
Steroid Injections
Propeda
Philial
Squill
For more severe cases, where the hair loss is more than
60 per cent of all scalp hair:
• PUVA
• Immuno-suppressive drugs, as used in transplant
surgery, sueh as Cyclosporine, usually applied
topically, in gel form, and Azathioprine, occa¬
sionally used orally in cases where other
treatments have failed.
Minoxidil
• DENMARK^
One of the four cases of patchy alopecia grew 'cos¬
metically satisfying' hair. She could discard her wig.
Twenty-three patients were involved but the other
19 had extended or total hair loss. Thirteen out of the
23 had some regrowth (1 per cent minoxidil).
• UNITED KINGDOM
Manchester^^ Two out of four patients with patchy
alopecia areata had complete recovery. There was no
success with cases of total hair loss (3 per cent
minoxidil).
LiverpooP^ Out of nine patients, one grew sufficient
hair to discard her wig (1 per cent minoxidil), but
these were all patients with extensive or total hair
loss where it was known that the outlook was not so
hopeful (from the Fenton/Wilkinson trial).
Aberdeen^^ Nineteen out of 28 patients with patchy
alopecia areata showed regrowth, including one
'striking case of unilateral terminal hair regrowth' (1
per cent minoxidil). Doctors' verdict: 'worthy of fur¬
ther evalution.'
Sunderland^^ An 80 per cent success rate in regrow¬
ing the hair of 53 patients, including one with total
loss. ’ •
What Medical Treatments are Available? 203
• USA
Chicago, 1981^® Two cases of total hair loss had com¬
plete regrowth (1 per cent minoxidil). The regrowth
occurred in a girl of 13 and a woman of 42.
Chicago, 1984^" Twenty-five out of 48 patients had
regrowth. Of those, 11 had 'cosmetically acceptable'
hair. Two patients from this group who had total hair
loss regrew it successfully (1 per cent minoxidil).
Later research here reported achieving a better qual¬
ity of hair with 5 per cent minoxidil.
Is Minoxidil Safe?
For a 1 per cent topical solution, Fenton/Wilkinson, UK,
said: 'so far no side-effects'. Dr John Wilkinson adds:
'Long-term risks have yet to be established'. Chicago
reported 'no side-effects', and Sunderland's verdict was
'safe, convenient and effective'.
Mild skin irritations were reported in one study in the
US. Two Aberdeen patients had to give up the treatment
due to dermatitis. Doctors wondered whether the fact
that they were wearing wigs was connected.
A Manchester woman on 3 per cent minoxidil devel¬
oped palpitations and chest pain but recovered when
returned to 1 per cent.^^ Doctors suggested she might
have been applying the lotion too liberally with the cus¬
tomary enthusiasm of alopecia patients. They advised
caution in the use of higher concentrations of minoxidil
in patients with extensive alopecia areata and those with
known coronary heart disease.
No patients died during the trials but five deaths were
reported in the US among the thousand who continued
using it under their own doctor's supervision.
There were also five further deaths, two in Upjohn alope¬
cia areata studies and two among users of non-Upjohn
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Karla lives in Belgium. Her hair started falling out after the birth of her
seond child and she lost at least half of it os diffuse alopeciOr leaving it
sparse and thin.
As soon as Regaine was licensed in Belgium, she started a course and
after four months saw considerable improvement 'not exactly regrowth
but somehow the existing hair had become thicker and the parting much
less obvious. Fewer hairs were being shed.
'After seven months, I decided to stop Regaine as I reckoned there
had been sufficient improvement. Alas, three to four months later the
fall-out began again and my hair is thinning drastically.
'They did warn me in the Regaine leaflet that this might happen and
I am now wondenng whether to return to it. It is expensive - the equiv¬
alent of about £30 for a month's supply in Belgium - but I am lucky
enough to have it reimbursed under my medical insurance scheme. It
looks as though I will have to go on using it for a very long time'.
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Alex, a London secretary, had lost all her hair but had been lucky enough
to have complete regrowth. When she noticed a small bald patch she was
horrified, thinking that she was going to lose all her hair again. She was
presen bed minoxidil and found that it did seem to help the small patch
clear up again.
But it did not work for Anna, who had lost all her hair, nor
for Rowena, who had also lost all scalp hair.
Rowena was so desperate to get her hair back that she was prepared to
try almost anything. She was in her early twenties and engaged to a
young doctor 'but I was putting off everything, including marriage, until
there was some hope of getting my hair back'.
A course of steroid tablets had left her severely overweight. In des¬
peration she went to one of the commercial 'clinics', where she was
offered minoxidil in a cream form. It cost her £395, 'but I didn't hove
any sign of hair. Not one! The doctor I saw at the clinic wasn't too inter¬
ested in talking about minoxidil. He was too busy telling me to go on a
diet. I began to wonder if he was being paid commission by the manu¬
facturers of the diet he kept recommending!'
Primary irritants
Diphencyprone/diphenylcyclopropenone
Diphencyprone is an organic phenol derivative first used
by West German dermatologist Dr Rudolph Happie. The
solution is painted on to the heads of patients every week
in the hope of producing an allergic reaction.
Dermatologist Dr Barry Monk, formerly of King's Col¬
lege Hospital, London, now at Bedford, presented a paper
to the Royal Society of Medicine about his work with
208 The Hair Loss Cure
Linda rang me in tears when she first lost her hair. 'I have hardly any
hair at all now and it took me four visits to my doctor to get on appoint¬
ment with a dermatologist Now, after waiting weeks to see him all the
specialist can say is that nothing can be done.'
Shortly afterwards, however, her dermatologist offered her the chance
to be a guinea pig in experimental work on diphencyprone at his hospi¬
tal. The doctors explained that the idea is to get the body's immune
system to attack the drug instead of the hair follicles, i.e. induce the
body to become allergic to it.'
Linda is 33 and had lost her hair rapidly in less than a year. After two
months' treatment, there was no success apart from a mild itching for
about 48 hours afterwards. After four months, hair began to grow on the
treated side of her head, 'but within two weeks it hod all vanished. We
persevered and after four months regrowth began and never stopped.
Now both sides of my head are being treated and are beginning to even
up. My hair is growing back the same dark brown colour it was before. I'll
soon be able to go without a wig!'
What Medical Treatments are Available? 209
Jean has also been receiving diphencyprone treatment She is 49 and has
suffered from alopecia areata since she was 16, finally losing all her hair
after she left a job in a pnnting firm, when the heavy lifting became too
much for her.
When diphencyprone was first painted on to her head she says: 'My
scalp felt rather sore for a few days and I had a feeling of swollen glands.
This made me ill at first but the doctors made up a very weak solution.
Then they strengthen it each week if it has not been too itchy,'
After four months' treatment, Jean has a short growth of hair on the
side of her head which has been treated. The other (untreated) side is
still bald,
'Last week, for the first time, they treated all my head so we shall wait
and hope something happens! I'm keeping my fingers and toes crossed!'
Jean is convinced that worry about leaving her pnnting job aggra¬
vated her alopecia. She now has a part-time job in a residential home for
the handicapped and is much happier,
Pnmula obconica
Doris, 40, a school dinner lady, was very upset when she lost all her hair.
She was a little surpnsed too, in a hospital skin clinic when the consul¬
tant dermatologist instructed her to strop a leaf of the Primula obconica
to her arm! The leaf was changed every few days and replaced with a new
one. Soon the skin on her arm became red and angry. The leaf was
removed from her arm and rubbed on her head. After a month, Dons was
amazed to see that hair was growing again!
The leaf treatment was combined with injections of ACTH (corti-
cotrophin, the hormone of the anterior pituitary gland). It specifically
stimulates the adrenal cortex to produce cortisol. These injections have
to be carefully monitored os side-effects include weight gain,
Dons put on over 20 pounds in weight but her hair was marvellous.
She hod no need of a wig for eight years. She then hod a relapse and was
losing her hair again. This time her doctor used diphencyprone os a sen¬
sitizer and the hair is regrowing once more.
210 The Hair Loss Cure
'I have never known it to grow so fast/ says Dons. 'In a month or so
rU be able to go around without a wig. My husband thinks it's smash¬
ing. I feel much better - the children at school don't call me "baldie"
now!'
Steroids by mouth
Katy is in her early twenties and had lost all her body hair. It is regrow¬
ing well after four months and she has so far had no side-effects. She is
still on the steroids.
PUVA therapy
Roxanne went to a private clinic for her PUVA treatment as her husband
was in a medical insurance scheme. She says: T thoroughly enjoyed the
treatment and hair was coming back nicely all over my head - where I
had lost most of it But during the course of treatments I discovered! was
pregnant and had to give it up. I was rather concerned that the sensitiz¬
ing drug might have affected the baby.'
The baby was fine; Roxanne's hair was not. It fell out again a few
months after she gave birth.
Immuno-suppressive drugs
result was superb. 'I am pleased with the result/ she says. 'But I was very
surprised at how sore my scalp was immediately after the operation. The
surgeon had suggested that I might like to see the sights of Paris after
the operation, but I felt that I just wanted to go home and go to bed.'
The cost was £4,000.
Carolyn: 'In a year I have paid over £2,500 for treatment, including a
hair weave.'
Carolyn is 23. She lives in a city terrace near the car factories of
Coventry. A slim, attractive girl, her hair was a striking bush of dark curls,
until a year ago.
When her hair started to fall out, Carolyn was still a student. She is
now a social worker.
She then had four bald patches. Her doctor was pessimistic. He told
her bluntly that she was likely to go bald. Alopecia areata was, after all,
in the family. Her great-grandmother had lost her hair completely. She
cried. Her doctor prescribed Valium.
'I didn't want tranquillizers. I had quite a battle to persuade him to
refer me to a dermatologist and had to wait six months for an appoint¬
ment.
'While waiting, I followed up a newspaper ad for a commercial hair
clinic. They advised a course of treatment which would help my hair. I
signed on for 10 at a cost of £327.75. These were followed by a further
What About Surgery? 217
10 at the same price. I had some sort of lotion and massage. This seemed
to encourage the hair to grow back in the patches but it was still falling
out in other ports of my scalp.
'So I had another 20 treatments and had spent £1,500 by the time
my hospital appointment came around. The dermatologist was no more
helpful than my GP had been. He predicted I would lose all my hair.
'He felt I wasn't coping well -1 was upset again - and he suggested
a counsellor at college. This was a waste of time. He was used to dealing
with students' problems over their digs and relationships. He had never
come across anything like me. He had never heard of baldness in a
woman and I spent the time explaining about it.
'I went back to the clinic, very angry. "I've just been to the derma¬
tologist who says I will still go bald", I told them, "and I've paid you all
this money to prevent it." Staff at the clinic offered me a hair weave to
cover the big bald patch at the front for £1,500, but I had already spent
so much that my father was having to help me. He is retired. How could
he afford it? In the end, the clinic agreed to charge me only £500 and
throw in 10 more massage treatments as well.'
She was pleased with the result. The hairpiece matched her own hair
and it meant she did not have to wear a wig. Then came the bad news.
'It wasn't until after the weave had been done that they told me
about the upkeep. I would have to attend the clinic regularly to have the
weave adjusted to keep up with the growth of my existing hair. The cost
mounts up. It is working out at around £50 a month.'
Why did it cost so much and why wasn't she told that she would have
to go on paying out for its upkeep afterwards?
The branch manager at the hair clinic in Coventry was at pains to
explain that Carolyn had been informed: 'We explained that to her before
it was fitted.' But Carolyn says she was given no idea of the continual
payments involved.
The clinic management proudly flounshed a letter written by Carolyn,
thanking them for the treatment and saying how much she liked the
weave. Says Carolyn: 'I wrote them a letter of thanks because they asked
218 The Hair Loss Cure
me to write it They said that they would be in the running for a cose of
champagne if their branch got the highest number of letters of appreci¬
ation. It was true. I did like the weave. I just didn't like having to pay
£2,500 for it. And I am still paying.'
Hair Loss and Your Diet
If we are run down and have not been eating properly, the
first give-away is our hair, which soon becomes dry, life¬
less and dull. But a good eating plan, which includes a
balanced amount of protein, vitamins and minerals makes
all the difference.
A word of warning: No slimming in a drastic, irrespon¬
sible way! Female victims of the slimmers' disease
anorexia nervosa who slim right down to the bone and
become grotesquely underweight often find that men¬
struation ceases and they lose hair as well.
For your hair's sake, eat - but make it fresh, wholesome
food, not over-processed junk. Chemicals, preservation
techniques and fertilizers have often damaged these
'foods'. Often the vital minerals and vitamins in foods
have been destroyed by other factors as well. Chlorine in
drinking water, for instance, can destroy vital vitamin E.
Atmospheric pollution, including cigarette smoke,
destroys vitamins A and C. Alcohol and the drugs in
sleeping tablets can wreck B-complex vitamins.
Hair Loss and Your Diet 221
Vitamin A (retinol)
B-complex vitamins
Vitamin C
Vitamin E
Vitamin F
Iron
A LAST WORD
Help for your hair starts in the kitchen. Whatever you do,
please do not overcook vegetables as you are destroying
vital vitamins. Avoid too much salt as this causes body
tissues to retain water in the scalp tissues.
As a general rule, it should be fairly simple to adjust
your diet to include generous helpings of the important
vitamins and minerals. A supplement may also be a good
plan, plus some brewer's yeast tablets.
doctor what was happening. 'My mother took me to see him. He was kind
but a bit baffled. He tried to talk with me but it wasn't much help.'
The habit began at a time when her parents' marriage was under
stress. 'They were not guarrelling. No rows, just a guiet, sad home. My
father, older than my mother, didn't really know how to play with a child.
They both hod careers. My father is a teacher, my mother a bhlliant
mathematician.'
Her hair-pulling habit continued spasmodically through college,
where she went to see the students' psychotherapist, 'but it didn't help
a lot. I was at war with myself, like being mesmerized. I would pull at it
at odd times, then "come to" and find I could see a bare patch.
'I would feel really terrible, knowing it would take months to grow in
again. You store up months of trouble for yourself and a vicious circle
builds up. Breaking out of the circle is the hardest part.
'The guilt for the damage you've done becomes a source of stress in
its own right. And all the time you're trying to pretend to the world that
nothing is wrong. You just wish you could hide your head in the sand for
three months!'
She has now been working in London for six years and is married. 'The
condition came on again with the stress of moving house and coping
with a job. My husband didn't notice at all until, on a picnic, I bent my
head to look at the dandelions.'
When she first contacted me Frances was upset. 'I'm at the end of my
tether trying to find support and a cure for this condition which I have
suffered from for 13 years. Why don't people realize that this is as much
a worry as having alopecia?' But now, over a year later, she feels she has
conguered it. 'I haven't had a bald patch for a year. My hair has all grown
in again. This time, I got some counselling and, with a lot of gn'tting my
teeth and a good long holiday in the sun, I think I've done the trick.'
Her days of guilt and struggling to hide the damage with an eyebrow
pencil are over, she feels. 'It is in the past. It can be overcome. Although
my condition is similar to alopecia in the end result - bald patches -
it is really much more like anorexia nervosa or bulimia because it is self-
230 The Hair Loss Cure
induced and seif-destructive. The feelings are those of shame and self¬
blame. This is very different from being the innocent victim of a medical
condition.
'My fantasy is to find a hairdresser who is also a counsellor. People
should definitely seek professional help as the condition con mess up
your life. It becomes a block preventing you from enjoying anything.'
She has fixed on this one attribute, her hair, and is prob¬
ably unconsciously relieved that she has found
something to blame.
'My skill as a doctor is to find out what is really wrong.
In a skin clinic, a case of dysmorphophobia takes far
longer to see than a case of skin cancer. After all, a skin
cancer is comparatively straightforward. You know what
you are going to do and the patient will comply with what
you suggest. It can be dealt with simply. But the danger
with a dysmorphophobic patient is that she may attempt
suicide. Fm going to have to spend a lot of time with her
because she is completely sure she has a scalp disease.
She may appear in my clinic outwardly calm and confi¬
dent. My job is to dig beneath that confidence and find
out what's really causing it all.'
Out of the thousands of people for whom alopecia is a
fact, there are a few rare cases like this. A woman with a
bald head may envy the patient whose hair loss is purely
a delusion. 'I wish I was just imagining it!' she may sigh.
Dr J. A. Cotterill, consultant dermatologist at Leeds
General Infirmary, has studied this condition, which has
been described as a 'dermatological non-disease'.^^ He
says that it is a 'common and potentially fatal distur¬
bance of cutaneous body image'. He describes it as a
symptom of psychiatric disturbance and depression
which is often presented to the dermatologist.^^ 'Patients
have a disturbance of self-perception which can involve
the scalp and the face. Sometimes their disturbance cen¬
tres not on the scalp, but the breasts in women and the
genital area in men.'
Sometimes a woman who has convinced herself that
she is balding, when she definitely is not, manages to per¬
suade her husband that it is true and they become
232 The Hair Loss Cure
Jane, 47, said: 'I thought that if I went to Harley Street I was paying for
the best treatment I'd been told I had male pattern baldness and thought
an endocnnologist would help. His treatment was intensive - at least he
found out that I was deficient in oestrogen. But it went on for two years
and by the time it finished I had spent over £2,000.1 still haven't got my
hair back. He did warn me at the beginning that it might not work, so I
suppose it was fair enough. But it did cost a lot of money. People should
realize that if they have pnvate treatment, it will be very expensive.'
The worst thing about losing your hair is often doing the
dreary round of doctors, trying to find the right specialist.
The Future: What Hope is There? 237
do them. They knew I had to wear a wig. Why did they make me do the
high jump, when it would almost certainly fall off? People were insensi¬
tive and I didn't want to talk about it All through childhood, I remember
the subject being very hush-hush. My parents didn't mention it. After all,
it was a condition no one knew much about. You just hod to get on with
it. One teacher ordered me to wash my face -1 was only wearing make¬
up to match in with the wig. I was so hurt, but she said I looked
"painted".
'I was constantly warned and unsure of myself. I thought the wigs
looked all right at the time but, looking back, I can see that people could
tell a mile off. Some people ore so bloody rude, the ones you come across
daily in shops and so on. I didn't wont attention. But I still hod a good
social life. I used to work at a local disco on Saturdays and get to know
boys. At 17, though, I hadn't any boyfnends. I think the opportunity was
there but I was very cool about it. I suppose I just didn't wont to get
involved in cose they had to see me without my wig. I was just "holding
bock" all the time, never being completely myself.'
'I hod always believed my hair would grow bock and after four or five
years I started to notice the odd tuft, the odd eyelash. I realized that it
was slowly growing again. Soon it all come bock. It was the some mid¬
brown colour and it covered my head all over. YYe were going on a family
holiday which was good because it covered the break between a wig and
my own hair again. I felt marvellous and my relationships with boys just
took off after that!'
But at 22, her hair started foiling out again. 'I was really shattered,
sobbing all over doctors, really down and despairing. Patches come and
went. I started to will my hair not to fall out. I would lie on my bed and
command the hair roots to stay in place! At this stage I hod to tell my
lover about my hair history. I hod never mentioned it before. Oddly
enough, he was all right. He seemed understanding about the bold
When Hair Grows Back 243
patches but I was aware that he had never seen me totally hairless. I'm
not sure that he would hove coped if the whole lot hod fallen out
'Luckily it hasn't come to that My father paid for me to go to a der¬
matologist privately and he gave me injections into my scalp which
seemed to help. I also believe in yoga and the power of the mind. I've
recently token a big new job in marketing and I'm just going to believe
that it will never happen again - perhaps the odd patch, but nothing like
what I went through before.'
Emma Jane hod tried for years to get her hair bock but it remained so
patchy that she was forced to wear a wig. For years she hod done noth¬
ing on the advice of doctors, then she was lucky enough to find a
dermatologist who tried vonous topical preparations. 'Suddenly', soys
Emma Jane, 'my hairjust grew! I walked into my dermatologist's surgery
244 The Hair Loss Cure
without a wig. He looked up and ghnned. "Great/' he said. And for the
first time in years I don't have to wear wigs.'
1 Drs Arthur Rook and Rodney Dawber, Diseases of the Hair and Scalp,
(Blackwell Scientific, 1982).
2 Drs E. Panconesi and G. Mantellassi, Rassegna di Dematologia e
Sifilografia (1955), 8:121.
3 Dr I. Macalpine, 'Is Alopecia Areata Psychosomatic?', British Journal
of Dermatology (1958), 70:117.
4 Dr A. J. M. Penders, 'Alopecia Areata and Atopy', Dermatologica
(1968) 136:395.
5 Drs S. A. Muller and R. K. Winkelmann, 'Alopecia Areata', Archives of
Dermatology (1963), 88:290.
6 Dr T. Ikeda, 'A New Classification of Alopecia Areata', Dermatologica
(1965), 131:421.
7 Drs S. A. Walker and S. Rothman, 'Alopecia Areata: A Statistical
Study, Journal of Investigative Dermatology (1950), 14:403.
8 Drs M. N. El Makhzangy, V. Wynn and Daphne M. Lawrence, Clinical
Endocrinology (1979), 10:39-45.
9 Dr E. Hoffman, H. G. Meiers and A. Hubbes, 'Wirkungen von
Antikonzeptiva auf Alopecia Androgenetica, Seborrhea Oleosa, Akne
Vulgaria und Hirsutismus', Deutsche Medizinische Wochenshrift
(1974), 99:2151-7.
10 Professor Vera Price, Department of Dermatology, University of Califor¬
nia School of Medicine. International Society of Tropical Dermatology
(1979), vol. 18, no. 2.
11 Dr H. Zaun, Ovulationshemmer in der Dematologia (1972).
12 Dr W. A. D. Griffiths, St John's (now part of St Thomas's Hospital),
London, British Journal of Dermatology (1973), 88:31.
13 Dr Sigfrid A. Muller, Epidemiological Survey (1950-1974).
14 Drs Sigfrid A. Muller and R. K. Winkelmann, 'Alopecia Areata',
Archives of Dermatology (1963), 88:290.
15 Drs S. A. Walker and S. Rothman, 'Alopecia Areata: A Statistical
Study', Journal of Investigative Dermatology (1950), 14:403.
16 Drs Sigfrid A. Muller and R. K. Winkelmann, 'Alopecia Areata',
Archives of Dermatology (1963), 88:290.
250 The Hair Loss Cure
Dalton, Dr Katharina 68, 70, 174 false hopes 21, 53-4, 169
Davies, Dr Stephen 75 fellow-sufferers 142
Dawber, Dr Rodney 50, 133-4, 230 Fenton, Dr David 54, 62-3, 195, 201,
dermal papillae research 233 210, 212, 247
dermatological non-disease 231 finasteride 24, 174-5, 193, 195, 213
dermatologists, treatment offered by fingernails 14
17, 21-2, 61-2, 65, 130, 132-4, 140 Firmage, John 214
deterioration 64-5 flap grafting 215
diagnosis 54, 236-40 follicles, see hair follicles
Dianette 70, 171 friction alopecia 27
diazoxide 234
diet 78, 219-7 genetic predisposition 10, 11, 27,
dihydrotestosterone (DHT) 10, 67, 67-8, 134, 172
170-1, 193 girls, feelings of looking like a boy
dinitrochlorobenzene (DNCB) 196, 16-17, 131
207 Goodhew, Duncan 16, 143-4
diphencyprone 178, 196, 207-9, 239 Goodman, Alexa 13, 74, 181
diphenylocyclopropenone 207-9 grey hair 180
disguising the loss 33-5, 74, 130 Griffiths, Dr W.A.D. 68
Dithranol 192 growing back 241-4, 246
dos and don'ts 78-9, 107 hope of 36, 65
drinking 78, 124 growth hormone treatment 176
Dydrogesterone 70-1
dysmorphophobia 230-2 hair clinics 25, 76-7, 216-18
hair density studies 238
early onset 115-16 hair fall, normal 26, 61
Index 253
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