The Love Mindset Quotes

“A soul mate is not found. A soul mate is recognized.”
― Vironika Tugaleva, The Love Mindset: An Unconventional Guide to Healing and Happiness

“Perhaps the most liberating moment in my life was when I realized that my self-loathing was not a product of my inadequacy but, rather, a product of my thoughts.”
― Vironika Tugaleva, The Love Mindset: An Unconventional Guide to Healing and Happiness

“Only love that continues to flow in the face of anger, blame, and indifference can be called love. All else is simply a transaction.”
― Vironika Tugaleva, The Love Mindset: An Unconventional Guide to Healing and Happiness

“A healer is someone who seeks to be the light that she wishes she had in her darkest moments.”
― Vironika Tugaleva, The Love Mindset: An Unconventional Guide to Healing and Happiness

“Temporary, but excruciating, pain is the price of healing.”
― Vironika Tugaleva, The Love Mindset: An Unconventional Guide to Healing and Happiness

“I cannot be broken. I cannot be killed. I cannot fail. This is my identity. This is my core. I am infinite. I am permanent. I am unbreakable.”
― Vironika Tugaleva, The Love Mindset: An Unconventional Guide to Healing and Happiness

“It is almost as if we are all playing a big game of hide-and-go-seek. We all hide expecting to be found, but no one has been labelled the seeker. We stand behind the wall, at first excited, then worried, then bored, then anxious, then angry. We hide and hide. After a while, the game is not fun anymore. Where is my seeker? Where is the person who is supposed to come find me here in my protected shell and cut me open? Where is that one who will make me trust him, make me comfortable, make me feel whole? Some people rot on the spot, waiting for the seeker that never comes. The most important truth that I can relate to you, if you are hiding and waiting, is that the seeker is you and the world, behind so many walls, awaits.”
― Vironika Tugaleva, The Love Mindset: An Unconventional Guide to Healing and Happiness

“Our culture has bred consumers and addicts. We eat too much, buy too much, and want too much. We set ourselves on the fruitless mission of filling the gaping hole within us with material things. Blindly, we consume more and more, believing we are hungry for more food, status, or money, yet really we are hungry for connection.”
― Vironika Tugaleva, The Love Mindset: An Unconventional Guide to Healing and Happiness

“People who don’t know how to use their minds can’t really know how to use their hearts either.”
― Vironika Tugaleva, The Love Mindset: An Unconventional Guide to Healing and Happiness

“The greatest potential we have for opening our hearts lies in the opening of our minds.”
― Vironika Tugaleva, The Love Mindset: An Unconventional Guide to Healing and Happiness

“The mind, just like the body, becomes exactly what it is fed. While the body is nourished by food, the mind is nourished by thoughts.”
― Vironika Tugaleva, The Love Mindset: An Unconventional Guide to Healing and Happiness

“Every time I watch a person awaken to their inner strength, I see what we’re made of, and we’re magnificent. We’re brilliant. We really are. We crave magic because we are magic. We crave power because we are pure power.”
― Vironika Tugaleva, The Love Mindset: An Unconventional Guide to Healing and Happiness

“Love is not the opposite of power. Love IS power. Love is the strongest power there is.”
― Vironika Tugaleva, The Love Mindset: An Unconventional Guide to Healing and Happiness

“I only accept your mistakes and flaws to the degree that I accept my own.”
― Vironika Tugaleva, The Love Mindset: An Unconventional Guide to Healing and Happiness

“We are like puzzle pieces who are perfectly suited to make a giant picture together, but we are assembling ourselves in the dark.”
― Vironika Tugaleva, The Love Mindset: An Unconventional Guide to Healing and Happiness

“My job, my only job here in this moment, is to love myself and, by extension, to love others. My job is just to live and to realize that to live is to love.”
― Vironika Tugaleva, The Love Mindset: An Unconventional Guide to Healing and Happiness

“No matter how much you cry, the tears will dry. No matter how many nightmares, flashbacks, visions, or terrors you endure, they will pass. To weather these in order to find your true self and the happiness you deserve, that is not a risk. To waste the time you have in this body, never showing your soul to yourself or anyone else, living in fearful misery – that is really the most dangerous thing you can do.”
― Vironika Tugaleva, The Love Mindset

“Discovering the truth of who you are is the only way to love and care for yourself.”
― Vironika Tugaleva, The Love Mindset: An Unconventional Guide to Healing and Happiness

“Perhaps there is nothing wrong with being childish and naïve. Perhaps naivety is simply the unwillingness to learn one’s lesson. It is the decision to speak and live the truth, the beautiful truth of who we are and what we’re capable of, against all odds and in the face of all opposition.”
― Vironika Tugaleva, The Love Mindset

“When you see a person acting violently, ask yourself whether he knows how powerful he is. If he knew his power, would he feel the need to assert it?”
― Vironika Tugaleva, The Love Mindset: An Unconventional Guide to Healing and Happiness

“Many so-called disorders of the mind are simply disorders of thought.”
― Vironika Tugaleva, The Love Mindset: An Unconventional Guide to Healing and Happiness

“The history of your happiness is the history of your feeling connected.”
― Vironika Tugaleva, The Love Mindset: An Unconventional Guide to Healing and Happiness

“Of course, being open and vulnerable will lead us to, sometimes, experience pain. But what is pain? It is simply a feeling. It is not forever. If you get pain from some person or thing too many times, you can always walk away. To risk a lifetime without pleasure simply to avoid pain is ludicrous.”
― Vironika Tugaleva, The Love Mindset: An Unconventional Guide to Healing and Happiness

“The desire to be loved, to feel loved, is behind every diet, pill, surgery, and lie. It is behind each act of violence and every affair as well as each organized religion and every method of self-help.”
― Vironika Tugaleva, The Love Mindset: An Unconventional Guide to Healing and Happiness

“To be courageous, we must be willing to surrender our perfectionism, if only for a moment. If my self-worth is attached to being flawless, why would I ever try to learn anything new? After all, learning requires mistakes.”
― Vironika Tugaleva, The Love Mindset

“Fear becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. Thinking that there is something to be avoided manifests something to avoid.”
― Vironika Tugaleva, The Love Mindset: An Unconventional Guide to Healing and Happiness

“Looking with eyes of love is about not only looking, but seeing.”
― Vironika Tugaleva, The Love Mindset: An Unconventional Guide to Healing and Happiness

“Though your acts of love and compassion cannot penetrate bandages or armour, they are never wasted and never lost. They sit within the recipient’s mind, awaiting his awakening.”
― Vironika Tugaleva, The Love Mindset: An Unconventional Guide to Healing and Happiness

“Those who love, truly love, can be coerced into nothing.”
― Vironika Tugaleva, The Love Mindset: An Unconventional Guide to Healing and Happiness

“The child will leave the nest. The best paint job will crack. The best play will become boring. The best work will grow tedious. The best art will lose meaning. The greatest creation will decay. Behind all this, lies my true self.”
― Vironika Tugaleva, The Love Mindset: An Unconventional Guide to Healing and Happiness