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Table of Contents
Introduction 7
Phase One: Inner Being 9

e Feminine Types 9
Dark Feminine Energy 10
Bene ts Of e Dark Feminine 13
Part One: Say Hello To Your Dark Side 14

Dark Femininity and Shadow Work Questions 16
Self-reinvention 19
Dark Feminine Traits To Acknowledge And Embrace 19
e Femme Fatale Persona 20
1. Become a mystery 20
2. Show glimmers of a shadow self 21
3. Sex Appeal and Magnetism 22
Revaluate Yourself. 25
Part Two: Investing in yourself 28

Mental, Emotional And Spiritual Health 29
Physical Appearance 30
Sexy and Powerful A rmations 33
Speed up your manifestation results 34
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Phase two: Seduction and Manipulation 35

How Does e Femme Fatale Treat Men? 35
Rule 1: Anyone you chase in life, runs away 35
Rule 2: Less you need him, the more he wants you 36
Rule 3: Act like a prize, the world will believe you 37
Detachment 39
How To Become Detached From People, ings And
Manifestations: 39
1. Acceptance 39
2. Release 40
3. Allowance 40
How To Make Someone Obsessed With You 41
TARGET TYPES: 42
1. THE GEEK 42
How can I tell if a man is the Geek? 42
How do you make them obsessed with you? 42
2. THE INNOCENT 43
How can you tell a man is the Innocent? 43
3. THE COLD ONE 43
How to make them obsessed with you? 44
4. THE NARCISSIST 44
5. THE CONTROLLING ONE 45

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6. THE ONE THAT IS SCARED OF COMMITMENT 46

7. THE ROMANTIC 46
8. THE PLAYER 47
9. THE IGNORED AND UNAPPRECIATED 48
WHAT ARE THE MAIN REASONS FOR SOMEONES
OBSESSION? 49
Why want someone to be obsessed with you? 49
e Steps 51
Choose your target. 51
Get their attention. 51
Be charismatic and build a friendship. 52
Sell the fantasy. 53
Destroying your prey 58
Keep them at an emotional distance. 60
How to heal from a breakup (and get your ex back) 62

e Steps 63
1. No Contact Period. 63
2. Begin Project Rejuvenation. 64
3. Start a new hobby. 64
4. Practise meditation 64
5. Emotional Purge 65
6. Take yourself on three dates. 65
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7. After the 30 Days 65

8. Decentre your ex from your mind and life. 66
9. When he returns. 66
Conclusion 68

Introduction
For many years of my life, I had never been called beautiful.
I’d had my heart broken four times. I had been cheated on

in all my relationships. My self-esteem was in the gutter. I
was unpopular, unimportant, an emotional wreck. The few
friends I had would leave me out and call me sensitive. My
boyfriends all saw me as ‘needy’ and overly dependent. I
had no control over people’s perception of me and the way I
was treated.
I wanted to be popular, sexy and con dent. But I just didn’t

know how.
I found myself comparing myself to the other beautiful

women in the media and feeling worse every second. I tried
to manifest myself into a more seductive person but
because of my limiting self-beliefs and terrible self-esteem,
nothing worked.
On my birthday last year I realised this had to change.
For 6 months I engrossed myself in learning manipulation

techniques and power. I took 3 courses on dark psychology
and realised how applicable everything was to the real
world. I started therapy, shadow work, got a dark femininity
guru, and completely reinvented myself. I became a spiritual
person, in touch with my sexuality and a con dent
manipulator. Then I put everything into practice.
I started going out to certain places and getting pulled up by

guys almost immediately. I started getting asked on dates
by guys I would’ve considered way out of my league. I had
my cheating ex at my door every day, holding owers, even
though I didn’t want him anymore.

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Outside of the realm of men my life had changed
dramatically too. I was now the con dent, mysterious and
seductive woman I never thought I could be before.
This ebook is a collection of what I’ve learnt. How to

connect to your dark femininity, how to manipulate men and
how to be a femme fatale.
It also contains intense tactics to make a man obsessed

with you. Obsession is an uncomfortable, painful and
extremely distressing phenomenon. It takes a huge
emotional toll on you and gives people a lot of power over
you. And contrary to popular belief, obsession is purely
psychology. You can occupy anyone’s mind and with
practice control it. You can make someone think of you all
the time and fall in love with you.
This book is not for the weak. I’m very straightforward and
to the point with my advice
and this may come across cruel to some people. In my

eyes, giving you this information is okay. It is all down to
how you use it. I’ve crushed enough men with these tactics
to know that it’s not fun anymore. I’ve had enough people
fall for me to know that obsession can have some
dangerous consequences. But it can also bene t you in
many ways which is why I knew I had to share this with
other women across the world.
Learning how to seduce, manipulate and conquer isn’t just

to teach you how to destroy men. It also protects you from
being hurt by them. If you don’t want to annihilate a man I
still suggest reading this book. It will teach you how to avoid
them being able to annihilate you. Depriving yourself of this
awareness will only hinder you – even if you choose not to
use it, knowledge is power. The girls that get it, get it.
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Phase One: Inner Being
Before you even nd a male target, or start your self-
reinvention, you need to decide on a feminine type.
Connecting to your divine femininity is integral to your self-
love journey. And contrary to popular belief, femininity
doesn’t have to be all pink, gentle and air-like.
e Feminine Types
There are two most poignant forms of femininity are the dark
and the light feminine. As this e-book is for the femme
fatales, vixens and sirens we will be focusing on how to
channel dark feminine energy and using it to get what you
want.
A lot of women choose to only acknowledge their light

feminine side whilst attempting to suppress their dark
femininity. They don’t tap into the rage,
the ability to seduce and manipulate, and even manifest

because they’re told these are “masculine” traits.
Additionally, some women are completely controlled by their

dark femininity, falling prey to it and letting it consume them.
Untamed dark feminine energy is very dangerous and
results in extreme emotional/sexual/physical complications.
It can even lead to an inability to tap into light feminine traits
such as being nurturing, empathetic or loving.
The trick is to access your dark femininity and control it

without letting it control you. Many TikTok sources
constantly discuss dark femininity but don’t explore the
risks, or even explain the broad extent of its e ects. The
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Dark Feminine is a powerful entity that you need to fully
understand before you channel which luckily, this book will
provide you the tools for.
Dark Feminine Energy

The paramount and most important stage of beginning your
transformation into dark femininity, divinity and power is
transforming the inner persona.
Do not underestimate the divine feminine energy you

already have locked within you. Before you can move onto
controlling others and manipulating the world around you,
the rst thing you must do is transform yourself. The
everyday woman does not have power. She is low in power.
Normal women do not ourish. Normal women are not
powerful. Divine women are.
How to know if you haven’t tapped into your dark feminine

Are you:
• Dependent on others?(friends/partners)
• Experiencing shame and self-doubt?
• Struggling with repressed emotions, desires and trauma?
• Emotionally unstable (not in control of the release of your

emotions and/or reactive to external behaviours)?
• Insecure?
• Unable to predict the behaviours of those around you?
• Wanting the ability to seduce and manipulate but unable

to do so?
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• Quick to lose friends and unable to sustain positive

relationships with others without con ict?
• Struggle to be understood by others?
We’ve all been there.
For so many years of my life I struggled. Struggled to be

understood. Struggled to be respected by others. Struggled
to make and keep valuable friendships. Struggled to get a
man to treat me the way that I deserved. If this is the same
for you just know that dark femininity will change your life.
This book is your cure.
What does dark femininity look like?
• Power
• Intensity
• Manipulation
• Control
• Magnetism
Dark femininity comes when you strip back and delve deep
into your rawest form.
One myth about the dark feminine woman is that it will turn
you into a stoic, cold residue of a woman. This is wrong. It
involves connecting with your emotional roots and
connecting with the most feminine form of yourself to
facilitate the control of your emotions. The dark feminine
woman uses her emotions to fuel her success. Another
myth about the dark feminine is that it is the embodiment of
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the “whore” or is the negative side of divine femininity.
Neither is the case.
Dark feminism is not cruelty, evil and bitterness. It

represents chaos, seduction and destruction and can be
manipulated to challenge and control the masculine energy.
If you want to be able to control men and make them

obsessed with you, you need to channel this darkness.
Ancient deities that represented dark feminine energy:

The dark feminine woman, and the femme fatale, have not
only been explored in modern society. The story of Tara and
the story of Kali are two ancient stories that show that this
dark divinity has been explored by women for centuries.
• Kali
• Tara
• Lilith
• Isis
• Innana
Modern women that channel dark feminine energy:

If you admire these women and look up to them, then divine
dark femininity is for you.
• Angelina Jolie
• Alexa Demie
• Rihanna
• Megan Fox
Bene ts Of e Dark Feminine
Women who are in touch with the dark femininity experience
a lot of creative, sexual and sensual energy. Tapping into
this side of yourself will release the ability to engulf and
overtake masculine energy and will result in men literally
falling at your feet. It is almost a form of alchemy, one that is
available to all women but that little have knowledge on.
The wild seduction that comes from dark femininity too is

also a plus, and a ects both men & women alike. For
example, Alexa Demie is a key femme fatale gure in
modern society. She attracts the adoration of both men and
women, without channelling too much jealousy and dislike.
We know little about her but are constantly eager to learn
more, and she’s very careful about what she posts online.
She’s a complete mystery, so much so that we aren’t even
sure about her age.
Likewise, Rihanna is a gure who has used her dark

femininity to build an empire. She is evidence that this form
of femininity can be utilised to conquer all aspects of life,
not just men.
Dark feminine energy is also a source of healing. Tapping

into your dark femininity not only transforms yourself but
enables you to communicate your wants and needs clearly,
set clear boundaries and protects your heart from being
destroyed.
Being madly in love with someone who cheated on me

completely broke me. I didn’t know how to heal or process
anything that I was feeling. Dark femininity saved me. Many
women channel dark feminine energy after breakups without
even realising it. In my case, connecting to my dark feminine
energy changed my life.
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Part One:
Say Hello To Your Dark Side
Carl Jung, a depth psychologist, conceived the idea of a

“shadow”, with it being described as a part of our identity
that we conceal in day to day life.
Most often, we tend to suppress and feel shame towards

the shadow aspects of our personality. We hide them away
in fear that they make us terrible or evil people. In actuality,
this is not the case. Everyone has a shadow self and in turn,
we all have shadow work to do.
Shadow work involves getting in touch with the ‘dark side’

of ourselves and is an essential part of the self growth
process. It unveils primitive human emotions such as rage,
shame and jealousy, and burrows down to discover their
origins. Exiling certain parts of yourself does not give you

more control or make you a better person - in fact, this just
enables these emotions to are up and become present in
many unnecessary circumstances.
Connecting with your shadow enables you to become fully

comfortable with the dark and light aspects of your feminine
self. It will draw awareness to the suppressed sides of
yourself, increase control and give you full access to the
dark feminine persona.
You will need to embark on a spiritual and emotional

process of purging and acceptance of any shame,
repressed emotions, trauma and desires that have been
buried. On the next few pages I have included shadow work
questions to ask yourself. Write your answers in a journal
and spend time deliberating over the results. These are
 
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designed to bring forth repressed emotions and begin

connecting you to your dark feminine.
Dark Femininity and
Shadow Work Questions
1. Describe yourself as a person, being as brutally honest
as possible.
2. What do I not love about myself?

a. Why?
b. How can I change this/learn to accept it?
3. What makes me feel jealous?

a. How can I turn this jealousy into something that will
bene t me in a healthy way?
4. What things are triggers for you?

a. Where do you think these negative feelings stem from?
5. When is the last time you felt let down (by yourself or by
others)? Describe that feeling and whether it was rational
6. What is a promise you have made to yourself that you

have continued to break?
a. Why?
7. What is an emotion I like to avoid?
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a. Why do I avoid it?
b. What can I do to express this emotion in a healthy

way?
8. What am I addicted to?

a. Where do these addictions come from and do they
help or hinder me?
9. Are you a victim of trauma and if so how?

a. If yes, how can you heal from this trauma?
b. How has this trauma made you who you are today?
10. What is something your inner child needs to hear?
11. What is something your younger self needed but never

received?
a. How can you give this to your inner child?
12. What is something that makes you feel shameful?

a. Why is this the case?
b. What is one way you can transform this shame into

con dence?
13. Does being vulnerable make me uncomfortable?
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a. Where does this come from?
It is important to honour your good and bad. The light and

dark sides to your personality. The dark feminine doesn’t let
her dark side fully consume her – she instead acknowledges
and embraces her painful qualities and transforms them into
something that will bene t her. Bring the darkness to the
forefront and celebrate it.
I recommend also getting therapy, to help you uncover past

traumas completely, in a safe space.
Once you’ve done the shadow work, open your heart to

allow yourself to awaken your dark femininity. Meditate and
ll your heart with your own love, adoration and acceptance.
Use the Isha system for deep meditation to attain peace and
develop your intuition. Get ready for the process ahead.
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Self-reinvention
After engaging in shadow work and uncovering the dark
sides of ourselves, we begin the process of uncovering our
full potential. The next stage is complete reinvention.
Dark Feminine Traits To Acknowledge And

Embrace
• Sexual expression
• Destruction and Rebirth
• Mystery
• Rage
• Emotional intelligence
• Emotional embracement

e Femme Fatale Persona

First, let’s establish what the traditional femme fatale is like.
How she behaves, how she thinks and how you can apply
this to yourself and become one.
“Femme Fatale” directly translates to mean “deadly woman”

in French. The dark feminine femme fatale you’ll become
takes this one step further. She has learnt how to seduce,
manipulate and destroy.
Whilst people think being a femme fatale relies on

appearance, as we’ll establish later in the book it is your
attitude that changes everything.
So how does one become a femme fatale? Through

research and evidence from my own life, I have created a
short list of three key components of transforming into the
femme fatale:
1. Become a mystery
This will be touched on a little later in the book but this is an
important stage in the reinvention process. A femme fatale
is a mystery to others. She is di cult to comprehend,
unpredictable and di erent to the rest of the herd. 
As humans are minds thirst for certainty and stability.
Therefore, when we are met with something that cannot be
fully gauged, our minds work overtime trying to gure it out.
This is why being a mystery works – it is one of the things
that makes people obsessed with you and their imagination
begins to run wild.
Lets look at Alexa Demie as an example again. Part of her

widespread admiration and magnetism lies in what we don’t
know about her. What we’re unsure about. She’s the perfect
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example of how ambiguity and mystery triggers curiosity
and obsession.
Another reason why being a mystery is important is because

it protects your peace and prevents you from being too
susceptible to the actions of other people. The
normalisation of social media and cellphone addiction has
led people to believe that sharing your highlight reels and
posting every single day is necessary to be considered
interesting. In reality, being too prevalent on socials
negatively a ects your mental health more than anything
else.
How do you become mysterious?

• Post less, talk less, be less available – post every so often
on socials and when you do, make it good.
• Be unpredictable to breed uncertainty
• Practice strategic absence and periods of being away
• Conceal your intentions
• Allow other people to speak highly of you but never brag
about yourself – let word spread organically about your
accomplishments
2. Show glimmers of a shadow self

The “shadow” as described by Carl Jung, is usually
suppressed and hidden from outside view. By hinting at the
darkness, you become more thrilling and powerful in
comparison to those who are constantly trying to be perfect.
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This is the reason and evidence why dark feminine women

are so alluring and exhilarating. They represent a connection
to a side of ourselves we’re all afraid to unlock.
You must be careful and selective with doing this.

Only reveal this side of you when appropriate. Formal,
depressing or tragic situations are not the place for
revealing your darkness.
Never get too dark or reveal too much. Remember it is

supposed to be a glimmer. Your dark side is supposed to be
something to intrigue people not the scare them.
3. Sex Appeal and Magnetism

Sex Appeal and Magnetism are two of the most poignant
and rememberable qualities of the femme fatale. In contrary
to popular belief, these
have less to do with your physical appearance, body, or

face and are instead entirely reliant upon how you feel about
yourself and how connected you are you to your sexuality.
The reason why most women cannot get in touch with their
sexual side and feel fully con dent is because they have
repressed feelings of shame and insecurity when it comes
to sex.
Sex appeal and sensuality has been argued to be something

innate that cannot be learned or develop. I disagree. I went
from being wildly socially anxious and uncomfortable
around men especially in a sexual sense to being a sexual
siren. Connecting to your sexual side and tapping into that
part of yourself is part of the dark feminine. Sex appeal is
something you discover within yourself and looks di erent
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with everyone. Whilst some people may nd it easier than
others, it is a skill not a trait.
Ways you can develop your sex appeal/magnetism:
• Practice mirror work.

MirrorWork was a technique developed by Louise Hay as
a gateway into the inner psyche. It involves saying
a rmations to yourself, examining your features, dancing,
being naked, all while looking in the mirror. It is a
transformative experience and positively impacts your
sensual and sexual energy.  
• Decide which features you like about yourself and

capitalise on them.
Are your eyes your favourite part of your face? Draw
attention to them by wearing bold and colourful eye looks
or thick eyeliner. Got a great bum that you want to aunt?
Change your wardrobe into something attering to your
body type to accentuate your curves. It’s all about
emphasising the things you love about yourself to boost
your con dence and use it as a tool to translate your
sexual energy.  
• Explore your body and learn how to make yourself feel

good.
Invest in a vibrator.  
• Speak slowly and sustain eye contact.

Careful speech that is in a low voice, with calculated word
choices, as well as being the last person to break eye
contact are signs of con dence. However, be careful not
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to speak too slowly as you’ll ruin the e ect – use it
sparingly, for example when you meet someone for a rst
time or if you’ll trying to create sexual tension.  
• Buy lingerie.  
Lingerie is not just for women with partners – it is for
yourself too. Underwear can revolutionise your
perspective on your body so invest in some quality, sexy
pieces, even if you have no aim to show anyone.
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Revaluate Yourself.
Examine Yourself From An Outside Perspective And Hold
Yourself Accountable. This stage of the process requires
intense and unforgiving honesty with yourself. You must
separate your emotions from reality and look at yourself
objectively. It rst involves asking more hard questions. This
isn’t to make you dislike, doubt or hate yourself – rather the
opposite. It aims to eliminate your aws and be 100% real.
The biggest defence against your competitors in life is to
gure out your aws before they can, erase or hide them,
and reinvent yourself completely.
Ask yourself these questions – make sure to be honest with

yourself:
• What are my attractive/best qualities?

• What are my unattractive qualities?
• How do other people describe me?
• What do I like and dislike the most about myself?
• What is my biggest aw?
• What makes me vulnerable to others?
• What can I change?
• What bad behaviours do I justify?
• How have I been a bad friend/partner to others?
• What do I most want to improve about myself?
• How can I better embrace my emotions? 
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Now, envision the femme fatale version of yourself you’ve
always wanted to be. You want to get speci c and answer
these questions:
• What does the ideal version of myself look like?

• How does she speak? Walk? Dress?
• How would other people describe her?
• If I became this person, what would my life look like
now?
• What would her life look like in ve years?
• How do men see her?
 
Ways you can enhance your understanding of the femme
fatale:
• Construct her daily routine – from the time she wakes up

to when she goes to bed. You can also use this as an
opportunity to script an ordinary day in her life  
• Create a vision board to demonstrate her aesthetic and

manifest her into your reality  
• Go online and nd the clothes she would wear. Compare

it to your wardrobe and make necessary adjustments.  
You can become this version of yourself at any moment. It is

not necessary to change your appearance to do so – in fact,
looks have little to do with being a femme fatale. Anyone
can overpower and manipulate a man. This is all down to
recognising your power, connecting to your dark feminine
persona and channelling it into your present reality.
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This is a message for all my bad bitches who have low self-
esteem and don’t believe they have power to harness. The
rst step to taking control is believing you have it. There
are plenty of beautiful and conventionally attractive women
who are treated terribly by men because they have no clue
how powerful they are. They haven’t tapped into it yet and
are facing the consequences. And there are also women
who are “ordinary” or unconventionally attractive at rst
glance but have men literally wrapped around their nger.
It is the energy that makes you hot and mysterious. And

energy doesn’t lie. Tell the world that you are sexy and
important, and everyone will believe you. Ever looked back
on photos of an old hairstyle you had that you absolutely
loved at the time, but now absolutely
hated it? However, when you got it everyone was

complimenting you and treating you like you’re the shit? If
you believe you’re the shit everyone else will too.
When it comes to men speci cally it all becomes a lot

easier. But rst, work on your self concept, reinvent yourself
and invest in yourself.
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Part Two:
Investing in yourself
Investing in yourself is putting time, money and resources

into bettering yourself, your life and your future. This is an
integral part of the femme fatale transition.
Often, us women unconsciously invest in the people around

us, especially the men we are involved with. This is not
necessarily a bad thing but can result in
overcompensation, neediness and dependency.
What do these things look like?
• Needing validation from others to feel good about yourself

• Jumping at every chance a man throws at you to hang out
• Sacri cing vital needs (sleep, studying, eating) for a man
and working around HIS schedule
• Working overtime to impress other people especially men
• Comparing yourself to other women and doing everything
you can to be more physically attractive to other men
The secret to ending this negative cycle of chasing and

depending on others is to redistribute this energy towards
improving and loving yourself. This will enable you to
detach from social outcomes and see yourself as a prize.
Once I started investing in myself, I saw the world start to
invest in me too. Men started courting me rather than just
trying to fuck and duck. I started getting owers, gifts and
most importantly, respect. And I eliminated every man that
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wasn’t worth my time because I knew exactly what I
deserved.
Investing in yourself is an adventure. It means becoming the

person you’ve always dreamed of and realising that she’s
been there locked inside of you all along. It’s allowing the
dark feminine to shine and catering to her needs, refocusing
your energy on the things that matter and watching your
manifestations come to life.
So how can you invest in yourself?
Mental, Emotional And Spiritual Health

• Eliminate the toxic and bad in your life. This relates to
foods, behaviours and people. Cut o people who do
not make you feel good about yourself. If this means
losing a lot of people this is okay – what is meant to be
will be.
• Practice using a rmations (see next part) to reprogram

your subconscious mind and ensure you speak to
yourself with love always. Never ever talk down on
yourself and speak highly about yourself around others.
They will unconsciously digest these beliefs too.
• Replace bad habits with healthy ones
• Become selective with how you utilise your time –

consider time to be a currency with which you need to
spend wisely
• Exercise regularly and put your physical health to the

forefront (health is wealth)
• Invest in good skincare products and have weekly self-

care routines to show yourself extra love
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• Read more books especially self-help
• Become comfortable with your own company – in order

to stop depending on others you need to develop
independence
Physical Appearance
Although energy, attitude and your aura are fundamentally
the most important traits when becoming a femme fatale, it
would be ridiculous of me to gloss over the blatant power of
pretty privilege and how this can advantage you in your
seduction process. However, the di erence between this
and common knowledge is such: you don’t have to have a
speci c look or even conform to modern beauty standards
to be a powerful and seductive woman. You should aim to
look your best (emphasis on your best). No two women are
the same and comparison is a complete waste of time. Your
focus should be to enhance your appearance and play on
your features to be more attractive.
This isn’t about winning the genetic lottery but instead

investing in your physical appearance. This doesn’t refer to
getting lip llers, spending £££ on designer clothes or
getting a BBL (unless you want to do all those things of
course). Instead I’m talking about the simple things that lead
to big results: taking care of your teeth, getting a attering
hairstyle, wearing makeup that suits your face.
Have you ever tried to replicate a celebrity’s makeup or style

and it just looked so bad on you? But then you try
something else and it completely works? This demonstrates
the importance of individuality. We all have our own
aesthetic and there’s something out there for all of us.
Taking inspiration from others is a start but instead of trying
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to look like someone else, the femme fatale develops her
own style and nesse.
Do you notice that in Euphoria every woman in the cast is

incredibly beautiful and seductive in their own way, and yet
none of them look similar or even have the same aesthetic?
Sydney Sweeney and Alexa Demie look nothing alike but
they both are sexy and seductive. They both radiate
con dence and decorate themselves di erently, and both
are magnetic in their energy.
But again, they’re almost polar opposites in appearance and

dress sense. This shows that we all shine, and can be
magnetic, but in di erent ways.
For me personally, I had to learn which makeup suited my

face. I tried it all. The 90s thin brow. The 2014 Instagram
brow. The dewy and glowy makeup looks. Intense eye
looks. It took me a lot of experimenting as well as
dedication to nd what worked for me. But once you nd
what works the time invested is so worth it.
Practical tips for nding your aesthetic and improving your

physical appearance:
• Determine your face shape (oval, long, round, square,

heart, diamond) and skin undertone. Base your makeup
around these.
• Draw emphasis to your favourite facial features. Love

your lips? Invest in lots of di erent lipsticks and nd the
shades that work for you. Love your eyes? Try out
eyeshadow. It takes a lot of experimenting but this is
why it’s called investing – a lot of time needs to be
spent perfecting your look.
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• Invest in teeth whitening and take care of them. It’s no
secret that a brighter smile makes you more physically
attractive. No need to elaborate on this
• Figure out your aesthetic and re ne your wardrobe.

Throw out the clothes that don’t suit you. Stop feeding
microtrends.
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Sexy and Powerful A rmations
These a rmations are designed to change your self-
concept and help you to quantum-leap into the best version
of yourself. Feeling sexy and con dent is the biggest key to
become a hot and mysterious femme fatale. By saying
these a rmations and believing them, you will train your
self-conscious to believe you are these things (and you are!).
The di erence between you and the girl you want to be is
the energy.
Fake it until you make it. Eventually you’ll believe the words
you’re saying, even if you don’t right now.
• I am divinely protected
• I have a completely magnetic seductive vibe that people
fall for
• I am sexy and mysterious
• Why am I so powerful?
• I radiate con dence wherever I go
• I'm so hot without even trying
• I can get anyone and anything I want
• People always get lost in my eyes because of how
alluring and mesmerising they are
• I am the most powerful woman in the world
• I'm completely unfazed by the behaviours of others
• I can manipulate any situation to get what I want
• I am in complete control of my emotions
• People are in awe of my beauty
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• Everyone is so intrigued by me - I am a complete mystery

• I am the IT girl
• I am the embodiment ofthe femme fatale
• I'm so intimidating
• The world is my runway
• I am lled with extreme love for myself
• I am letting go entirely of all negativity, dislike and self-
hatred towards myself
• Anything I want I get
• Everything I wish for is already mine
• I am the main character, and my life is amazing
• I radiate mystery, sensuality and magnetism
• I am the best version of myself
• There is not a single man on Earth that can hurt me or
make me upset. I make them upset.
Speed up your manifestation results
• I manifest whatever I want, whenever I want, and the
results come to me immediately
• Everything I think of that I desire, arrives immediately
• The moment I see something I want, I always get it
• All my positive wishes for myself are ful lled instantly
• My life is perfect in every shape and form
• Immediately in this present moment I have an amazing
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Phase two: Seduction and

Manipulation
How Does e Femme Fatale Treat Men?
Now onto the nitty gritty. Upon research I found that out of
all the seducer traits a woman could inhibit, the femme
fatale was the most powerful, seductive and manipulative
type out there. Embodying this took me from the needy,
crying ex-girlfriend into the vengeful dark feminine ancé,
ready to destroy the shitty man I had let into my life.
There are three ultimate rules for you to remember. If you

take anything away from this book take these! Take notes,
open your eyes and focus on these vital pieces of wisdom:
The Three Ultimate Rules Of The Femme Fatale

1. Anyone you chase in life, runs away
2. The less you need him, the more he wants you
3. If you act like a prize, the world will believe you
Rule 1: Anyone you chase in life, runs away

The Femme Fatale never, ever chases a man.
The secret that men don’t want you to know is that they
love the chase. They love the process of trying to get what
they want. This relates to sex, relationships and any other
type of intimacy from a woman.
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As a woman it is okay to have one-night stands, sleep with

a guy soon into knowing them and enter a relationship
quickly. There is no shame in this and I will never criticise
women for the same things that men do.
However, if you want to control a man you need to put

these things on hold and take it slow. The longer you take to
give him what he wants the more he will work for it.
A dark feminine woman, a femme fatale, knows that men

must earn the ability to touch her. She doesn’t settle for less
and wants proof that they desire her as much as they claim.
She sets boundaries and never ever ignores them, and
when a man does not respect these boundaries, she quickly

disposes of them.
Not chasing a man means several things. It means not

centring your world around them. It means not texting rst
and not planning dates. It means having options. All these
things force men into their masculine and makes them more
likely to court you.
A feminine woman is a receiver. She falls back into her

passivity and allows men to put in the work to prove
themselves. Taking this further, the dark feminine woman
accepts no less than what she deserves. She puts men in
her place when needed but is still loving, seductive and
sensual when he is doing well. She never overcompensates
or acts needy for a man.
Rule 2: Less you need him, the more he wants you

Neediness and dependency is the quickest way to lose a
man. When trying to win a man over, show that you have
your own life. You don’t need him, he can only add to your
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life not become it. When he messages you at 2am to come

over you won’t respond because you’ll be fast asleep
preparing for the day ahead. When he goes on a date with
you but doesn’t get you owers, doesn’t pay or compliment
you, you will be extremely unimpressed and won’t put up
with it. Why? Because you love yourself.
By investing in yourself, your goals and your dreams, this

will become your reality regardless.
The trick is to detach from other people and love yourself so

much that you won’t allow anyone to impress you so easily.
This is bene cial in all aspects of life, not just dating.
Rule 3: Act like a prize, the world will believe you

Here’s a powerful teaching tool from a woman who spent
the day with Marilyn Monroe that changed my life:
“I’ll never forget the day Marilyn and I were walking around
New York City, just having a stroll on a nice day. She loved
New York because no one bothered her there like they did in
Hollywood, she could put on her plain-Jane clothes and no
one would notice her. She loved that. So, as we we’re
walking down Broadway, she turns to me and says, ‘Do you
want to see me become her?’ I didn’t know what she meant
but I just said ‘Yes’ — and then I saw it. I don’t know how to
explain what she did because it was so very subtle, but she
turned something on within herself that was almost like
magic. And suddenly cars were slowing, and people were
turning their heads and stopping to stare. They were
recognizing that this was Marilyn Monroe as if she pulled o
a mask or something, even though a second ago nobody
noticed her. I had never seen anything like it before.”
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Marilyn Monroe was living proof that con dence and self-
belief can change your reality. When she said “do you want
to see me become her” that was evidence that you can
become a femme fatale at any moment. You do not have to
dramatically alter your appearance or spend thousands on
new cosmetic and aesthetic items to do so. But if you
believe you’re a prize and shift your self-concept, everyone
else will see you as one.
Men will bow at your feet. You won’t have to lift a nger but
will still have them wrapped around it. And you know what’s
even better? Your control over men is just a minor side-
e ect to changing your energy. Everything else in life will fall
into place simply because you adore yourself.
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Detachment
One of the most important skills to learn when it comes to

seduction is detachment. The de nition of detachment is
“the state of being objective or aloof” – this is exactly what
you need to be. It means you are disconnected from the
individual
There are several bene ts to practicing detachment:
• Being detached allows you to act in a rationale way and

ensure your seduction is not soured by your emotions. It
allows you to see things for how they are and not how you
want them to be and enable others to be themselves
without looking for their potential. It removes your
expectations
• Remaining detached also makes people more dependent
on you – when they realise you don’t need them they are
more inclined to respect you.
• Detachment is also bene cial when it comes to your
manifestations.
How To Become Detached From People,

ings And Manifestations:
1. Acceptance
Realise that not everything is meant for you, what is meant
for you will nd you and everything else will dissipate. You
are responsible for your own happiness and when you place
it in the hands of other people you’re at risk to their own
behaviour and decisions. No matter how much you want
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something, or someone,  
they can leave at any moment and you can’t let it destroy
you. It’s how life works.
2. Release
Learn to let go of things that aren’t working out. Stop
forcing situations. Embrace the mindset that “everything
happens for a reason”.
With manifestations, utilise the law of assumption to

detach. When you are obsessed with the outcome you hold
onto any limiting beliefs you may have, which prevent your
manifestation to come into your reality.
3. Allowance
Allow yourself and others to be your unrestricted selves,
free from judgement. Accept yourself and others in their
entirety.

How To Make Someone

Obsessed With You
Now let’s get right into it. The reason why you bought this
book. These steps are the reason I was able to get every
man /person I wanted to be obsessed with me. This
information was retrieved from several books found in old
charity shops, speaking powerful dark feminine women and
combined with my own knowledge and practice.
Use this wisely. Obsession is not always bene cial and

sometimes it can be dangerous and scary. Make sure you
don’t go too far, unless you want someone stalking you and
thinking about you obsessively every second (this has
happened to me).
Before beginning the process of obsession, you need to

make sure you are susceptible to these techniques yourself.
This is why I recommend becoming fully comfortable in your
dark femininity and encapsulating the femme fatale persona
before starting the seduction/obsession process. You need
to be con dent in yourself and make sure you aren’t in a
vulnerable position otherwise it will not work.
Once you’re ready you’ll know.
The rst step to in icting obsession with someone is

choosing your target. Every single man ts into a category
and every single man can be manipulated into obsession. It
is important to analyse, observe and understand your target
before you start the manipulation process.
With each target there is one thing they are missing from
their lives. Use this to make yourself alluring to them and
begin the seductive process.
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TARGET TYPES:
1. THE GEEK
The geek is the term for men who take everything logically.
They compartmentalise everything in their lives to be
explored through thorough analysis and are usually
incredibly intelligent.
How can I tell if a man is the Geek?

They usually have an interest in sciences, maths and
computers as well as a “geek” social label on them already.
They speak logically and rationally, rarely using emotion to
dictate their decisions. They analyse things deeply and
observe. They actively enjoy reading and writing.
How do you make them obsessed with you?

The geek is missing excitement and adventure in their lives
and their need to feel superior due to their intelligence
leaves them in a complete mental prison. To make them
obsessed you need to do one of two things. To start, you
cannot threaten their intellectual superiority by appearing
smarter than them: this will push them away. Instead you
must seem superior as a student of life – be exciting,
spontaneous, full of new adventures and experiences. Be
impulsive without explaining the reason behind your actions.
Let them dominate you when it comes to logic and
intelligence but dominate them and lead when it comes to
experiencing life.
Do NOT threaten their intellect or try to be smarter than

them. This is a quick way to get them to hate you.

2. THE INNOCENT
The innocent man is the easiest to manipulate. They see the
world through a lens of kindness and vulnerability. They lack
bias towards the world and see the good in everyone. I
personally don’t enjoy manipulating the innocent as there is
not much to gain.
How can you tell a man is the Innocent?

They tend to be quite submissive and naïve. They act
vulnerable.

Completely avoid being innocent like them. Instead, reveal
your dark femininity to them and life experience. Pose as a
leader, someone who is superior to them. Innocent types are
innately submissive and feel inferior. Once you get them to
like you and create enough rapport, bring them into your big
bad world and make them feel like they can’t got forwards
without you.
3. THE COLD ONE

This type refers to the men who show little to no emotions
and are seen as “cold” or “tough”. They appear to lack
vulnerability, and this is often due to wanting to protect
themselves emotionally as a result of past traumas,
miseducation etc.
This is easy to tell as it is an obvious guard they put up

daily.

How to make them obsessed with you?

The cold one takes a lot of work. You have to be slow and
careful with the process as they are extremely resistant to
taking their walls down and are very detached. You have to
a rm their toughness and masculinity. Be fun and playful,
never too serious.
When you see a moment of genuine happiness in between

the coldness, that is a path to their emotions. Make a
mental note and then use that topic to slowly break down
their walls.
Never ever try and force a connection between you. They

will see right through you and you will lose the opportunity
for obsession.
4. THE NARCISSIST
We’ve all met a narcissistic man. They’re self - absorbed,
think the world revolves around them and are incredibly high
maintenance. They are obsessed with themselves (but in the
worst way possible).

The secret to the narcissistic man is that they are
completely unsatis ed with themselves and their lives, and
therefore seek validation as much as possible. Therefore the
pathway to their obsession is to fuel their self-obsession by
feeding their egos. Keep feeding it, and then, every so often
completely stop. Give them no attention, compliments or
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validation. Their constant thirst for attention will make them

hungry for more.
Keep doing this cycle and they’ll be wrapped around your

thumb completely.
If you want them to do something for you tell them they

can’t do it. Challenge them. They’ll drive themselves crazy
trying to convince you they can.
However, when threatening their ego make sure you don’t

overdo it. Find balance with it: validate, then pull away, then
challenge.
5. THE CONTROLLING ONE

These are men that have an uncanny thirst for domination in
all aspects of life. Their desire for control is usually
psychological, due to feelings of powerlessness and
vulnerability in childhood. They are usually the boyfriends
that try to control what you wear, who you’re friends with
and what you do with your life.

Controlling men lack a sense of security in their lives and so
they attempt to gain control of everything to override this.
All you have to do is make them feel like they’re in control.
They don’t actually have to be in control and you will
secretly be the one pulling all the strings. Which is why after
a while you’ll start being unpredictable. They can longer pull
the strings and go obsessed trying to reel you back in. This
process of lunacy will help you keep them forever.

6. THE ONE THAT IS SCARED OF

COMMITMENT
These are the most popular men that I would use my
techniques on. These are the men that are scared of being
in a relationship and pull away when things start getting
serious. You can tell these men by the way they act: if they
shut down emotionally and act nonchalant most of the time,
it’s highly likely that they are this type of man.
One of the number one rules of dating is that everyone

wants what they can’t have. Therefore the number one
way to make them obsessed is to keep your intentions a
secret and never discuss the future/what you want from
them. Have other options, almost mirror their nonchalance.
Never put a label on your relationship or even call them a
friend. Allow them to be the one to chase you.
7. THE ROMANTIC
The romantic is another easy type to seduce. These are the
men who are in love with the idea of love. They want a
girlfriend; they want the commitment, and they want to be
with you until they die. You can tell a romantic by how much
e ort they put into your situation. They’re usually readers, or
like movies, as they engage well with the fantasy world. The
reason why it is easy to make these types obsessed with
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You have to give them the fantasy. The romance, the

sweetness, the exciting adventures. But the key here is to
make sure you do not get attached. This is because at the
last moment, when they get too comfortable or when they
mess up, you will turn completely cold. They will miss the
kind and sweet side to you and go obsessive trying to get it
back.
8. THE PLAYER
These are men that play with the emotions of women. They
have multiple partners with the hope to gain approval from
others, and feel validated when they leave girls that are in
love with them. They tend to have lots of hook-ups, intimate
relationships and continuously keep their options open.
They’re usually quite cheeky, irty and make a lot of dirty
jokes. In their mind they can never be tied down.

Never be straight with them. Be irty, show a fun, sexual
side. But never give it to them. Insult them playfully to
slightly damage their ego but then pair it with a laugh to
show that you’re just playing around. Keep your cards close
to your chest. It is also helpful to analyse their behaviour
and try to deduce why they are the way they are. Once you
nd their weakness you can directly point it out and watch
their shock at the accuracy.
Another way to seduce them is to act completely innocent.

This is because it makes them believe they are in complete
control over you, when secretly, you’re the one pulling the
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9. THE IGNORED AND UNAPPRECIATED

These are the men that are usually out shadowed by their
peers. They are most often considered the least attractive of
their group and as a result have become the self-proclaimed
comedic relief of the cohort. They are most often
inexperienced when it comes to women but most often
have a genuine and sweet personality. What they want most
secretly is to be the Player. They want the attention and
adoration from women. But as they never get it, and never
have, they’ve learnt to lower their expectation and are
comfortable in their position.

The rst step is to build rapport. These types are usually
incredibly funny so get to know them, make them laugh. The
next step is to show them the most attention when they are
with their friends. Give them a light, but not too excessive
compliment, one that is true but won’t raise too much
suspicion. Give his friends little to no attention. By doing
this you raise the intrigue of the other men whilst also giving
this type the attention they’ve never received. Continue
building a relationship with them and showing
them favour. This is all you need to do to make them

obsessed: it is attention and validation they crave, so
continue sustaining it and they’ll be loyal to you forever.
Be careful never to feed their ego too much. Also give them
a little, inch by inch. They’ll fall in love with your kindness
and sincerity.
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WHAT ARE THE MAIN REASONS FOR

SOMEONES OBSESSION?
1. You are the ideal versions of themselves
2. You ll a void in their psyche
3. You bring out the most suppressed sides of

themselves
Why want someone to be obsessed with you?

There are several reasons why you would want to make
someone obsessed with you. For one, someone has
severely hurt you and you’d like to get revenge.
This was my ultimate purpose for learning manipulation. I

had been cheated on several times by one particular guy
and he had completely broken my heart. So, by learning
these techniques I managed to make him infatuated with
me. He descended into a hole I’d created of passion,
delusion and mania. And as soon as he thought everything
was perfect I completely destroyed him. His obsession with
me still exists to this day. Every few days I’ll get bombarded
with calls, emails and texts, all from him begging me to
come back. If he sees me getting to know a new guy, he
does everything in his power to ruin it. For me, this is
annoying and one of the downsides to making someone
obsessed however it is evidence of how extreme the
consequences of seduction can be.
Another reason is to get something you want out of a guy.

Infatuation breeds compliance. When you’re obsessed with
someone you’ll do anything to make them happy with you.
Guys are easily in uenced especially when they’re being
driven by seduction.
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The last reason why I purposefully invoke obsession in a

guy is to control them. Obsession makes you weak and
vulnerable. It debilitates your defence mechanisms and
leaves you serving someone other than yourself. Men have
hurt me so much in my life that being the one in control
brings me peace. And it has also made me realise how
weak they are. So much so that even when I have
completely shifted my priorities onto myself, my goals and
future, they’ll still be chasing me.
The Steps
Now let’s proceed with the steps and strategies for

obsession. The target types are your main foundation for
setting your traps. Once you’ve deduced what kind of
category they fall into, you can begin implementing the
following strategies:
Choose your target.

Make sure when you’re choosing a target you’re choosing
someone you’ve had time to initially observe. Have a brief
understanding of their character before you act. What type
of girls do they usually go for? What target type do they
most re ect? How easy will the seduction process be? Try
to gauge an understanding of them through the way people
describe them, but don’t ask too many questions so as not
to raise suspicions. Make sure you’ve established which
target category they fall into and understand how to
appease to them.
Get their attention.
It is important to be receptive and practice open body

language when trying to get the attention of a target. The
dark feminine woman can be intimidating but when trying to
get the attention of a target she is peaceful and wears a
broad smile. (Note this is only in the early stages to get their
attention and increase the likelihood of them coming to you.
When you need to establish boundaries or they’re
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The best way to gauge the interest of a target is to be
di erent and stand out. As a femme fatale, this would come
naturally to you anyway. You are mysterious, hot and
unattainable, but at the same time you are also fun,
charismatic and social. You’re a walking juxtaposition.
Depending on their type, exude an air of superiority,
importance (men tend to subconsciously compare
themselves / pay attention to intimidating women).
Do the opposite of what everyone else is doing. Don’t post

often on social media. The femme fatale is selective with
what she gives her time and attention to – so don’t be at
every function. But when you do show up, look your best
and feel your most con dent. Be confusing and
unpredictable, have unpopular opinions and make people
laugh. Good memories are facilitated by emotion. Want
someone to remember you? Look them directly in the eyes
and be bold. Speak openly and. Reveal little things about
yourself to make someone feel special. People are led by
their emotions, not rationale.
Be charismatic and build a friendship.

This is a necessary step in the seduction process as it is
what begins to disintegrate their walls. However, there are
some important things you need to keep in mind. Despite
the overtly irty and sexual nature of the femme fatale,
although you shouldn’t suppress your sex appeal, you
mustn’t irt with them at all at this stage. This is to ensure
that they cannot gauge your intentions and you can sustain
an aura of mystery and keep them uncertain.
Mirror their body language during conversation. This is

playing on a phenomenon that occurs in the human body
known as mirror neurons which illustrate closeness or
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empathy. This technique therefore is incredibly clever, as it

stimulates these feelings in the opposite person. Again,
make sure this is not obvious. Mimic the person a few
seconds after they’ve gotten into a position.
Use your own body language to subtly seduce. This can

be done by tilting your head slightly and leaning in to show
good listening skills; pointing your feet in their direction;
keeping your gestures and physical posture open and
keeping your mouth slightly open every so often. These are
all considered attractive subconsciously.
Listen well. An important trait for a seducer is being a good

listener. People’s favourite thing to talk about is themselves,
and it’s a way you can closely observe their behaviour. The
more you listen, the less you have to say about yourself too
sustaining the mystery. Ask them open-ended questions
and remove any judgement you may have.
Sell the fantasy.

This stage of the process is important. It is simple but not
easy. Before this stage ensure you are completely con dent
in your dark femininity and sensuality. You are the fantasy,
the prize. Believe it and demonstrate it and people’s
imaginations will ruin wild with ideas. Show little snippets of
your exciting life. Turn up to a small number of selective
events and wear your best out ts. Tell stories, be
charismatic, play the character. You can have complete fun
with this – it’s like telling a story.
The way you carry yourself is the way you will be

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If you want to be perceived as the mysterious, hot femme
fatale, you have to act the part. Be dreamy, romanticise your
life and be passionate. There are exceptions though. Turn
on the realism at serious moments unless you want to be
perceived as a terrible person. Timing is everything, suss
out situations and determine where and when to amp up the
magnetism.
Appeal to more than the physical.

Most seducers aim to rely on their physical appearance to
sell the fantasy. Although your appearance can help, this is
an amateur move. Suggest a higher power and illustrate a
belief in it. This can be for any religion or simply spirituality –
you have to show a dislike of the physical plane. Find a
connection between you and the target and milk it. Make
them feel like you’re the only person in the world who truly
understands their perspective. Put e ort in to educate
yourself in general and develop an open mind. The goal is to
appear superior intellectually than your counterparts (this
doesn’t necessarily mean in intelligence, but how you think
and the type of knowledge you know about). This elevates
the seduction to a point where they are completely unaware
that they’re under your spell – physical attraction is obvious
and playing with it to get what you want can raise suspicion.
But when someone is attracted to the way you think and
feels like you understand them completely? You’ve got them
in the perfect trap.
Create an association.
People psychologically associate you with di erent

characteristics, colours and environments without you even
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realising. How do you manipulate this to your advantage? If
people are going to associate you with certain things, you
might as well decide what they are. Give yourself certain
features so they indirectly associate you with certain traits.
Decide on the characteristic you want and work down. Want
to be associated with sexiness and seduction? Discuss
things that you consider sexy (things, books, lms) and wear
sexy things. Wear the colour red a lot as it is associated with
lust or wear black if you want to channel your dark
femininity and be associated with mystery/power. However,
don’t tell people what you are, act the part and let them
realise for themselves. Constantly mention the sexy, and
you’ll become it in their minds without them knowing.
Create an experience.
Their time with you has to be something to remember. It’s
about creating a fantasy, using emotions to drive their
experience and blurring the lines between real life and
illusion.
Strategically disappear to induce mystery.

Strategic absence is one of the most alluring behaviours of
the femme fatale. Keeping the upper hand is the only way to
lead the seduced and the only way to do this is by breeding
uncertainty. Calculated surprises cloud their vision making
the seduction process more di cult to escape. It makes you
one step ahead and leaves them incapable of predicting
your intentions. So as soon as people get comfortable with
your presence and know what to expect from you, taking a
small hiatus is what will bring back the intrigue. This is what
adds to your unpredictability and mystery. No one can ever
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be sure of what you’re doing, where you’re going and when
you’ll be back. This will also teach people to respect your
presence and value your time.
Make them feel as if they are important and the only

person you want/care about.
Instil hope through showing them non-verbal interest. Give
them ambiguous compliments but never ever directly state
how you feel about them or your intentions. Make sure your
attraction to them isn’t too obvious or obsessive – the point
is to make them unsure.
After a while, destroy their expectations by pulling back.

This is called pattern interrupt, where someone becomes
accustomed to a speci c thing or behaviour, but the pattern
is suddenly disrupted. How this works is as soon as they
start to be a little bit certain about your behaviour, you’ll
switch up and they’ll be forced back into uncertainty. You
can use this to help you emotionally detach from them also
– with every pull back use it to adjust and reprocess. Be
careful not to do the push-and- pull process to soon and to
sloppily – it all must be subtle. Pattern interrupt is what
makes them constantly wonder and obsess.
Blur the lines between hope and fear.

Pain and pleasure is the core of desire. We’ve already
clari ed that mixed signals and uncertainty is what
obsession feeds on. It breeds overthinking and every time
you alternate between each emotion you maintain an
intense obsessive cycle between you and the target.
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So how do you do this? First implement hope by
demonstrating interest & attraction but never verbal
con rming it. Be sensual, seductive but never give them too
much attention. Never say your intentions. Destroy this hope
by creating grief. After a period of things going well and
them getting too cosy, withdraw their pleasure. Deprive
them of what they want almost entirely, and they’ll fall to
your feet. But leave enough to tease them, just enough so
they’ll keep trying. Play with their hope.
Silence is a powerful thing. It both can make you appear

more con dent/sure of yourself, as well as breed insecurity
in others. When you pull back and fall silent they will believe
they were at fault. When the target does something wrong,
or something that would traditionally upset you, do not
react. Instead fall quiet and cold. When prompted, be
vague, say you’ll discuss the reason with him later. And then
when he asks you enough times tell him rmly but politely
that he irritated you with his behaviour. Hold back on giving
him any pleasure or warmth for a little while. You’ll notice
them doing everything they can to compensate for their
poor behaviour, as well as never doing it again. Their ego
will be on overdrive trying to win you back. You can also
turn on the coldness when you notice the target starting to
get to comfortable and relaxed with you. Silence overall
encourages people to step up their game and be on their
best behaviour again.
Using time to your advantage.

Take things slow with men. Use the time you’ve been
blessed with to analyse them, observe their behaviour, gain
an understanding of who they are. Don’t give them too
much too soon. The Femme Fatale is careful and calculated.
She doesn’t act on impulse. She carefully watches her prey
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and then, when the time is right, she strikes. Patience is
extremely important as well as remaining emotionally
detached from the person.
Be exclusive.
As a mysterious woman, it is integral to your aesthetic to
have an exclusive aura about you. Exclusivity represents the
elite and superiority. It also acts as a defence agent against
unsupervised negative energy, and by keeping your circle
small you protect yourself. Additionally, when others see
that you are selective with who you surround yourself with, it
makes them even more determined to get involved with you.
Destroying your prey
Combatting resistance is something you’ll also have to do

to overcome the target completely. Humans can naturally be
resistant to seduction if they feel like you’re either 1) not
their type or 2) scared of change. This is perfectly ne and is
a natural part of the process. In order to respond to this, just
be patient. In fact, sometimes you want to conjure tension
to stimulate desire. Creating a forbidden romance is the
best kind of resistance. Insuiating a sexual or romantic
tension that cannot be ful lled increases desire – everyone
wants what they can’t have so if you convince them that you
can’t be theirs, they’ll want you 10x more.
Get them to do anything you want by using reverse

psychology and calculated disdain.
Reverse psychology is when you convince someone to do
something by telling them to the opposite. It’s also known

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as strategic self anti-conformity and is a popular
manipulation tactic. This can be helpful or harmful, but using
this to your advantage will allow you to get exactly what you
want from men. The normalisation of the term “reverse
psychology” has led people to be too conspicuous with it,
reducing its e ect. You cannot be too obvious when doing
this as the minute you make them suspicious they will raise
their guard. The trick is to rely on one of two voice tones:
irty & seductive or nonchalant. You can also manipulate
their actions by becoming immediately cold when they don’t
do what you want them to do, however this only works
when they’re deep in their obsession with you. Use this
wisely and not too generously.
In ict insecurity.
Insecurity is one of the most powerful seduction
components. Why? Because the people we most want to
impress are those who make us feel the most insecure.
When you go from being complimented, paid attention to
and made to feel special by someone and then they make
you feel the complete opposite, it hurts. Then, once they
soothe your insecurities, feed your ego, you start to feel
better, seeing this as a sign that they truly want and adore
you. But then the cycle continues and you’re completely
destroyed, over and over again.
Making your target feel insecure is the part of the process

where their emotions take the forefront, preventing them to
make rational decisions and breeding their obsession with
you.
How do you make them insecure? First you must nd what

they are insecure about. People do not overtly say what
they are insecure about, so you have to infer this from their
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behaviour. This can be deduced from their body language
and if they exhibit defensiveness about a certain topic.
For example, if someone is completely happy with their

dress sense, when someone insults it they’ll laugh it o .
However, if they are insecure about it, you’ll see through
their tone and body language a slight shift. They’ll get
defensive. Observation is the only way you’ll be able to
gure these things out so you have to pay attention.
Next, you have to nd a connection between you and their

insecurity and use this to trigger it. For example, if they are
insecure about you leaving them, hint at it playfully.
Immediately after this you must soothe this burn by

suggesting the exact opposite. Give them hope, e.g. by
telling them you’ll never leave or abandon them. This begins
the cycle of validation. By creating this cycle you create an
environment where you control how good they feel. They’ll
go mad trying to impress you.
Make sure the digs aren’t too obvious otherwise they’ll be

confrontational. Act as if you’re joking, as if you haven’t
noticed this is something they’re insecure about.
Keep them at an emotional distance.

Never commit to them emotionally and the second they
think they’ve seduced you, immediately withdraw and turn
on the cold switch. Fluctuate between how much of yourself
you give to them. Never give too much or too little. You have
to make them scared of losing you. People don’t value what
they think will last forever. If you get in an argument with
them and they threaten to leave/stop talking to, encourage
them. This will communicate your independence and the
fact you don’t need them.
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Leave them at their most happiest.
If you want to sustain their obsession and desire for you
forever you have to leave at some point to inculcate the
ultimate trap: keeping their locked in you seduction forever.
When you’ve had them wrapped around your nger for a
certain amount of time (I recommend a year) and have
gotten all that you want out of them, showcase their desires
before their very eyes. Give them one last taste of a future
with you, make them believe they nally have it. Once
they’re certain, pull away and leave them. Go completely
ghost. Do this and you will have successfully conquered
them, leaving them hypnotised forever.
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How to heal from a breakup
(and get your ex back)
If you’re reading this chapter, I’m assuming one of two

situations: either it is because you got dumped and you
want your ex to realise that you’re the one for them and take
you back; or you broke up with someone and now they
won’t take you back. There’s no shame in either however for
this I will be focusing on the primary scenario. I’ve been
dumped several times – but after following these steps and
taking this seriously I got several exes to run back. By the
end of it, I didn’t even take half of them back anyway.
These steps won’t just help you to get an ex back who

dumped you but will also help you to recentre, improve and
enhance your life after a breakup. It will help you to heal
quickly, re ect
on the situation and decide if you even want them back.

And the ultimate glow up is a mental glow up if you ask me.
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e Steps
1. No Contact Period.
Immediately after you get dumped, cut o all contact from
your ex. Do not text, call or grovel with them. Act completely
content with their decision and do not show them any
vulnerability. Be mature about things and if you can, end on
a good note. From this you will begin the no contact
period.
What Is The No Contact Period?

The no-contact period is a period of 30 days where you
completely ignore and stop speaking to your ex. Once the
relationship has ended and they’ve dumped you, you stop
speaking to them
completely. You don’t reach out, you unfollow them on all

socials and you stop posting on social media. This is only
for a month.
This is proven to make exes see you in a better light. During

a period of separation, people forget the bad memories.
They forget the reason they dumped you and instead
reminisce on the good times. Taking time away gives them a
chance to remember why they loved you and forget where it
went wrong.
This no-contact period also allows you to begin Project

Rejuvenation. By not posting on social media this leaves
him wondering what you’re doing, but also enables you to
enhance yourself and your world behind the scenes. Once
no contact has ended he will be met with a whole new,
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improved version of yourself that is doing amazing without
him.
2. Begin Project Rejuvenation.

During the 30 days of no contact, you will place all focus
onto yourself. You will invest in yourself using the methods
given previously. You will create a vision board, morning &
night routines, and follow them strictly. You will reconnect
with friends and make new ones. You’ll go out when you
want and meet new people. But you won’t post it where he
can see it.
3. Start a new hobby.

This hobby can be anything in the world as long as it keeps
you busy. There are two reasons for this. First, the
opposition to sexual and romantic energy is creative energy.
So therefore, in the healing process it is integral to do
something creative to replace the romantic void. Secondly,
by having something that keeps you busy and entertained
that isn’t another person,
it will enable you to detach from other people as you are the
one making yourself happy. Hobbies also make you more
attractive – they show you’re interested in something other
than men.
4. Practise meditation
Mediation, saying a rmations and listening to dark feminine

subliminals. These will directly target your subconscious to
change your self-concept. This way, if and when you do
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come into contact with your ex again they’ll be introduced

to a completely new version of yourself: the femme fatale.  
5. Emotional Purge
Release your ager and purge your emotions from the
breakup. Although you may not be completely healed, make
sure that by the end of the no contact period you are more
emotionally stable and secure than you were at the start.
How Do You Emotionally Purge From A Breakup?

Releasing your rage, sadness and heartbreak freely is a key
characteristic of the dark feminine woman. The dark
feminine woman is mature, but she feels her emotions in its
entirety. The di erence between her and an emotionally
unstable woman is she has control over her emotions but
doesn’t let her emotions control her. You can do this through
cathartic art, meditation and writing letters that you’ll never
send.
6. Take yourself on three dates.

One of the dates will be with a friend you haven’t spoken to
in a while, one will be with a family member and one will be
solo.
7. After the 30 Days

When the 30 days are up this means two things. The rst
means that you can reply to a text or call from your ex from
this point forwards. It also means that you can now start
posting on social media. After a long period of time of not
hearing from you, not knowing what or how you’re doing,
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when you return make sure it is good. Post while still
retaining your mystery. It will turn your ex mad.  
8. Decentre your ex from your mind and life.

Although this is a time you can now communicate with
them, you need to remain emotionally detached and patient.
You need to wait for them to come to you (and believe me
they will). Men always come back at some point however
the waiting will be the hardest part. If they dumped you it is
integral to not be the one to message them rst as they
need to feel like they’re initiating things. Use the law of
assumption to help with this. Mentally move on from the
situation and if you’re ready, onto other people. Having
options is something that will bene t you in the long run
regardless.
9. When he returns.
When he returns (and he will) put your seduction steps into
action. This is why emotional detachment is so important:
you cannot see your ex as the man who loved/hurt you.
Instead, you have to metamorphosise him into your target,
your prey otherwise you will not conduct the seduction
process properly.
If you want to destroy your ex, carry out the seduction

process until the very end.
If you want to get back with them, eliminate the last two
stages of the process. Instead mirror their behaviour. Use
mirroring to disarm and manipulate. In other words, match
their energy. If your ex has other options, you must get other
options too. If you and your ex have agreed to be exclusive,
respect that and be loyal. However the instant they

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disrespect you or show signs of disloyalty, proceed to

conquer them completely until they surrender. If they aren’t
showing signs of commitment, leave. They’ll come running
back.
Conclusion
These tips and techniques will leave you fully prepared for
your rst seduction/manipulation process, starting you o
on your femme fatale journey.
Do not be disheartened if it takes you a while to learn these

tricks and perfect them – mastery is a skill that develops
over time and soon you’ll be able to operate with ease
without reconsulting the book.
Yours sincerely,  
Miss Femme Fatale <3
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Phase One: Inner Being 9

Part One: Say Hello To Your Dark Side 14

Part Two: Investing in yourself 28

Phase two: Seduction and Manipulation 35

6. THE ONE THAT IS SCARED OF COMMITMENT 46

How to heal from a breakup (and get your ex back) 62

7. After the 30 Days 65

I’d had my heart broken four times. I had been cheated on

I wanted to be popular, sexy and con dent. But I just didn’t

I found myself comparing myself to the other beautiful

On my birthday last year I realised this had to change.

For 6 months I engrossed myself in learning manipulation

I started going out to certain places and getting pulled up by

This ebook is a collection of what I’ve learnt. How to

It also contains intense tactics to make a man obsessed

and this may come across cruel to some people. In my

Learning how to seduce, manipulate and conquer isn’t just

A lot of women choose to only acknowledge their light

the ability to seduce and manipulate, and even manifest

Additionally, some women are completely controlled by their

The trick is to access your dark femininity and control it

Dark Feminine Energy

Do not underestimate the divine feminine energy you

How to know if you haven’t tapped into your dark feminine

• Experiencing shame and self-doubt?

• Struggling with repressed emotions, desires and trauma?

• Emotionally unstable (not in control of the release of your

• Unable to predict the behaviours of those around you?

• Wanting the ability to seduce and manipulate but unable

• Quick to lose friends and unable to sustain positive

• Struggle to be understood by others?

We’ve all been there.

For so many years of my life I struggled. Struggled to be

What does dark femininity look like?

Dark feminism is not cruelty, evil and bitterness. It

If you want to be able to control men and make them

Ancient deities that represented dark feminine energy:

Modern women that channel dark feminine energy:

The wild seduction that comes from dark femininity too is

Likewise, Rihanna is a gure who has used her dark

Dark feminine energy is also a source of healing. Tapping

Being madly in love with someone who cheated on me

Carl Jung, a depth psychologist, conceived the idea of a

Most often, we tend to suppress and feel shame towards

Shadow work involves getting in touch with the ‘dark side’

origins. Exiling certain parts of yourself does not give you

Connecting with your shadow enables you to become fully

You will need to embark on a spiritual and emotional

designed to bring forth repressed emotions and begin

2. What do I not love about myself?

b. How can I change this/learn to accept it?

3. What makes me feel jealous?

4. What things are triggers for you?

6. What is a promise you have made to yourself that you

7. What is an emotion I like to avoid?

a. Why do I avoid it?

b. What can I do to express this emotion in a healthy