The

Passion Patch:
Subtle Touch
Techniques That
Arouse Her Body
Now my wife walks right up to me,
6lts her head up, closes her eyes
and waits for me to kiss her eyelids!
Phil, one of the customers of my private online program1 that helps married men
turn their wives back on wrote that to me.
He was so excited. For the rst @me in all their years of marriage, his wife Rhonda
was taking the ini*a*ve to be aec*onate.
In the last year, theyve had more touchy-feely moments than in the rst 10
years of their marriage. The stealth seduc@on touch tricks I gave Phil worked.
Within weeks of subtly touching her body, his wife became more animated, more
engaged with him than ever before. She stopped pushing him away.

Revive Her Drive is an online program that shows men how to turn on their wives to want more
passionate sex again.

Now they snuggle on the couch at night and Rhonda has actually been taking o
her nightgown and cuddling him in the nude before Phil gets up to go to work.
This is huge progress for a couple who were like childhood friends instead of a
passionate married couple.

"Your descriptions of the small of her back and the

ultimate hug sparked visual memories of early
courtship and some of my favorite bonding moments.
The Passion Patch is well worth the $7 spend."
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Brian H.
Which Touch Area Will Turn Your Wife On?
Hi, Im Susan BraNon and my lifes work is helping men
bring out the passion in their wives.

Im glad to see that youve taken the rst step on what

can be a delighOully pleasurable process of opening
your woman to her natural sexuality.
The goal of this @ny liNle eBook is to give you the rst
taste of success in wooing your wife again. My
ul@mate goal is to earn your trust so that I can show
you how you can have even be3er sex together than
when you were rst da@ng.
Youre going to nd the places and ways your wife
loves to be touched. She will thrill to your touch again Susan Bratton, Creator of
Revive Her Drive
when you do The Passion Patch.
Frequent physical in@macy is vital for your health and well-being. Youll live longer,
give more of your giSs to the world and enjoy a happier life if you and your wife
have frequent sensual experiences that lead to orgasmic pleasure.
You are doing this as much for her health and well being as for yours. And

everything in this book is female-friendly. I want her to love you more because
you have taken the @me to open her like a ower for you.

You BOTH Deserve This Pleasure

Orgasm is one of the ways your body relaxes the tension that builds up from the
work of living a full, rich life. Climaxes rejuvenate and reboot your system so you
have the reserves to go out and conquer the world. Both you and your wife need
this pleasure release. But so many issues, including shame, fear, ignorance, pain
and bad health can cover up desire.
Crea@ng ease around sex and physical in@macy builds over @me. And even
cuddling and holding hands releases the love chemicals that fuel her desire for
you.

Read This Warning First!

I know youre ready to get going but I want to give you a word of warning.
For the most success with The Passion Patch, starEng small and going slowly will
have a greater posi@ve impact than trying to rush her into sex.
The Passion Patch is going to show you the rst step in moving your woman from
shut down and turned o into a lusty, sensual woman who cannot keep her hands
o of you.
This is step one.
Seduc@on is an escala@on.
First you romance her, then you awaken her sensual body, then you seduce her
and then you use advanced sexual mastery techniques that heighten her pleasure
so she wants to be with you more oSen and try new things in the bedroom.
The Passion Patch is a shortcut that combines step one romance with step
two, awakening her sensual body.
These romance techniques are targeted missiles. Youll be giving her some of the
romance she needs to warm to you. And these touch tricks will work very subtly

to warm her body up sexually without her being directly aware of the fact that
you are arousing her.

What These Touch Techniques Will Do

You are going around her defenses.

You are lowering her stress and calming her down. I call this grounding her.
You will be touching her in ways that connect you together limbically. Her limbic
system is her emo@onal, rather than ra@onal mind.
There are three important pieces of advice I want you to know BEFORE you lay a
hand on her, please.
1) Try NOT to get her to react at rst.
2) The angle from which you approach her is important.
3) There is a specic way I want you to use your touch for maximum eec@veness.

Try NOT To Get A ReacEon

Because you are using these touch techniques as a way to remind her body that
she likes, wants and needs physical connec@on, you want to y under the radar
un@l you see her coming to you for touch like Phil did with his kisses on Rhondas
eyelids.
I know you are dying for her to show you SHE WANTS YOU.
And she will.
But in the beginning, check your ego at the door. Use these touch techniques in an
understated way. Touch her the way I tell you to in The Passion Patch but do not
demand or expect her to overtly respond.
You have to trust me that she will come to you sooner if you just let her body feel
the touches while her brain is hardly aware that you touched her.
Youll start with very ee@ng touches.

You get her body wan@ng more.

Very soon you will get plenty of reac@on from her if you keep up a steady and very
subtle pace of touch.
Thats how touch works. The more you get the more you want.
Touch is addic@ve.
Make this an ero@c adventure, not a chore or a checklist.

The Angle Of Approach

This is weird. But its true. Ive seen it play out in couple aSer couple.
Heres why the angle of approach is important and how it works.
Some people like to be approached by another person head-on. Others like to be
approached from behind. S@ll others prefer the leS or right side.
I, for example, dislike it when my husband comes straight at my face with his lips
puckered up.
Dont get me wrong. I adore kissing my man. But for some reason, I like it when he
approaches me from my right side and then turns to kiss me. It puts me at ease.
The direct approach is a liNle too
confron@ng for me.
You may already have gured this out
about your wife. Dont ask her
outright, Hey, honey. Do you want
me to try my stealth romance touch
tricks on your behind?
No, no, Romeo.
You are the king of understatement
for now, OK?

Remember, the more stealth you play this, the more pleasurable you are making it
for her.
Just keep a keen eye. As you try these dierent touch techniques, approach her
from the front and both sides. Save the approach from behind for when shes
ac@vely coming to you for aec@on and she wont be surprised by a sneak
aNack which might set you back. The rear approach is the least common
preference. . . as you can imagine.
Once you get a sense of how she likes to be approached youll be even more
eec@ve at delivering touch in the way her body most likes it.
Just pay aNen@on and make mental notes.

The Way To Touch Her

My long-@me mentor, Dr. Pad Taylor wrote an eBook called, Touch For Rapture in
which she teaches lovers HOW to touch for maximum mutual pleasure.
When you touch for rapture, youre touching in a way that feels good to you.
Instead of touching in the way you think its going to feel good for her.
It turns out that selsh touch - touch for the sheer pleasure it brings you to touch -
is actually a more ero@c way of touching than touching for eect.
How would you touch your wifes thigh if you were to do it for purely selsh
delight?
Use THAT touch with these techniques.
In all these Touch Tricks, I want you to touch your wife the way you did when you
rst met her and were feeling her for the rst @me.
Dont be ashamed of your desire. And dont make a show of it either. Ill tell you in
each trick how to do it.

So when you touch her, do it for the joy you get from the feeling in your ngers.
Touch her in a way that gives you an erec@on. Enjoy her silky soSness.
When you stop touching her to give her pleasure or to get a reac@on, her body
will feel your excitement. That will turn her on faster.

The Magic of Catch & Release

I rst learned this magic trick from a group of pick up ar@sts. Theyd go out to a
bar and try to get the most beau@ful girl to go home with them.
The preNy girls are the hardest to pick up because they have the greatest choice
of poten@al men - everyone wants the preNy girl.
So how does an ugly guy get a hot babe?
Catch and Release.
You engage her, charm her and then let her go.
Humans are wired to want desperately what they cannot have.
If hot blondie knows she can have any man in the bar, she wants the one that
plays hard to get.
You, dear man, are going to play hard to get.
You are going to go in for an oh-so-subtle touch, land the touch, then move away.
Do not hang around like a hound dog wai@ng for scraps. Move along. Do
something construc@ve and masculine. That will really get her going for you!
Honestly, Im giddy wri@ng this for you right now. Its so exci@ng when you
combine the right angle of approach with a panty-wedng touch and then you
walk away.
Oh, yeah!

The Touch Tricks

Cheeks, eyelids and forehead, the nape of her neck, stroking her hair, the small of
her back, knee pressure, wrist circling, hand pumps and foot rubs are the slippery
slope to all the sex you can handle.
Lets break it down.
Because every woman is dierent means your gals body is going to prefer some of
these over others. But the more of these you try, the faster shes going to get
aroused.
Try one or two a day to start.
Remember, you dont want to her say, Hey, what are you doing? Or worse, be
ham-handed and have her move away from you.
These touch techniques, done right, will warm her body up for you so that you can
signicantly increase the amount of aec@on and lovemaking you two are having.

Touch Techniques
Cheeks
Stroke her cheek lightly with the back of your ngers. Look her in
the eyes when you do it. Theres no need to say anything. . .
When you nd the opportunity, simply let the slight brush of your
ngers trail across her face and then release the moment and go
about your business. This is a good trick when shes focused on a
task.

Eyelids and Forehead

Instead of a direct kiss on the lips, give your lady a
kiss on her forehead or her eyelids. This is a kind of
daddy aec@on. Its both masculine and
nurturing. You can approach her from the front,
side or from behind if shes seated.
Back of Neck
The neck is very erogenous for a woman. Remember the
hickeys you got and gave in high school? Her neck is
exquisitely sensual. If you reach your hand under her hair
at the nape of her neck and squeeze and release, it will
arouse her. Grab a handful of her hair and squeeze it
gently, exer@ng a @ny bit of pull and release. Later, you
can pull her toward you for a kiss.

Neck Rub
Working out the kinks in her neck will open up her throat
and jaw, increasing her ability to feel her desire. You want
your woman all loose and relaxed and low back and neck
are the two most powerful places you can touch to get
her feeling relaxed in her body again so you can take her
into higher states of arousal. See how ero@c you can
make her neck massage.

Hair Stroke
Some women have very styled hair and dont like their
hair messed up. If thats the case, just take a lock of hair
and play with it between your ngers. You can also enjoy
the fragrance of her hair simply by taking in the smell.
Most women love their hair touched, stroked and even
brushed.
If shes open to you touching her hair, start with the at
of your palm near the crown of her head and stroke down.
Do this just once to start. If her body responds nicely, you may want to give her a
series of 2-3 strokes when youre sidng next to her.
As with all hair, stroking down, with the nap, instead of against it, is most
erogenous.

The Small of Her Back

This is a major touch technique. By pudng your
hand on the small of her back, you are claiming
her. You can guide her through a door or gently
move her body from one place to another with
your hand. This is one of those tricks that really
works to get a woman turned on. Its very
caveman - very masculine for you to lead her or
guide her.
Put a rm hand on the small of her back whenever the opportunity presents itself.
Gedng doors for her is both sexy and gives you the chance to guide her by the
lower back.

Wrist Circling
Idly circle and then pump your ngers around her wrist.
Do it without looking like you are even paying aNen@on.
Perhaps while youre driving, or sidng next to her in bed
or on the couch, you can circle her wrist and give her a
few pumps. This sends electrical signals through her
nerves that get her body feeling your masculine strength.

Hand Pumps
Hold her hand in yours, ngers entwined or her hand
res@ng in yours with both your palm and hers together.
Pump her hand with yours by squeezing lightly and
rhythmically. Pulsing will arouse her body because this
ac@on mirrors a series of orgasmic contrac@ons. This is
one of the most stealth touch tricks for arousal. Ancient
Chinese sexual masters say pumping your womans hand
can increase her desire by 4X.
Hand-holding in general is a very sexual experience for a woman. First, it makes
her feel feminine and perceive you as more masculine. That creates magne@sm
that enhances her natural arousal systems.
One way to 4X her turn-on is to hold her hand behind her, pressed against the
small of her back while you pump it. When you do this around other people but
dont let anyone see, its even more arousing for her. The secret squeeze is highly
ero@c.

Knee and Thigh Pressure

Similar to claiming her when you put your hand on
the small of her back and guide her, res@ng your
hand protec@vely on her knee or the top of her
thigh will be a turn on for her body. This gesture
says, You are my woman. Very ero@c.
Give her knee a liNle squeeze before you release.

Foot Rubs
If you only knew how much tension a foot rub releases
for a woman, youd be grabbing her feet all the @me!
How can she get aroused if her feet hurt?
A great way to be stealth about foot rubs are to sit
down beside her when shes watching TV or talking on
the phone and just pick up a foot and start playing with
it. Remember to touch her for rapture, not eect. Enjoy
feeling her feet and think about how sexy she is as you
do it. Her body will get your message.
Once youve condi@oned her to enjoy these touches from you, its @me to move
into more ero@c and sexual touch.
The perfect bridge from stealth touch to outright physical seduc@on is this hug. I
call it, The Best Hug In The World, because it pulls you two together into a state
of pure contentment.
This hug will ground her and let her release her anxiety.
This hug will make her want you to be close.
This hug is addic@ve.

Give her The Best Hug In The World

Try this with your lady when you are lying in bed or on the sofa together.

I never thought about how I hugged my woman.

Thanks for these specic instruc<ons. I posted them on my mirror.
Ma@ D.
Hold her @ght, with both of your arms wrapped around her, securely anchoring
her.
Pull her close to you abdomen to abdomen, heart to heart and then hold
her.
Dont hold her too @ght, but hold her @ght enough that when she relaxes, she can
feel that you really have her safe.
Dont let go.
Ask her to relax fully in your arms.
Tell her you are not going to let go un@l she asks you to.
Ask her to relax for you again.
Tell her you love her. Tell her shes your precious angel.
Tell her you are so glad you are sharing your life with her. Tell her whatever is real
for you.
As she relaxes, remind her that youve got her, and squeeze her just a liNle more
@ghtly.
Keep a medium and constant amount pressure on her everywhere your body is
touching hers.
Dont let go.
Dont release her.
Dont open your arms.
Encourage her to feel you holding her.
Whisper in her ear in a low, soothing voice your request that she allow herself to
relax and feel held by you.
As she relaxes, just keep holding her.
Ask her to relax.
Ask her to just let it all go.
Remind her that you have her completely.

And no maNer what you do, do not ease up on the sweet embrace un@l she asks
you to.
This strong, solid, long hug may be the best shes ever goNen.
Because heres what happens in most hugs. The minute she relaxes, he thinks its a
signal to let go.
Dont let go. Just let her melt in your arms.
And as youre holding her, think about how much you love this sassy, sweet,
delicate, kick-buN creature.
And ll her with love and aec@on.
Breathe with her.
Match her breath and then slowly deepen your breaths and breathe her.
Set the pace of the breathing so her breath slows and deepens and your hearts
beat as one.
If you do this correctly, she may be able to truly let go for the rst @me in her life
and completely relax.
You get bonus points if she drools a liNle.
This reboot will relax her almost as well as an orgasm.
And once shes this relaxed, her orgasms will be the best youve ever given her.
Feel free to give her plenty of instruc@on before you start, so she knows you will
not let go.
So she knows you are encouraging her to feel really held by her man.
Now that is MANLY.

Im a testimony to this hug. I love hugging my woman. It

worked every time, feeling her breathing next to me. Not
letting go and whispering in her ear was magic. . . So it truly
works. Sugarfoot

Now Im kicking myself for all those missed opportunities.

I now know they were begging me to do exactly what you

described! Pete
Romance Tricks That Work Like Magic
Once shes leaning in to have more touch you can begin giving her roman@c
experiences that will further arouse her body. Anything that uses her sense of
smell, vision, touch or hearing are the best kind of roman@c gestures to create
more in@mate connec@on. Here are some easy ideas that will arouse her further:
1. Put on music at home or sing along with her in the car.
2. Create a magical feeling in your bedroom with soS ligh@ng and just the right
temperature for her and then hold her and hug her without asking for more.
3. Take a bath together, go swimming or get in a hot tub.
4. Give her owers that smell good, perfume she loves, a soS and sweetly sensual
nigh@e for bed (or even lingerie if shes the kind of woman who would
appreciate it.)
5. Feed her gourmet chocolate with her eyes closed.

The ONE Place To Touch Her

Congratula@ons! Now you have not just one, but TEN places to touch and arouse
your lady. Keep your pace steady and try them all. Remember that you do not
want to get a reac@on at rst. Touch her for rapture, not for eect - like you would
touch her solely for your own pleasure. And nally, pay aNen@on to the way you
approach her before you touch her.
No@ce her biofeedback. What is her body telling you? Keep a keen eye and youll
begin to escalate from there.
Youve taken the rst step to re-create spontaneous, wild and passionate sex with
your lady. Im proud of you for being the kind of man that wants to pleasure his
woman and is willing to take the @me to unlock her libido.
I wish you both much pleasure.
Email me any@me you have ques@ons.
[email protected]

Warmly,
Susan Bratton
CEO
Personal Life Media, Inc.
Creator of Revive Her Drive

Personal Life Media, Inc. 2013

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By Susan Bratton

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