MODULE 12 - Less Stress, More Care
MODULE 12 - Less Stress, More Care
MODULE 12 - Less Stress, More Care
LESSON OBJECTIVES
At the end of this lesson, you should be able to:
1. explain the effects of stress to one's health;
2. examine cultural dimension of stress and coping; and
3. design a self-care plan.
LEARNING CONTENT
INTRODUCTION
The American Psychological Association (2017) has these statements about stress: "Stress is
often described as a feeling of being overwhelmed, worried, or run-down. Stress can affect
people of all ages, genders, and circumstances and can lead to both physical and
psychological health issues. By definition, stress is any uncomfortable 'emotional experience
accompanied by predictable biochemical, physiological, and behavioral changes.' Some stress
can be beneficial at times, producing a boost that provides the drive and energy to help
people get through situations like exams or work deadlines. However, an extreme amount of
stress can have health consequences and adversely affect the immune, cardiovascular,
neuroendocrine and central nervous systems."
Since stress is inevitable to life, we have to learn how to handle and cope up with it. More so,
we have to be familiar with other approach to a healthy lifestyle, which is self-care.
ABSTRACTION
Stress and Human Response
The American Institute of Stress (AIS) has distinguished different •types of stress and the
human response to it.
Hans Selye defined stress as the body's nonspecific response to any demand, whether it is
caused by or results in pleasant or unpleasant stimuli. It is essential to differentiate between
the unpleasant or harmful variety of stress termed distress, which often connotes disease, and
eustress, which often connotes euphoria. Eustress is stress in daily life that has positive
connotations, such as marriage, promotion, baby, winning money, new friends, and
graduation. On the other hand, distress is stress in daily life that has negative connotations
such as divorce, punishment, injury, negative feelings, financial problems, and work
difficulties (AIS 2017).
During both eustress and distress, the body undergoes virtually the same nonspecific
responses to the various—positive or negative stimuli acting upon it. However, eustress
causes much less damage than distress. This demonstrates conclusively that it is how an
individual accepts stress that determines ultimately whether the person can adapt successfully
to change (AIS 2017).
Selye hypothesized a general adaptation or stress syndrome. This general stress syndrome
affects the whole body, Stress always manifests itself by a syndrome, a sum of changes, and
not by simply one change (AIS 2017).
Stress diseases are maladies caused principally by errors in the body's general adaptation
process. They will not occur when all the body's regulatory processes are properly checked
and balanced. They will not develop when adaptation is facilitated by improved perception
and interpretation. The biggest problems with derailing the general stress syndrome and
causing disease is an absolute excess, deficiency, or disequilibrium in the amount of adaptive
hormones. For example, corticoids, Adrenocorticotropic Hormone (ACTH), and growth
hormones are produced during stress. Unfortunately, if stress is induced chronically, our
defense response lowers its resistance since fewer antibodies are produced and an
inflammatory response dwindles (AIS 2017).
In the article "Understanding Stress Response" of the Health Harvard Journal (2017), it
further discussed chronic stress and human body response:
"Chronic stress is unpleasant, even when it is transient. A stressful situation—whether
something environmental, such as a looming work deadline, or psychological, such as
persistent worry about losing a job—can trigger a cascade of stress hormones that produce
well-orchestrated physiological changes. A stressful incident can make the heart pound and
breathing quicken. Muscles tense and beads of sweat appear."
This combination of reactions to stress is also known as the "fight-or-flight" response
because it evolved as a survival mechanism enabling people and other mammals to react
quickly to life-threatening situations. The carefully orchestrated yet near-instantaneous
sequence of hormonal changes and physiological responses helps someone to fight the threat
off or flee to safety. Unfortunately, the body can also overreact to stressors that are not life-
threatening, such as traffic jams, work pressure, and family difficulties. Over time, repeated
activation of the stress response takes a toll on the body. Research suggests that chronic stress
contributes to high blood pressure, promotes the formation of artery-clogging deposits, and
causes brain changes that may contribute to anxiety, depression, and addiction. More
preliminary research suggests that chronic stress may also contribute to obesity, both through
direct mechanisms (causing people to eat more) or indirectly (decreasing sleep and exercise)
(Health Harvard 2017).
The stress response begins in the brain. When someone confronts an oncoming car or
other danger, the eyes or ears (or both) send the information to the amygdala, an area of the
brain that contributes to emotional processing. The amygdala interprets the images and
sounds. When it perceives danger, it instantly sends a distress signal to the hypothalamus
(Health Harvard 2017).
When someone experiences a stressful event, the amygdala, an area of the brain that
contributes to emotional processing, sends a distress signal to the hypothalamus. This area of
the brain functions like a command center, communicating with the rest of the body through
the nervous system so that the person has the energy to fight or flee. (Health Harvard 2017).
The hypothalamus is a bit like a command center. This area of the brain communicates
with the rest of the body through the autonomic nervous system, which controls involuntary
body functions like breathing, blood pressure, heartbeat, and the dilation or constriction of
key blood vessels and small airways in the lungs called bronchioles. The autonomic nervous
system has two components, the sympathetic nervous system and the parasympathetic
nervous system. The sympathetic nervous system functions like a gas pedal in a car. It
triggers the fightor-flight response, providing the body with burst of energy so that it can
respond to perceived dangers. The parasympathetic nervous system acts like a brake. It
promotes the "rest and digest" response that calms the body down after the danger has passed
(Health Harvard 2017).
After the amygdala sends a distress signal, the hypothalamus aOtivates the sympathetic
nervous system by sending signals through the autonomic nerves to the adrenal glands. These
glands respond by pumping the hormone epinephrine (also known as adrenaline) into the
bloodstream. As epinephrine circulates through the body, it brings on a number of
physiological changes. The heart beats faster than normal, pushing blood to the muscles,
heart, and other vital organs. Pulse rate and blood pressure go up. The person undergoing
these changes also starts to breathe more rapidly. Small airways in the lungs open wide. This
way, the lungs can take in as much oxygen as possible with each breath. Extra oxygen is sent
to the brain, increasing alertness. Sight, hearing, and other senses become sharper.
Meanwhile, epinephrine triggers the release of blood sugar (glucose) and fats from temporary
storage sites in the body. These nutrients flood into the bloodstream, supplying energy to all
parts of the body (Health Harvard 2017).
All of these changes happen so quickly that people are not aware of them. In fact, the
wiring is so efficient that the amygdala and hypothalamus start this cascade even before the
brain's visual centers have had a chance to fully process what is happening. That is why
people are able to jump out of the path of an incoming car even before they think about what
they are doing. As the initial surge of epinephrine subsides, the hypothalamus activates the
second component of the stress response system known as the hypothalamic pituitary adrenal
(HPA) axis. This network consists of the hypothalamus, the pituitary gland, and the adrenal
glands. The HPA axis relies on a series of hormonal signals to keep the sympathetic nervous
system— the "gas pedal"—pressed down. If the brain continues to perceive something as
dangerous, the hypothalamus releases corticotropinreleasing hormone (CRH), which travels
to the pituitary gland, triggering the release of ACTH. This hormone travels to the adrenal
glands, prompting them to release cortisol. The body thus stays revved up and on high alert.
When the threat passes, cortisol levels fall. The parasympathetic nervous system—the
"brake"— then dampens the stress response (Health Harvard 2017).
Persistent epinephrine surges can damage blood vessels and arteries, increasing blood
pressure and raising risk of heart attacks or strokes. Elevated cortisol levels create
physiological changes that help to replenish the body's energy stores that are depleted during
the stress response. But they inadvertently contribute to the buildup of fat tissue and to weight
gain. For example, cortisol increases appetite, so that people will want to eat more to obtain
extra energy. It also increases storage of unused nutrients as fat. Chronic low-level stress
keeps the HPA axis activated, much like a motor that is idling too high for too long. After a
while, this has an effect on the body that contributes to the health problems associated with
chronic stress (Health Harvard 2017).
Self-care Therapy
A positive way to counter stress is self-care therapy. Nancy Apperson (2008) of Northern
Illinois University has provided steps for self-care:
Stop, breathe, and tell yourself: "This is hard and / will get through this one step at a time."
During an unexpected event or crisis, we are faced with dealing with a new reality and it
takes time to incorporate what happened into our everyday lives. Identify the steps you need
to take first, write them down, and focus on each step one at a time. If you look at everything
you have to do, you will become ovenNhelmed. Remember you can only do one thing at a
time and focus exclusively on that one thing.
Acknowledge to yourself what you are feeling. All feelings are normal so accept whatever
you are feeling. Once you recognize, name, and accept your feelings, you feel less out of
control. You can then find a comfortable place to express your feelings. During periods of
extreme stress and grief, it is very hard to hold back your feelings, particularly your tears and
anger. This is normal so describe this as grieving or sadness or anger. You are not falling
apart. You are grieving or feeling angry or sad. It is important during this time of intense
feelings to own your feelings and NOT hurt yourself or lash out at someone else.
Find someone who listens and is accepting. You do not need advice. You need to be heard.
Sharing our story is how we begin to accept whatever happened and integrate it into our new
reality. It may be that you just need to let go of your expectations of how things should be
and talking about your feelings and beliefs is the beginning of that process.
Maintain your normal routine as much as possible. Making everyday decisions—deciding to
get dressed, doing the dishes, or going to work—gives you a sense of control and feels
comforting as it is a familiar activity. Be realistic with what you can do and remember
everything right now will take you longer to do. Avoid making major decisions based on the
stress you feel right now.
Allow plenty of time for a task. You will not be as productive as you normally are. Accept
how much you are able to do right now and recognize it will not be this way forever. During
periods of extreme stress, prolonged stress, or after a crisis, your ability to concentrate and
focus on tasks is diminished and it will take time for your concentration to return so give
yourself extra time and be gentle and accepting of yourself and what you can do.
Take good care of yourself. Remember to:
a. Get enough rest and sleep. Sleep at least six hours and not more than nine hours. If
you are having difficulty sleeping, listen to peaceful or slow music and/or do
progressive relaxation before you go to sleep. Sleep helps our body heals and
strengthens our immune system.
b. Eat regularly and make healthy choices. Skipping meals, particularly breakfast,
contributes to fatigue, mood swings, and poor concentration. Healthy food choices
(not high in simple sugars) maintain blood sugar level, energy, and concentration of
the body.
c. Know your limits and when you need to let go. Some problems are beyond our
control. if something cannot be changed, work at accepting it for what it is. Resist the
urge to fix the unfixable or try to control the uncontrollable. Sometimes a mantra
helps: "It is what it is, I just need to accept it." For things within your control,
remember that change takes time. If you are holding on and need to let go, journal-
about it.
d. Identify or create a nurturing place in your home. A rocking chair, a nice view, and a
soothing music are important components to a nurturing place. Twenty minutes of
spending in a rocking chair reduces both your physical pain and anxiety. It is like
giving yourself a hug. Music and nature sounds nurture our being and lifts our spirits.
f. Escape for a while through meditation, reading a book, watching a movie, or taking a
short trip.
Self-compassion Therapy
Self-compassion is another way to counter stress. Kristin Neff (2012) has discussed
self-compassion in her article, "The Science of Self-Compassion."
"Self-compassion entails being warm and understanding toward ourselves when we
suffer, fail, or feel inadequate, rather than flagellating ourselves with self-criticism. It
recognizes that being imperfect and experiencing life difficulties is inevitable, so we soothe
and nurture ourselves when confronting our pain rather than getting angry when life falls
short of our ideals. We clearly acknowledge our problems and shortcomings without
judgment, so we can do what is necessary to help ourselves. We cannot always get what we
want. We cannot always be who we want to be. When this reality is denied or resisted,
suffering arises in the form of stress, frustration, and self-criticism. When this reality is
accepted with benevolence, however, we generate positive emotions of kindness and care that
help us cope. Self-compassion recognizes that life challenges and personal failures are part of
being human, an experience we all share. In this way, it helps us to feel less desolate and
isolated when we are in pain."
Self-compassion Phrases
Neff provided self-compassion phrases when feeling stress or emotional pain, perhaps
when you are caught in a traffic jam, arguing with a loved one, or feeling inadequate in some
way. It is helpful to have a set of phrases memorized to help you remember to be more
compassionate to yourself in the moment. You can take a deep breath, put your hand over
your heart, or gently hug yourself (if you feel comfortable doing so), and repeat the following
phrases:
This is a moment of suffering.
Suffering is a patt of life.
May I be kind to myself.
May I give myself the compassion I need.
These phrases capture the essence of the three components of selfcompassion. The first
phrase helps to mindfully open to the sting of emotional pain. (You can also just simply say
"This is really hard right now" or "This hurts.") The second phrase reminds us that suffering
unites all living beings and reduces the tendency to feel ashamed and isolated when things go
wrong in our lives. The third phrase begins the process of responding with self-kindness
rather than self-criticism. The final phrase reinforces the idea that you both need and deserve
compassion in difficult moments. Be experimental with the phrases. Other phrases that may
feel more authentic in a given situation are: "May I accept myself as I am," "May I forgive
myself," or "May I learn to accept what I cannot change." (Neff 2012)
Self-compassionate Letter
An example of a self-compassion exercise is the self-compassionate letter. This exercise has
been used in therapeutic programs. Below are the steps in doing the self-compassionate letter
exercise as provided by Neff (2012):
1. Candidly describe a problem that tends to make you feel bad about yourself, such as a
physical flaw, a relationship problem, or failure at work or school. Note what
emotions come up—shame, anger, sadness, fear—as you write.
2. Next, think of an imaginary friend who is unconditionally accepting and
compassionate; someone who knows all your strengths and weaknesses, understands
your life history, your current circumstances, and understands the limits of human
nature.
3. Finally, write a letter to yourself from that perspective. What would your friend say
about your perceived problem? What words would he or she use to convey deep
compassion? How would your friend remind you that you are only human? If your
friend were to make any suggestions, how would they reflect unconditional
understanding?
4. When you are done writing, put the letter down for a while and come back to it later.
Then read the letter again, letting the words sink in, allowing yourself to be soothed
and comforted.