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    Kink Worksheet

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    This document outlines a three step kink negotiation worksheet. Step one involves identifying one's kink role and experience level, what kink means to them, and why they want to engage in kink play. Step two details the specific activities one hopes to engage in or experiences, including roles, scenarios, types of contact, use of toys, marks or locations of marks. Step three outlines hard limits, including safewords, caution words, relevant health concerns or psychological triggers to avoid, and means to prevent STIs or pregnancy during sexual contact. The goal is open communication between partners to ensure a safe, consensual kink experience.

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    This document outlines a three step kink negotiation worksheet. Step one involves identifying one's kink role and experience level, what kink means to them, and why they want to engage in kink play. Step two details the specific activities one hopes to engage in or experiences, including roles, scenarios, types of contact, use of toys, marks or locations of marks. Step three outlines hard limits, including safewords, caution words, relevant health concerns or psychological triggers to avoid, and means to prevent STIs or pregnancy during sexual contact. The goal is open communication between partners to ensure a safe, consensual kink experience.

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    This document outlines a three step kink negotiation worksheet. Step one involves identifying one's kink role and experience level, what kink means to them, and why they want to engage in kink play. Step two details the specific activities one hopes to engage in or experiences, including roles, scenarios, types of contact, use of toys, marks or locations of marks. Step three outlines hard limits, including safewords, caution words, relevant health concerns or psychological triggers to avoid, and means to prevent STIs or pregnancy during sexual contact. The goal is open communication between partners to ensure a safe, consensual kink experience.

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    Kink Worksheet

    Uploaded by

    Kayla Hook
    This document outlines a three step kink negotiation worksheet. Step one involves identifying one's kink role and experience level, what kink means to them, and why they want to engage in kink play. Step two details the specific activities one hopes to engage in or experiences, including roles, scenarios, types of contact, use of toys, marks or locations of marks. Step three outlines hard limits, including safewords, caution words, relevant health concerns or psychological triggers to avoid, and means to prevent STIs or pregnancy during sexual contact. The goal is open communication between partners to ensure a safe, consensual kink experience.

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    Kink Negotiation Worksheet

    Step One: What Do I Want?


    My kink role is______________
    (Dominant, submissive, top, bottom, switch, slave, Master, pet, owner, girl/boy, Mommy/Daddy, vanilla…)

    My level of kink experience is _______________

    For me, kink is ________________


    (a fantasy, a hobby, a fetish, an orientation, a community, an experiment, a lifestyle...)

    I want to play because ________________


    (I’m curious, I’m horny, I want catharsis, I want new experiences, I want to please my partner, I just do…)

    When I play, I want to feel ____________________


    (turned on, scared, safe, powerful, humiliated, sensual, in control, out of control, pushed to my limit, cared for...)

    Step Two: What Will We Do?


    The one thing I would most like to experience today is __________________

    Do I want to engage in dominance/submission, physical play, or both? ___________


    Do I want to act out a certain role or scenario? ______________

    Do I want to feel/inflict pain? ______________


    Do I want to engage in bondage? ____________
    Do I want to use toys?____________ If yes, which ones?______________
    Do I want to have sexual contact? _____________ If yes, what kind?_______________

    Is it okay if I get/give marks? ______________ If yes, where? ________________


    Do I want to play in public, with selected people present, or in private? ____________

    Step Three: What Will We Not Do?


    My safeword is “RED” or __________ (If I cannot speak, my nonverbal safe signal is ___________)
    If I use this word, it means play needs to stop RIGHT NOW. Whether I am a top or a bottom, I can use this word at any
    time for any reason. I will never use this word as a joke or threat. I will never debate or criticize my partner's use of this
    word.

    My caution word is “YELLOW” or _____________


    If I use this word, it means I am getting close to my limit, or I am having a problem. Play needs to pause RIGHT NOW until
    we both understand and have addressed the problem.

    My relevant health concerns are ______________


    (STI/STDs, mobility/flexibility limitations, seizure disorder, pregnancy, clotting disorder, prosthetics/implants...)

    If I have PTSD/panic attack/phobia/other psychological triggers, they are______________


    (certain words, being called certain names, being touched in a certain way, being unable to move...)

    If we have sexual contact, we will avoid STI transmission and/or pregnancy by _______________

    Is there anything else my partner should know about me, my needs or my desires?____________

    Holly Pervocracy, 2012. www.pervocracy.com Feel free to copy, share or modify.

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